Name: 羅伯特-格林的誘惑藝術｜動畫書評 (The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene | Animated Book Review)
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“Every seduction has two elements that you must analyze and understand: first, yourself

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and what is seductive about you; and second, your target and the actions that will penetrate

Seduction starts off with who you are, the way you are expressing your seductive energy.

Robert Greene forms nine types of seducers, and in the end, finishing with an Anti-Seducer.

1. Sirens lure their targets with their image and tease.

They are packed with sex appeal and they are not afraid to show it.

2. Rakes adore the opposite sex; they are willing to do everything for it.

With their infectious desire, they can draw their target into a sensual moment where all

3. Ideal lovers can adapt to a targets mood, go along with it, find whats missing in their

Making them selves a perfect partner and ideal lover in every situation.

4. Dandies are all about presentation, striking and full of confidence they are people we

5. Naturals are very spontaneous and always open; they will take their time and hold nothing

6. Coquettes are self-sufficient and extremely narcissistic.

Instead of chasing Coquettes let themselves be chased.

7. Charmers are very social creatures; they are very pleasant to be around with.

8. Charismatics have a great amount of unusual confidence.

They create an illusion that they are born this way, that this comes from inside them.

9. Stars are always striving to put them selves on a pedestal, they are about being an actor

of great stories and dramas and always keeping their distance, being untouchable.

Anti-seducers are those that have a main attribute of insecurity, and when ts combined with some

other negative attribute, it creates a personality that will always repel.

They are everything that seducers are not.

Before continuing to 24 rule for successful seduction, Greene gives out one important

It's a follow thru of a golden rule: Opposites attract.

"What will seduce a person is an effort we expend on their behalf, showing how much we

The right victims are those for whom you can fill a void, who see in you something exotic.

Never rush into the waiting arms of the first person who seems to like you.

2. Creating a False Sense of Security, Approach Indirectly

To move from friendship to love can win success without calling attention to itself as a maneuver.

There is nothing more effective in seduction than making the seduced think that they are

What is obvious and striking may attract their attention at first, but that attention is

often short-lived; in the long run, ambiguity is much more potent.

4. Appear to Be an Object of Desire: Create Triangles

You see a man alone, whom nobody talks to for any length of time, and who is wandering

around without company; isn't there a kind of self-fulfilling isolation about him?

5. Create a need, stir anxiety and discontent

People are always susceptible to being seduced, because in fact everyone lacks a sense of

completeness, feels something missing deep inside.

Bring their doubts and anxieties to the surface, and they can be led and lured to follow you.

There is no known defense against insinuation— the art of planting ideas in people's minds

by dropping elusive hints that take root days later, even appearing to them as their own

Play by their rules, enjoy what they enjoy, adapt yourself to their moods.

In doing so, you will stroke their deep-rooted narcissism and lower their defenses.

As the serpent tempted Eve with the promise of forbidden knowledge, you must awaken a

desire in your targets that they cannot control.

Find that weakness of theirs, that fantasy that has yet to be realized, and hint that

9. Keep Them In Suspense, what comes next?

Behave in a way that leaves them wondering, What are you up to?

Doing something they do not expect from you will give them a delightful sense of spontaneity—

they will not be able to foresee what comes next.

10. Use the Demonic Power of Words to Sow Confusion

Inflame people's emotions with loaded phrases, flatter them, comfort their insecurities,

envelop them in fantasies, sweet words, and promises, and not only will they listen to

you, but they will also lose their will to resist you.

People mostly miss these things that are dead giveaways of certain feelings, reactions,

You can be dangerous, naughty, even somewhat vulgar, depending on the tastes of your victim.

In poetry (as opposed to reality), anything is possible.

13. Disarm Through Strategic Weakness and Vulnerability

The best way to cover your tracks is to make the other person feel superior and stronger.

If you seem to be weak, vulnerable, enthralled by the other person, and unable to control

yourself, you will make your actions look more natural, less calculated.

14. Confuse Desire and Reality— The Perfect Illusion

Your task as a seducer is to bring some flesh and blood into someone's fantasy life by embodying

a fantasy figure or creating a scenario resembling that person's dreams.

Separate them from their environment physically, emotionally, and mentally, so they can become

Cleverly lead your victim into a crisis, a moment of danger, or indirectly put them in

an uncomfortable position, and you can play the rescuer, the gallant knight.

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