This is Tripp from TrippAdvice.com and I'm coming to you from Paris, France.

我是 Tripp 來自 TrippAdvice.com 我在法國巴黎與你們見面。

Check it out, Eiffel Tower is right behind me.

看吧，艾菲爾鐵塔就在我身後。

So here I am in Paris, one of the most romantic cities in the world.

所以我在這裡，在巴黎，世界上最浪漫的城市之一。

And I thought, how appropriate to do a video on how to be charming.

然後我想，在這裡拍一部「如何變得更有魅力」的影片再適合不過了。

So today, I'm going to give you my simple formula for charm and it goes just like this.

所以今天，我打算給你們一個簡單的魅力公式，就像這樣。

Charm is composed of three different areas.

魅力由三種不同的區塊構築而成。

When you want to be charming with a girl, you need body language, tonality and flirting.

如果你想散發男性魅力，你需注意要肢體語言、音調和調情技巧。

Those are three components to be your most charming self.

那是自我散發出魅力的三要素。

So let's dig deep into that.

就讓我們繼續深入探討吧！

So first one is flirting.

第一個就是調情。

Now I have a lot of videos on my channel about flirting and I'm gonna pop them up bringing the videos here so you can go to other videos to learn about flirting.

現在我的頻道有很多關於調情的影片，我會把它們放在這邊，這樣你就能看其他影片學習如何調情了。

But I'll give you a little bit of a breakdown on what flirting is and why it's important.

但我還是會提供你一點關於調情的技巧並告訴你它為什麼重要。

So flirting is the mating dance between you and another girl.

調情是你對女孩的「求偶舞」。

This is going to be things like teasing her a little bit, you know, showing her your intentions, things like touching her to show her that you're interested.

這可能是小小地開她玩笑、向她表示你的意圖，透過輕撫的方式去告訴她你對她有意思。

Flirting is letting her know that you like her and that's a big part on being charming.

調情是讓她知道你喜歡她，這是構成魅力的重要部分。

So if you want more information on how to be flirtatious and how to flirt with a girl.

所以如果你想知道更多如何打情罵俏與調情的技巧。

Again, check out these videos, I'm putting right on the screen and it'll teach you exactly how to do that.

再一次，去看一下這些影片，我會把它們放在螢幕上方，它會教你怎麼做。

But there's more to it than just flirting.

但擁有魅力不只是調情而已。

When you want to be charming, it's all about your body language and your tonality.

當你想要變得有魅力，這完全取決於你的肢體語言和音調。

In terms of body language and being charming, it's all going to have to do with the way that you look at a girl, the way that you smile at her.

在用肢體語言散發魅力這方面，一切都與你看著女孩的方式、你對她微笑的方式有關。

So I even have another video that I shall put up here that talks about the secrets to get powerful attraction with a girl and it's the look of desire.

因此我甚至還有另一部影片，我也會把它放在這上面，那部影片談論到如何讓女生覺得你超吸引人的秘密，這就是所謂的視覺慾望。

It's the way that you look at her.

就是你看著她的方式。

It's the way that you kind of hold that grin.

就是你咧嘴微笑的方式。

It's the way that you almost squint your eyes as you're looking at her like you lust after her, like you like her.

就是你用一種幾乎瞇著眼睛的方式看著她，就像你貪戀她、愛慕她一樣。

That is going to be the charming look, and you use that while you flirt with her.

那就是有魅力的眼神，你與她調情的時候就應該用這樣的眼神。

And number three, the formula for charm, you want to make sure you the proper tonality, the way you talk with her.

然後魅力公式的第三點，當你與她交談時，你想確保你的音調是合適的。

You don't want to sound robotic.

你並不想要聽起來很生硬。

You don't want to be too soft.

你也不想要聽起來太過柔弱。

You want to be very confident in the way that you project your voice.

你希望透過你的嗓音投射出自己有自信的樣子。

So for example, I always tell guys you want to use your intentions when you're talking to a girl, and that's a good way to flirt.

舉例來說，我總是跟男生們說，當你和一個女孩說話時，請展現出你的意圖，而這是一個很好的調情方式。

So you can be charming with this.

所以你就會變得很有魅力。

So for example, if I tell a girl that she looks adorable, there's different ways I can say that.

舉例說明，如果我跟一個女孩說她很可愛，我有好多種方式可以說這句話。

I can only say "Oh, you look adorable."

我可以說：「喔，你好可愛。」

"You look adorable." Right?

「你好可愛。」對吧？

That's very bland, that's very one-sided.

那真的很乏味，也很單方面。

But if I say it with a specific tonality, it's going to make you come out charming.

但如果我用一種特別的音調去說，這會讓你變得更加有魅力。

So you say it like this.

所以你應該這麼說。

"You look adorable." Right?

「你很可愛。」對吧？

So it's just like that where you use your pauses, you use your inflections.

就像這樣你停頓、使語調有曲折變化。

So tonality is a big part of being charming and you want to use that when you flirt with a girl.

因此音調是當你在與女生調情的時候讓你變得更有魅力的一大重點。

So remember, the charm formula, body language, tonality and flirting.

請記住，魅力公式，肢體語言、音調和調情。

And you're going to want to remember this because women like men who are charming.

你一定想要牢牢記住這個公式因為女生都喜歡有魅力的男生。

When you're charming, that is the type of characteristic that women want in a man.

當你是個有魅力的人，這就是女生會希望男生身上所擁有的特質。

A very confident, charming guy.

一個有自信、有魅力的男人。

So remember that and use that for the next time you talk to a girl.

所以請記得以上公式並在下次與女生交談時實際運用。

I'm Tripp from TrippAdvice.com coming to you from Paris, France.

我是 Tripp 來自 TrippAdvice.com 我在法國巴黎與你們見面。

Go ahead and subscribe to the channel because I'm putting out more videos every single week.

快去訂閱頻道因為我每周都會上傳新影片喔！

Thank you so much for watching and I'll see you on the next video.

謝謝觀賞，我們下支影片見！