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  • Okay so we have an online writing program calledself-authoringand that helps

  • people construct the narrative of their life.

  • That's a good way of thinking about it.

  • And so part of the narrative of your life is what happened to you in the past that made

  • you who you are nowgood and bad.

  • And part of what you want to dothink about the purpose of memory.

  • Well the purpose of memory is to remember the past.”

  • It's likeNo, that's wrong!”

  • The purpose of memory is so that you take from the past what you need not to do stupid

  • things again in the future.

  • So the purpose of memory is to learn from the past so that you can construct the future

  • more effectively.

  • So now if you've had terrible things happen to you in the past and you don't understand

  • them, what that means is that you're insufficiently prepared for the future.

  • And that means you're going to be in a constant state of anxiety and stress.

  • And so if you write about your past and you do a causal analysis of the good and the bad

  • things that happen to you, then that arms you more effectively for operation in the

  • present and the future.

  • And that produces an increment in physical health by the way.

  • Okay, so that's the past-authoring program.

  • It asks you to divide your life into epochs and to outline the emotionally significant

  • events and to essentially do a causal analysis of them.

  • So it's like you're getting the gist of the story of your life down.

  • You're articulating yourself.

  • So the present-authoring program uses a personality model to help you identify your faults (so

  • that you can improve them) and your virtues (so that you can continue to capitalize on

  • them).

  • It's the simplest of the three subprograms.

  • And the future-authoring program, which is the one we've done the most research on,

  • helps you first of all formulate a vision for your life.

  • So the idea is okay, imagine that you're charged with your own care and that you've

  • determined to do a good job of it.

  • Okay, and then it asks you specific questions about your life.

  • If you could have what you wanted three to five years down the road, what would be good

  • for you?

  • What do you want from your friends?

  • What do you want from your career?

  • Are you going to educate yourself?

  • What do you want from your family?

  • What do you want from an intimate relationship?

  • How are you going to handle pitfalls like drug and alcohol use and other sorts of temptations?

  • How are you going to take care of yourself mentally and physically?

  • What are you going to do with your time outside of work that's productive and meaningful?

  • If you could have what you wanted and that would be good for you, what would that look

  • like?

  • And then it asks you to write for 15 minutes about what your life could be like if those

  • conditions were met three to five years in the future.

  • Then it asks you to do the reverse.

  • Take stock of your failings.

  • Imagine they get out of hand and things aren't so good for you three to five years down the

  • road.

  • What does that look like?

  • Okay, now you've established two points: Something to strive for and something to stay

  • the hell away from.

  • And that's maximally motivating, because if you want to be motivated to do something,

  • you can't just be hopeful about it.

  • You have to be hopeful about doing it and afraid of not doing it.

  • And that way your anxiety is behind you pushing you forward instead of in front of you stopping

  • you.

  • Because like imagine you wanted to undertake a new enterprise.

  • You might sayOh my god, look at all the risks!

  • Look at all the threat!”

  • And that could paralyze you.

  • But if you can say simultaneouslyYeah, fair enough, but look where I might end up

  • if I don't do it.”

  • LikeOh!

  • Well, that's a whole different issue.”

  • It's like, “Well there's dangers ahead of you, but there's dangers behind you too.”

  • So maybe it's worthwhile taking the risk.

  • So anyway you want to have both your negative and your positive emotion systems working

  • for you.

  • Then in the future-authoring program you take your positive vision and you develop an implementable

  • plan which includes philosophical justifications.

  • So one question would be all right, break your vision up into nine practical steps.

  • Develop an implementation strategy.

  • And then articulate why, if you accomplish goal one your life would be better, your family's

  • life would be better, your society would function better.

  • Because you need deep reasons to keep you on track, because otherwise your own doubts

  • will undo you let alone other people's opposition.

  • You have to articulate your rationale so that you can quell your doubts and move forward

  • powerfully.

  • And so those programs, that program in particular has a very salutary effect on people.

  • So we've given it to thousands of university students now in business schools in particular.

  • Thirty percent improvement in overall retention.

Okay so we have an online writing program calledself-authoringand that helps

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