Name: 如何獲得一個令人驚歎的女朋友（卡通片 (How To Get an AMAZING Girlfriend (Animated))
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that if they're just nice, friendly, open-minded,

只要體貼、友善，而且心胸寬闊

未來簡單式

but a lot of times, this is not really the reality.

但大多時候，這種事不會發生在現實生活

you may never find the girl of your dreams.

可能你一輩子都遇不到自己的夢中情人

所以，如何才能交到理想女友呢？

If you want an amazing girlfriend, there are two truths

如果你想要一個理想的女友，有兩件事

that you need to understand and eternalize.

是你必須了解並將它永遠放在心中

The first truth is that you need to learn

How can you expect someone else to love you unconditionally

你怎麼能奢望有人可以無條件地愛你

High quality women want a guy who's comfortable and happy

優秀的女性想找的是一位相處起來舒服並能夠獨立的男性

in his book called 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.

在他的著作《與成功有約》提到這一點

there is a good chance this relationship will not work out.

why a lot of relationships don't work out today.

This is where you say, okay, I love myself,

I don't have this need for someone else to complete me,

If you are here, you are in a fantastic spot

如果你是這樣的話，代表你到達了很棒的階段

and you are already ahead of most other guys.

This is where two very independent people come together

but if we get together, if we strive together,

if we build this epic relationship over the next few months,

如果我們能建立這種美好的關係過了幾個月後

The sum is greater than its different parts.

So how do you reach this level of co-dependence?

所以，要怎樣才能達到互相依存關係呢？

For me personally, it's having good health,

我個人來說，我想要健康的身體

having amazing friendships, having strong family values,

and traveling around the world, and essentially,

just doing what I want on a day to day basis.

並且為日常所需的一切事物而努力

But again, you need to figure this out for yourself.

再次提醒，你必須獨自找出答案

And it cannot start with your girlfriend.

This is basically the mentality where you want to come from.

But having this girl in my life will add even more value.

我的生活很美好，但如果跟她在一起，我的生活會更有價值

But she's also there to kiss my wounds when I am hurt.

I want you to view your life like a bowl of ice cream.

You have all of your favorite stuff in that bowl.

You got chocolate ice cream, vanilla ice cream,

裡面有巧克力冰淇淋、香草冰淇淋

Nutella, frosting, whatever, you have everything

that creates a fantastic bowl of ice cream.

is almost like having whipped cream on top of the ice cream.

幾乎就像冰淇淋上淋了生奶油一樣

but having here there will just make every single bite

The second truth that you need to understand

you need to come from a place of abundance.

你必須成為一個有內涵、知識充實的人

A quality girl does not want a guy who is very needy

為了交女朋友而追求自己的人在一起

意思是，她們會觀察你的渴望程度

So in order to come from a place of abundance,

為了成為一位有內涵、知識充實的人

you need to be constantly working on yourself.

You need to be trying to improve your intelligence

you need to be meeting other cool people,

you need to be able to add value to that girl's life.

你必須能夠在另一半的生活中增添價值

And when I say value, I don't mean money.

you can make her laugh, you can make her feel comfortable,

你可以讓她開心，讓她感到溫暖

Introducing your awesome social circle to her

並將她融入到自己美好的社交圈

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