We want to be the hero, we want to slay the dragon,

我們想要當英雄、想要屠龍

we want to marry the princess and save the world.

想要娶走公主並拯救世界

Becoming a lion does not happen overnight, though.

成為獅子不是一夜之間就會發生的事

In fact, some of us men never become a lion.

事實上，很多男人一輩子都沒能成為獅子

Some men stay in the camel state until the day they die.

許多男性到臨終前都一直處於駱駝狀態

As a man and you procrastinate, that's actually the

身為一位男性，拖延就等同於

lion growing within you.

讓內心的獅子變強大

I'll tell you what I mean in just a moment.

稍後我會說明這句話是什麼意思

But basically when you feel this procrastination,

但基本上你感覺到這種拖延情況

you are moving into a new phase in your life where you

就代表你進入到了一個新的

will say, "No, I won't."

會說「不，我不會這樣做」的人生階段

But right now it's kind of a passive aggressive

但現在你不太能說「不，我不會這樣做」

no I won't because you can't really say to your boss

因為你不能跟你的上司

or teacher, "I won't do my homework, I won't go to class,

或是師長說：「我不想做功課、我不會去上課

"I won't sit still and be quiet."

我不想乖乖坐在這裡」

Because you are still a camel.

因為這時的你還是隻駱駝

This camel concept comes from someone named

這個駱駝概念出自於一位名叫

Fredrick Niche, where he describes the spiritual

弗里德里希．尼采的哲學家，他提出了

evolution of the man.

男人心理層面進化的概念

The stage in your life where you are physically,

當你的身體

emotionally, and spiritually immature is your camel stage.

情緒及心理上都還不成熟時，稱為駱駝階段

What is a camel?

駱駝是什麼意思？

A camel is a beast of burden.

駱駝代表的是你承擔著別人的期望

From the day you are born your family, teachers,

從出生那天起，你的家人、老師

friends will start laying burdens upon your back.

朋友就開始將期望附加在你身上

Like you're supposed to make your bed, you're supposed

例如：你應該要整理床鋪、你應該

to go to school, you're supposed to get a stable job,

去上學、你應該去找一份穩定的工作

you're supposed, supposed, supposed, supposed to.

你應該、應該、應該這樣、應該那樣

And you bow down and accept these burdens.

而你就這樣低下頭、承擔這些期望

The moment when you first start to question things

當你開始質疑事物時

is your first step towards maturity.

就是邁向成熟的第一步

It's when you first start questioning all the burdens that

這是你第一次質疑

have been laid upon you.

別人在你身上附加的期望

A common time to start questioning these things is when

開始質疑事物最常見的時間點是

you first start entering the desert, AKA when you first

當你進入了「沙漠」，也就是你

enter the real world.

進入了現實世界

So this will be right after high school,

這會在你從高中

maybe right after college, or when you get your first job.

大學畢業後，或是開始第一份工作時發生

It's when you first enter the real world which I

這是你第一次進到真實世界，也就是

will refer to as the desert.

我說的「沙漠」

So the camel stands up and starts wandering around

駱駝站起來並開始在沙漠中

the desert and he meets a dragon named Thou-Shout.

遊蕩，直到牠遇見的一條叫做 Thou-Shout 的龍

And every single scale on the dragon has something

龍身上的每塊鱗片都代表每一件你

you were supposed to do.

該做的事

It is your responsibility as a maturing individual

身為一位成熟的個體

to slay that dragon.

你有責任屠殺該條龍

Because you can either slay it or lay down as a beast

因為可以選擇屠龍或是成為

of burden and allow all the shouts to control you.

身負期望的駱駝，並讓其他人的期望控制你

The dragon will control your life for eternity and

這條龍會永遠控制你的人生

this is how most men live.

而這是大多男性一輩子的情況

You have to slay that dragon.

你必須屠殺這條龍

The procrastination is the anxiety of all the shouts

這種拖延是他人附加在你身上期望

that are being laid upon you.

的所有焦躁情緒

It's the voice in you that wants you to say no.

這是你心中想拒絕這些期望的聲音

By slaying the dragon you will become a lion and

屠龍後，你就會變成獅子

the name of that lion is I will and no.

那頭獅子的名字就是「我會、我不會」

The no represents all the people telling you

「我不會」表示你不會

what you're supposed to do.

照他人期望做事

You destroy the dragon by saying, "No, no, no."

你用「我不會、我不會、我不會」屠殺了這條龍

Once you slay the dragon with the no you begin

一旦用「我不會」的作法屠殺這條龍後

your new journey as I Will.

你就開始了「我會」的階段

And most men never become men of I Will.

而大多男性從未到達的「我會」階段

Once you become the lion, you are completely (mumbles).

一旦成為獅子，你完全 (聽不出在說什麼)

You use pure will to get what you want.

你會以自己的期望達成目標

The will is your heartbeat, it's your breathing,

那期望是你的心跳、你的呼吸

it's literally your chest expanding and contracting,

簡單來說，就是在你心中不斷擴張及延伸的

it's your soul.

也就是你的靈魂

As an animal of I will you go out into the real world

身為一隻「我會」的動物，你進入了真實世界

and you do whatever you want to do.

主導自己的人生

You choose the type of woman you want,

你會選擇一位心中理想的伴侶

you choose the type of lifestyle you want,

選擇自己想過的生活

you choose the type of job you want,

選擇自己想做的工作

you choose everything.

你主導了一切

The lion does not bow down to anything,

獅子不會向任何人事物低頭

he will starve before he bows down to another animal.

這類男性寧可獨自承擔後果，也不願向其他人期望的低頭

"Kill me or I'll starve."

「別人無法左右我、我可以為自己作主」

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