"My life is so hard." - [Dimitri] "Meh, poor me.

"I'm such a baby."

- [Mallory] When I feel bad, I can't cum, and...

(groans)

- My penis wanted to retreat inside of my body.

(suspenseful orchestral music)

- On average, we have sex about five times a week.

- Oh yeah.

- Once a month.

- No, we have sex...

- Twice a month.

- Two to three times a week.

- Average, during the week we probably

have twice, twice or three times.

- This sounds so difficult.

- I think we're a couple born and bred for this challenge.

- Oh, I'm just the kind of person that the minute

I have to do something, it's just like...

- Okay, so rules.

- So one, it has to be every day.

- At least one of us has to get off every time.

- Two, has to go in.

- Handies don't count.

- Right, they're masturbation.

- Three, someone has to cum.

- So it doesn't have to be necessarily penetration.

- No.

- There just has to be climaxing on both parties.

- Both parties.

- Okay.

- Do we get a one day tap out, or no?

- I don't think so.

It's 30 days, no tap out. - [Suki] No one day tap out?

Okay, fine.

- [Dimitri] I'm afraid it's gonna be a matter

of be careful what you wish for, you just might get it.

(gentle orchestral music)

- Hi, I'm Dr. Ava Cadell, I'm a sexologist,

an author, and I have my own university.

So I've been teaching sex for over 20 years and I love it.

The benefits of having regular sex in a relationship

is that you have intimate communication.

You both feel desired and loved, very important.

- It's day one and...

- So far a success.

- How are we feelin'?

- I feel great, this is gonna be easy.

- First day went off without a hitch.

This challenge should be pretty easy, can't wait to

keep it going, I don't see any obstacles in the way.

- But I say we started pretty strong, eh?

- Yeah and don't count your chickens

before they have sex though.

- Sex keeps the chemistry, the juices flowing

mentally, physically, emotionally, even spiritually.

- I went to sleep last night, then 1:00 AM hits

and Kevin is nudging me while I'm sleeping.

He's like, "Babe, we didn't have sex."

And so he woke me up and we had to have sex.

(laughs)

- Uh...

Yeah, I gotta tell ya, I'm pretty sick of this right now.

- Definitely don't wanna bone anymore.

- Yeah, I'm kinda gettin' sick

of bonin' to be honest with you.

I'm not saying I'm not happy.

- No.

- I'm just saying I'm a little annoyed.

I'm a little annoyed.

- A little annoyed.

- So it's the morning of day eight

and last night Kevin and I failed.

It's pretty upsetting because we failed so early.

This moving into a new place has

been a pretty emotional road block.

- This is a sad day and last night we didn't make it.

I think our schedules just weren't lining up

and it finally caught up with us.

(soft instrumental music)

- Have you noticed that your relationship has changed?

- I guess I used to cum every time

and now I only cum 50 percent of the time.

- You can enjoy the journey of making love

and having sex even more than the destination,

'cause orgasm doesn't equal sex.

- I don't think we have been

enjoying it as much as we used to.

- So I think for the remainder

of the challenge it would be great

if you could make it more fun, more playful.

Share your sexual fantasies erotically.

(laughs)

- And take turns initiating the sex,

the kind of sex, so more variety.

- Once we get into it, I love it,

but it's just the getting into it that's now become harder.

- It's like, let's take one of my favorite things to do

on this planet and turn it into a chore.

- To get started you just have to get naked.

You have to look at each other, you can hug, right?

- Oh yeah.

So I guess moving forward one of our goals

is to make sure that it doesn't

become burdensome and it doesn't--

- It's not a chore.

- Yeah.

- No, it won't, if you set your intentions

and I think what you can do is

have an intention to have romantic sex tonight,

sensual sex tomorrow, kinky sex the next day.

- I feel like lately, and if I can be honest here,

I feel like my dick is gonna fall off.

(laughs)

- So far it's a scheduling nightmare

just because I have shit to do, he has shit to do.

For me, it's a helpful experiment for me to be like,

you just have to decide to have sex.

- So what do you want the outcome to be after the 30 days?

- I think that we wanna have more sex.

- But I think you guys are really having fun with this.

- [Dimitri] We're havin' a blast.

- I'm impressed.

- How's it been going for everybody else?

Everyone else okay?

(laughs)

- We've missed four days already.

When you have a challenge like this,

it's hard to really get horny about it.

Pretty over it.

- I'm back on board.

I'm sorry I ever said anything negative.

- It's definitely less of a thing.

Once it's in the routine, it's in the routine.

- We learned to accept it, I think.

- I think so.

- And it just became fun again.

We had a dip there, couple weeks ago, we had a bit of a dip.

- God, it was so not fun then.

- Yeah, it wasn't fun.

It's great, I am so on board for this.

- Yeah, everybody should do it.

- Everybody should do this

at least once. - [Suki] At least try it.

- [Kevin] I think we're both

looking forward to the end of it.

Found some new stuff about what we're like as a couple.

I don't recommend this at all.

It was something I thought I could do

and push through it and it got

the best of me and Mallory I'd say.

(soft jazz music)

- [Both] We did it.

- I guess.

- Almost made it.

- We had to stop short.

I got a cold and then he got the flu.

- Our private parts survived.

- That's a feat.

- Yeah.

- We looked like a pile of laundry

on top of another pile of laundry.

(laughs)

- People who have sex every day, I give you guys props.

Whoo.

- If you had asked me week one if we would finish,

I would of said, "Go fuck yourself."

- We were just really ambitious

and the moment we fell behind it

was really hard to pick up the pieces.

- This was vastly more challenging than we expected.

- Way more challenging.

- We're probably not gonna continue

to have sex every day, but I definitely think

we'll continue to have more sex.

No one wants to work out.

You do that anyway.

- You do it anyway.

- It makes you feel good.