字幕列表 影片播放 列印英文字幕 Nobody likes uncomfortable moments. It just feels uncomfortable. So when you are trying to start a conversation there is presumably this gap that you're trying to fill. so my advice is to have a few tricks in your back pocket that you can automatically default to, to immediately break that uncomfortable silence and ignite a really interesting conversation. So let's take for example you're in a new environment where a lot of strangers are coming together and when you walk into the space maybe you're naturally gravitate towards an individual maybe because you like what they're wearing or you just somehow seem drawn to them. What are the techniques I love to do is really genuinely acknowledge something that you find interesting about them. It could be commenting on a button they're wearing or shoes that they have on or maybe the way they styled her hair who knows or or a jacket that the one who knows but it's something that is inspired on on them that you can spark the conversation and you're having a shared experience because they're they're wearing it or their embodying it and your acknowledging it. Now the second thing that I like to do is take the idea of a shared experience to the environment itself. You both in the same place maybe there is a statement that you can knowledge about what's happening in the room or the people or how excited you are to hear such-and-such speaker. There's something that you can connect to that is a shared experience and thirdly I'm always intrigued by the question of: so what brought you here today. I want to know why. I love knowing why people do the things that they do, even if it's why did they come to that event. You would be amazed at the stories that you hear and the opening that's created. So if you wanna start an interesting conversation have a couple of sparks of topics that you can bring to the table that immediately sets people at ease. Now with all of these examples one thing is for certain. Your energy is going to attract that energy to you. So if you're showing up in an event and you're feeling confident. You're feeling warm and you have the ability to just open yourself up to the people around you that also helps you start a conversation, because you're basically wearing a billboard that says yes I wanna meet you. Yes I wanna talk to you. So with that energy in mind have three things that you can have in your back pocket to bring up as conversation starters and believe me you will never want for anyone to talk to.