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How, do you control rumors and gossip within an organization
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That's pretty easy you just you just talked
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About being you know getting out there with, the truth and your propaganda arm to outside your company it's, no different inside your company
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You've got to make sure that people
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Eat it's an interesting that when you work
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We work with leaders sometimes you see people that i why i don't, want to share this with
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My, people you know cuz, i don't know, what they might think like, there are they're thinking
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Yeah, something that may be totally not true they're, not just sitting there not thinking anything because you're not sharing it with
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Them they're coming up to their, own conclusions, which may be completely false or opposite but like
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We say in the in the navy all the time you know perception is reality that becomes reality so you've got a
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You got a you can defeat the gossip and rumors. By actually just sharing the truth be open, with. People and
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And and and be in first out there with a, message so people get an understanding and even when horrible
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Bad things go wrong extreme ownership right if if you take
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Ownership for that and say hey listen this happened here's what we're doing to fix it here's what we're doing to turn things around
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it's kind of the
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People people are not gonna lose respect. For you in the organization, they're actually gonna, gain respect for you as a result something
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We talk, about all the time so don't be afraid to do that
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Again, just get the message out there and and be transparent and talk to folks
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If you, don't tell people what's going on they're, gonna make up their, own
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ideas of what's going on and the thing that i have to i
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Have to, we have to, we have to take this just a little bit further right just a little bit further because
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We talked, about transparency right, and that war gets thrown. Around all the time and
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of the idea that you're just gonna you that the idea that, you're just gonna tell everyone exactly, what's going on and
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That sounds great and it's like, hey i'm a fully transparent leader and i'm gonna, tell you what's going on but there's times
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Where you actually, don't want to
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Do that there's times where you have to maneuver and you have to be tactful and some of the things that you might tell someone
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Actually is not the right thing to do now, and i i'm not saying
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We're, gonna be dishonest with our people i'm not saying that
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And i'm saying that transparency is a great thing but i mean just on a personal level
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If leif's leaves up working for me and
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he's
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Not doing he's doing something horrible is the best way to go, about that to fully, true full transparency is hey life
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You're, doing horrible at this
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Is that the best way to do it in front of out the entire in front of thing right is that
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Is that it's full transparency right hey i'm fully transparent, okay everyone welcome to the meeting today
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By the way i just wanted to point out that life to missus numbers again, and he's a loser?
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That might, be what i'm thinking that's fully transparent hey?
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Guys, just beat and and you love this too right just being transparent leif's an
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Laysa, loser he missed his numbers again, and you know, what i'm actually thinking, about firing him just in case anyone was wondering
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So that's that's, my getaway to close the business friday did i do a
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Good, job right so so let's not get carried
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Away, right you know, what is the smart, way this smart ways to maneuver the smart, way is to say, okay?
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Lace not doing what, he what he, no, wants to what he should be doing if i go and accuse him of failing?
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What's his reaction, gonna be how is it so?
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What i do instead instead i go i want to take ownership of it and so instead i said hey lafe you know. Hey
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He comes and come to come come i laughs i want to talk to you bout a couple things so he comes to my
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office or not in a public place and
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Now it's hey, lafe, hey man i noticed that you you know
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You, you missed your numbers and i'm thinking that maybe i'm not giving
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You the kind of support that you need to get where you need to be is there anything else that you need
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from me so that you can win
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Again inside sure i'm thinking life, you pathetic loser you missed your numbers again
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Right but i'm not gonna, do that so the full transparency thing i get it and?
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it makes sense
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but we do have to consider
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The tertiary and the secondary and tertiary effects of the things that, we say especially as a leader you
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What you say has a lot of impact as a leader and sometimes i see leaders they make a
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Little off-the-cuff remark, about something you know. Oh that won't matter, oh?
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Oh, okay, so it doesn't matter or so so this little thing you know
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Hey, hey, boss we wanted to get this this task, done by this date is it still important
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Ah doesn't matter, okay?
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So it doesn't matter so what i was working on for last month and a half doesn't matter okay cool great
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If i was fully transparent
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So just be careful use tact
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Use your, brain, yeah that's that's 100% correct i think you know
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What i was trying to explain in the first situation is i mean i was having a conversation with a leader that
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We work with, who was you know telling, me that there was a key leader in his team that didn't, want to share with
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Any of his key leaders that
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They, you know
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They, they're, the!
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He didn't, want to share with the key leaders that they were they were haven't having, some issues and having
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Some dire straits wonder you know. Getting to a point, where they're wondering hey, i don't know. If we're gonna make payroll
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You know a few months from now if we don't turn?
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These things around but i don't, want to share that with
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Them because i don't want him to panic mmm and when i when i heard that i was like?
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What kind of panic are they, gonna have, when they find out?
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Yeah, they can't make payroll but, no one told him of that and they thought everything
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Was great so the pen is gonna be a hundred times worse yeah then
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And that's that's the kind of transparency i'm talking, about we're like listen you need to go
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And have a direct conversation to say guys here's, where we're at
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Yeah, and that should be something to help get them in year be like listen, we have got to we've got to hit
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These numbers we've got to get things, going, again, we gotta turn performance around or this is where we're?
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Gonna be next quarter if we don't do that and i think those?
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That's the kind of thing i'm talking about where you're not keeping the secrets is it not helping you out because
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By, the way everyone knows the numbers right so they know. They already probably know
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You're, in dire straits and they're thinking, well i better find a
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Backup job and they're gonna leave and now you're an even worse straight so yeah absolutely
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You, don't need, to hide information from from the team