People move.

搬家。

I don't want to move to New York.

我不想搬到紐約。

But, they just have better pizza.

但紐約的披薩就是比較好吃。

You get into fights.

你們會吵架。

Dude! How many times do I have to tell you that Los Angeles has great pizza?!

老兄！要跟你講幾次？洛杉磯也有好吃的披薩！

Life gets crazy.

生活忙碌到爆。

We could probably get together on...Thursday of January.

我們可以約一月的某個星期四。

2017.

2017 年。

No matter what's the reason, we all know what it's like to lose a friend, and...it sucks.

無論什麼原因，我們都懂失去朋友的感覺，那感覺糟透了。

It's kinda like a breakup where you have this period of being just sad.

就像分手，你有段時間會感到很難過。

And you wanna call them.

想要打電話給對方。

And you wanna know where it all went wrong.

想知道哪裡出錯了。

And you're mourning, and you're moping.

會沮喪、自怨自艾。

Until finally one day, you wish them well, and you move on with your life.

直到有天，你會祝福他們，然後繼續你的人生。

The first step is to self-reflect.

第一步，自省。

And to try to find something that you learned from the friendship.

找出你從這段友誼中學會的事。

Because something about mentally learning something from an experience makes it feel whole and complete.

因為經驗給我們的領悟能讓我們感到完整。

And, in essence, finished.

並從本質上，告一段落。

Second, don't let this experience deter you from emotionally engaging from other people.

第二，不要因為這次經驗而不敢與其他人交流心靈。

Don't let one experience with someone completely change how you interact with other people.

不要因和某人的單一相處經驗而改變跟其他人的互動方式。

And finally, let yourself feel the feelings.

最後，讓自己去感受。

There are so many times when our past comes up, and we just want to push it away.

太多時候，過往回憶襲來時，我們只想將它推開。

Or our first instinct is to be like, "Oh don't think about that! FUCK THAT! FUCK. THAT."

第一反應總是像這樣：「不要去想那個！去他的！去！他！的！」

But, it's important to give yourself permission.

但允許自己思念過去是很重要的。

So if you miss someone, let yourself just miss them.

所以如果你想念某人，就想吧！

And, be like, "You know what, that's fine. I really miss that person, in this moment, but it's over for a reason."

對自己說：「這沒什麼大不了，我現在很想念他，但我們分開是有原因的。」

And let yourself sit with that for as long as you need to sit with that.

讓自己想念，給自己充分的時間。

Ultimately, we're all gonna lose a lot of friends throughout our life.

人生中，我們最終都會失去很多朋友。

But we're also gonna gain a lot of friends and a lot of experiences.

但我們也會結交許多新朋友、經歷許多事。

So, it works out! Hey!

所以，別擔心！事情終有解答。

Stay awesome, Gotham. Ha!

你是最棒的！再會！