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I want to share with you
譯者: katherine yu 審譯者: Zhu Jie
some ideas about the secret power of time,
我想和大家分享
in a very short time.
關於時光魅力的秘密,
Video: All right, start the clock please. 30 seconds studio.
而我只有很短的時間.
Keep it quiet please. Settle down.
視頻:準備好了,開始計時,三十秒倒計時.
It's about time. End sequence. Take one.
保持安靜.一切就緒.
15 seconds studio.
時間快到了.到了.再來一次.
10, nine, eight, seven,
15秒到計時.
six, five, four, three, two ...
10,9,8,7,
Philip Zimbardo: Let's tune into the conversation
6,5,4,3,2......
of the principals in Adam's temptation.
菲利浦津巴多:現來看看這段對話
"Come on Adam, don't be so wishy-washy. Take a bite." "I did."
是"亞當的誘惑".
"One bite, Adam. Don't abandon Eve."
嘿,亞當,別磨蹭了. 咬一口吧.我可是咬過了.
"I don't know, guys.
就一口,亞當.不要忘了伊娃喔.
I don't want to get in trouble."
不行呀,夥計們.
"Okay. One bite. What the hell?"
我可不愿惹麻煩.
(Laughter)
好吧,就一口.有什麼了不起呀!
Life is temptation. It's all about yielding, resisting,
(笑聲)
yes, no, now, later, impulsive, reflective,
生活中到處是誘惑.屈服,抵抗,
present focus and future focus.
是, 否,現在,以後,衝動,沉穩,
Promised virtues fall prey to the passions of the moment.
關注現在和展望未來.
Of teenage girls who pledged sexual abstinence and virginity until marriage --
迅間的激情會打敗道德觀念.
thank you George Bush --
那些曾宣誓要在婚前確保貞操的少女
the majority, 60 percent, yielded to sexual temptations within one year.
這一點要感謝小布施-
And most of them did so without using birth control.
大多數,約有60%,會在一年內違背自己的諾言.
So much for promises.
而他們中的大多數都沒有採取防範措施.
Now lets tempt four-year-olds, giving them a treat.
多美好的承諾啊.
They can have one marshmallow now. But if they wait
現在來試試四歲的小孩,給他們吃得好了.
until the experimenter comes back, they can have two.
他們現在有一顆棉花糖.但是如果他們願意等
Of course it pays, if you like marshmallows, to wait.
到試驗員回來再吃的話,他們會有兩顆.
What happens is two-thirds of the kids give in to temptation.
當然是要付出代價,你想要棉花糖的話,就得等.
They cannot wait. The others, of course, wait.
結果是2/3的孩子經不住誘惑.
They resist the temptation. They delay the now for later.
他們不能等.而另一些孩子,卻等到了.
Walter Mischel, my colleague at Stanford,
等的孩子抵住了誘惑.明白付出是為了得到.
went back 14 years later,
沃爾特.米舍爾,我斯丹福大學的同事,
to try to discover what was different about those kids.
在十四年後
There were enormous differences between kids who resisted
對這些孩子的不同進行追蹤調查.
and kids who yielded, in many ways.
這差別可大了. 經得住抵抗的孩子
The kids who resisted scored 250 points higher on the SAT.
與妥協的孩子在很多方面都不同.
That's enormous. That's like a whole set of different IQ points.
經受住誘惑的孩子SAT的成績平均要高出250分.
They didn't get in as much trouble. They were better students.
這太可觀了. 差不多是一整套不同水平的智商測試.
They were self-confident and determined. And the key for me today,
這些學生不會去惹麻煩.他們都是好學生.
the key for you,
他們自信,堅強. 而對我的啟發
is, they were future-focused rather than present-focused.
也是對你們大家的啟發是
So what is time perspective? That's what I'm going to talk about today.
他們能夠將"現實"轉化為 "未來".
Time perspective is the study of how individuals,
因此,如何看待時間呢?這就是我今天要講的話題.
all of us, divide the flow of your human experience
看待時間是研究個體,
into time zones or time categories.
我們大家,將所有的人生經歷劃分為
And you do it automatically and non-consciously.
不同的時間區域或時間類別.
They vary between cultures, between nations,
並且是在自動和無意識下做得.
between individuals, between social classes,
劃分方式的不同會從文化,國家,
between education levels.
個人,社會階層,
And the problem is that they can become biased,
教育水平等來決定.
because you learn to over-use some of them and under-use the others.
但問題是不同因素會產生偏見.
What determines any decision you make?
因為你在某方面會使用過頭,而另方面卻沒有充分利用.
You make a decision on which you're going to base an action.
是什麼促使你做決定呢?
For some people it's only about what is in the immediate situation,
一旦做出決定,就要行動了.
what other people are doing and what you're feeling.
某些人,只看到當時的情景,
And those people, when they make their decisions in that format --
別人現在做的事,和自己現在的感受.
we're going to call them "present-oriented,"
這些人做決定時,會按那樣的模式--
because their focus is what is now.
我們稱這些人為"現實主義".
For others, the present is irrelevant.
因為他們關注的是現在.
It's always about "What is this situation like that I've experienced in the past?"
對另一些人,現在並不重要.
So that their decisions are based on past memories.
重要的是 "我在過去是否有過類似的經歷?"
And we're going to call those people "past-oriented," because they focus on what was.
因此他們的決定會依據過去的經驗.
For others it's not the past, it's not the present,
我們稱這些人為 "懷舊主義". 因為他們關注的是過去.
it's only about the future.
而對另一部分人,過去和現在都不重要.
Their focus is always about anticipated consequences.
重要的是將來.
Cost-benefit analysis.
他們專注於所期待的結果.
We're going to call them "future-oriented." Their focus is on what will be.
彷彿如成本效益分析.
So, time paradox, I want to argue,
我們稱他們為 "理想主義". 他們關注的是未來.
the paradox of time perspective,
因此,時間悖論,這裡我要討論的是
is something that influences every decision you make,
時間觀念上的悖論
you're totally unaware of.
是否會影響你做出的每一個決定,
Namely, the extent to which you have one of these
而你渾然不知.
biased time perspectives.
那麼你其實已附有這樣的一個
Well there is actually six of them. There are two ways to be present-oriented.
帶有偏見的時間悖論了.
There is two ways to be past-oriented, two ways to be future.
實際上,時間悖論有六種解釋. 其中兩個屬於"現實主義".
You can focus on past-positive, or past-negative.
兩個屬於 "懷舊主義", 兩個屬於 "理想主義".
You can be present-hedonistic,
你可以是"正面懷舊" 或 "負面懷舊".
namely you focus on the joys of life, or present-fatalist --
也可以是"享受主義者".
it doesn't matter, your life is controlled.
專注於享受生活,或自甘墮落成"宿命論者".
You can be future-oriented, setting goals.
這並不重要.重要的是你要有所掌控.
Or you can be transcendental future:
你可以是"理想主義",從而設定目標.
namely, life begins after death.
也可以是"先知覺者".
Developing the mental flexibility to shift time perspectives fluidly
宣揚生命起始于安息之後.
depending on the demands of the situation,
從發展思維的靈活性到透視時光的易變性
that's what you've got to learn to do.
要根據局勢的變化
So, very quickly, what is the optimal time profile?
這便是你要學的內容.
High on past-positive. Moderately high on future.
好了,咱們快速總結一下,什麼是理想的時光概念呢?
And moderate on present-hedonism.
高度 "正面懷舊",適度 "理想主義"
And always low on past-negative
節制 "及時行樂".
and present-fatalism.
永遠放低 "負面懷舊"
So the optimal temporal mix is what you get from the past --
及 "宿命論"
past-positive gives you roots. You connect your family, identity and your self.
所以最佳時光透視是由過去開始的-
What you get from the future is wings
過去積極的一面會給你動力。將你與家人,地位和身份聯繫在一起.
to soar to new destinations, new challenges.
而將來卻是一付翅膀
What you get from the present hedonism
助你飛向新的方向,迎接新的挑戰.
is the energy, the energy to explore yourself,
當然你也會從現實享樂主義
places, people, sensuality.
獲得能量,讓你開拓自己.
Any time perspective in excess has more negatives than positives.
尋找合適的地點和人,及時行樂.
What do futures sacrifice for success?
任何過度的時光審視就會負面大於正面.
They sacrifice family time. They sacrifice friend time.
成功要付出多少呢?
They sacrifice fun time. They sacrifice personal indulgence.
要犧牲家庭時間;犧牲朋友聚會;
They sacrifice hobbies. And they sacrifice sleep. So it affects their health.
犧牲快樂時光;犧牲個人嗜好;
And they live for work, achievement and control.
犧牲業餘愛好;犧牲睡眠.從而也會影響身體健康.
I'm sure that resonates with some of the TEDsters.
這些人生活中只有工作,成功,和控制慾.
(Laughter)
相信一些TED的工作人員會有所共鳴吧.
And it resonated for me. I grew up as a poor kid in the South Bronx ghetto,
(笑聲)
a Sicilian family -- everyone lived in the past and present.
我也有所共鳴.我是一個窮小子,出生于南布朗克斯平民窟,
I'm here as a future-oriented person
西西里島的家庭.那裏的人只知道過去和現在.
who went over the top, who did all these sacrifices
而我卻是一個朝前看的人
because teachers intervened, and made me future oriented.
我之所以能成功,能在必要時做出犧牲
Told me don't eat that marshmallow,
皆拜賜于我的老師們,是他們使我成為一個有理想的人.
because if you wait you're going to get two of them,
是他們告訴我不要吃那顆棉花糖,
until I learned to balance out.
因為只要等就可吃到兩顆了,
I've added present-hedonism, I've added a focus on the past-positive,
我就是這樣一路走來,學會了如何取捨的.
so, at 76 years old, I am more energetic than ever, more productive,
現在的我學會了"享樂主義",也會 "正面壞舊".
and I'm happier than I have ever been.
因此,我現在76嵗了,卻比從前更有精力,更有動力.
I just want to say that we are applying this to many world problems:
比從前更有樂趣.
changing the drop-out rates of school kids,
我只想說該原理已用在解決世界很多問題上了,
combating addictions, enhancing teen health,
例如降低輟學率,
curing vets' PTSD with time metaphors -- getting miracle cures --
打擊毒品,增強青少年健康,
promoting sustainability and conservation,
用時間隱喻法治療戰後老兵的心理障礙-創造醫學奇蹟-
reducing physical rehabilitation where there is a 50-percent drop out rate,
促進可持續性發展和保護,
altering appeals to suicidal terrorists,
減少身體康復費用,此項目有高達50%的退出率,
and modifying family conflicts as time-zone clashes.
改變自殺式恐怖份子的念頭,
So I want to end by saying:
修正家庭關係,就如修正時間區域衝突般.
many of life's puzzles can be solved
好了,我要結束演講了,
by understanding your time perspective and that of others.
生活中許多解決不開的難題都會迎刃而解
And the idea is so simple, so obvious,
但必須理解自身和其他人的時間觀念.
but I think the consequences are really profound.
道理如此簡單,且顯而易見,
Thank you so much.
可結果卻又那麼深遠.
(Applause)
謝謝大家.