My name is Emma and in today's video we are talking about love and dating.

我的名字是艾瑪，在今天的視頻中。 我們正在談論愛情和約會。

I'm going to teach you some very good vocabulary you can use when you're talking

我將教你一些非常好的。 談話時可以使用的詞彙。

about boyfriends, girlfriends, people you like.

關於男朋友。 女朋友，你喜歡的人。

You will see these words maybe on TV, in movies, especially if you like romantic comedies,

你也許會在電視、電影中看到這些字眼。 特別是如果你喜歡浪漫的喜劇片。

these words come out...

此話一出

Up a lot.

漲了很多。

So, specifically, what I am going to teach you is phrasal verbs that have to do with

那麼，具體來說，我要教的是什麼呢？ you是短語動詞，有做

love, as well as dating.

愛情，以及約會。

Okay?

好嗎？

So you might be wondering: "What is a phrasal verb?"

所以，你可能想知道， "什麼是短語動詞？"

Good question.

問得好

So, if you know what a verb is, a verb is an action.

所以，如果你知道什麼是動詞 是，一個動詞就是一個動作。

Okay?

好嗎？

So some examples of verbs are: "play", "listen", "look", "eat".

所以一些動詞的例子是： "玩"，"聽"，"看"，"吃"。

These are all different verbs.

這些都是不同的動詞。

A phrasal verb is a little bit different.

短語動詞是一個 一點點不同。

The reason a phrasal verb is different is because you have the verb and a preposition.

短語動詞之所以不同，是因為 因為你有動詞和介詞。

Okay?

好嗎？

So what's a preposition?

那麼什麼是介詞呢？

A preposition is a word like: "on", "off", "over", "under", "above", "below", "at", "in".

介詞就是一個詞，比如"on", "off", "上方"、"下方"、"上方"、"下方"、"處"、"中"。

These are all prepositions.

這些都是介詞。

Okay?

好嗎？

So, the thing about a phrasal verb is when you have a verb...

所以，關於短語的事情 動詞是當你有一個動詞... ...

Imagine the verb "get", if we add a preposition to it, it changes the meaning of the verb.

想象一下，動詞 "得到"，如果我們加上一個介詞 到它，它改變了動詞的意思。

So, for example, we have: "get on", "get off", "get over", "get under".

所以，比如說，我們有。"上車"。 "下車"、"過來"、"下去"。

Okay?

好嗎？

"Get above".

"上位"。

We have all these different phrasal verbs with "get" and each one has different meanings,

我們有所有這些不同的短語動詞與 "得到"，每個人都有不同的含義。

and the meaning is really in the preposition.

而其含義其實是 在介詞中。

Okay?

好嗎？

So, we have tons of these in English and we use them a lot in conversation.

所以，我們有大量的這些英文 我們在談話中經常使用它們。

So today we're going to look at some ones that have to do with dating.

那麼今天我們就來看看一些 那些有做與約會。

So, let's give some examples.

所以，我們舉一些例子。

Okay?

好嗎？

I have here: "hit on".

我這裡有。"打上"。

"Hit on" is a phrasal verb.

"打上 "是一個短語動詞。

We have "hit", which is the verb, and "on" which is the proposition.

我們有 "打"，這是動詞。 和 "上"，這是命題。

Okay?

好嗎？

So before we continue I just wanted to point out one thing.

所以在我們繼續之前，我只是 想指出一件事。

There are different types of phrasal verbs.

有不同的 短語動詞的類型；

So we have phrasal verbs where the verb and the preposition are together, there's nothing

所以我們有短語動詞，其中動詞和 謂語在一起，沒有什麼

in between them.

在他們之間。

So: "hit on" is an example of this.

所以。"hit on "是一個 的例子。

You see "hit" and "on", they're together.

你看 "打 "和 "上"。 他們在一起。

There's nothing in here.

這裡什麼都沒有。

There's no person, there's no object.

沒有人。 有沒有對象。

"Hit" and "on", the preposition and the verb are together.

"打 "和 "上"，介詞 和動詞在一起。

Now, there is also a different type of phrasal verb where you have the verb, and then there's

現在，還有一種不同類型的短語。 動詞的地方，你有動詞，然後有了

something in between the verb, and then there's the preposition.

間 然後是介詞。

So, for example, another phrasal verb we will look at today: "check out".

是以，例如，另一個短語動詞 我們今天就來看看。"退房"。

You have: "Check her out."

你有。"看看她"

So you actually have the verb, the preposition, but there is something in between the verb

所以你其實有動詞，有介詞。 但動詞之間

and the preposition.

和介詞。

In this case we have a person.

在這種情況下，我們有一個人。

In other cases it might be an object.

在其他情況下，它 可能是一個對象。

Okay?

好嗎？

There's also a third type of phrasal verb where pretty much with the third type you

還有第三種短語動詞類型 在第三種類型中，你幾乎

have a choice.

有選擇的餘地。

You can either put the phrasal verb together or it can be separate.

你可以把短語動詞 一起，也可以分開。

Today, we're mainly, though, looking at either ones that are together like "hit on", or ones

今天，我們主要是，不過，我們主要看的是要麼是 在一起的，比如 "搭訕 "的，或者是

that are separated by a person or a thing, such as: "Check her out."

隔著一個人或一個 的事情，如。"看看她"

If you're a little bit confused, don't worry because we will be looking at so many examples

如果你有一點困惑，不要擔心。 因為我們會看到這麼多的例子

of what I'm talking about today so you will really understand this concept.

我今天說的是什麼，所以你... ... 會真正理解這個概念。

Okay, so let's look at "hit on" and the meaning of "hit on".

好吧，那我們來看看 "打 "吧 以及 "打上 "的含義。

So I have here the sentence: "Dave hit on me."

所以我這裡有一句話： "戴夫打我。"

Okay?

好嗎？

So we have "hit", which is the verb, "on", which is the preposition.

所以我們有 "打"，這是動詞。 "就"，是介詞。

They're always together.

他們總是在一起。

And what this means is it means Dave said something to me, he told me that I was maybe

而這意味著，這意味著戴夫說 東西給我，他告訴我，我也許是。

beautiful or pretty, and maybe he asked me for my phone number.

綺麗或漂亮，也可能 他問我要電話號碼

When you hit on somebody, it means that you're showing somebody that you're interested in them.

當你搭訕一個人的時候，就意味著你是... 向別人展示你對他們的興趣。

Okay?

好嗎？

So if you ever have seen any movies where you have people in bars or at clubs, you...

所以，如果你看過任何電影，其中 你在酒吧或俱樂部裡有人，你... ...

And this can also be for real life, too, you might have a man go up to a woman and hit

這也可以是現實生活中的，你。 可能會有一個男人走到一個女人面前，並打

on her, meaning he says to the woman: "Can I buy you a drink?"

在她身上，意思是他對 女人。"我可以請你喝一杯嗎？"

Or, you know: "Can I talk to you? I think you're very beautiful."

或者，你知道的。"我可以和你談談嗎？ "我覺得你很美"

So this is "hit on".

所以這就是 "搭訕"。

It means you're telling somebody or you're showing somebody that you are interested in them.

意思是你在告訴別人，或者你在表現出 有人說你對他們感興趣。

Okay?

好嗎？

Okay, the next one I wanted to look at, the next phrasal verb is: "check out".

好了，下一個我想看的。 下一個短語動詞是："退房"。

So: "The man checked her out."

所以，"那個男人檢查了她"那個男人給她做了檢查"

What does this mean?

這意味著什麼？

When somebody checks you out, it means they're looking at you in a certain way.

當有人查你的時候，就意味著 他們以某種方式看著你。

"Check out", when we're talking about dating, really has to do with the eyes.

"結賬"，當我們在談論。 約會，真的和眼睛有關。

Okay?

好嗎？

So when you check someone out it means you use your eyes to look at them up and down.

所以，當你檢查一個人，這意味著你 用眼睛上下觀察。

And while you're looking at them, you're thinking: "Wow, this person's very handsome."

而當你看著他們的時候，你是 思考著："哇，這個人很帥。"哇，這個人好帥啊。"

Or: "Wow, this person's very beautiful. This girl is so sexy."

或者說："哇，這個人非常漂亮。 這個女孩是如此的性感。"

Okay?

好嗎？

So you're really, really thinking about how attractive they are.

所以你真的，真的在想 關於他們是多麼的有吸引力。

So you're not talking, you're just looking at somebody and thinking about how attractive

所以你不是在說話，你只是在看。 某個人，並認為如何吸引

they are.

他們是。

So, when someone looks at a person showing interest.

所以，當有人看到一個 表示興趣的人。

So I have here a picture of this.

所以我這裡有一個 圖片的這。

I have a woman here and a man here.

我這裡有一個女人 和一個男人在這裡。

And this woman with her eyes, she's looking at the guy and she's thinking:

而這個女人的眼睛，她是。 看著這個傢伙，她在想，

"Wow, he's cute."

"哇，他很可愛。"

So she's checking him out.

所以她在調查他。

Sometimes you have friends, maybe there's a group of women who are looking at a guy,

有時你有朋友，也許有一個。 一群女人在看一個男人。

and they're looking him up and down, and they're thinking: "Wow, what a handsome guy."

他們看著他上上下下，和 他們在想，"哇，好帥的傢伙。"

They're checking that man out.

他們在查那個人

Or the same can be the opposite.

或者相同的可以是相反的。

Maybe there's a bunch of guys.

也許有一群人。

Maybe construction workers, that's a common stereotype, and a girl's walking by in a nice,

也許建築工人，這是一個常見的 刻板印象，和一個女孩的走過，在一個不錯的。

pretty dress.

漂亮的衣服。

And all the guys are looking at her.

而所有的人都是 看著她。

Those guys are checking her out.

那些傢伙都在查她。

Okay?

好嗎？

So these are two common phrasal verbs we use with dating.

所以這是兩個常見的短語 動詞，我們用約會。

Now let's look at some more.

現在我們再來看一些。

Okay, so the next phrasal verb we're going to look at is probably the most important

好了，所以下一個短語動詞，我們要去。 觀察可能是最重要的

on this list, and the reason it's so important is because we use it all the time.

在這個名單上，以及它的原因，它是如此的 重要的是，因為我們一直在使用它。

Okay? So this is...

好嗎？ 所以這是...所以這是...

You will definitely hear this one a lot.

你一定會 經常聽到這個。

So let's look at it.

所以我們來看一下。

This is: "go out with somebody".

這就是"和某人出去"。

Okay? So, for example: "Calvin goes out with Amy."

好嗎？所以，舉個例子， So, for example, "Calvin和Amy約會"。 "Calvin和Amy約會了。"

Or: "They are going out."

或："他們要出去了。"

So what does "go out" mean?

那麼 "走出去 "是什麼意思呢？

Well, it's another way to say to date or to be a couple.

嗯，這是另一種說法 約會或成為夫妻。

Okay? So, for example, we have here Calvin and we have here Amy.

好嗎？所以，比如說，我們有 這裡有卡爾文，我們有艾米。

And every Friday night maybe they like to go to the movies together, and they go to

每個星期五晚上，也許他們喜歡 一起去看電影，他們去了

a restaurant together, and they really like each other, that's why I drew the hearts.

他們一起開了一家餐館，他們很喜歡 彼此，所以我才畫了心。

So they are going out.

所以他們要出去。

It means they are going on a date, maybe they're boyfriend and girlfriend, maybe not.

這意味著他們要去約會，也許 他們是男朋友和女朋友，也許不是。

Maybe Calvin has five girlfriends, and he's going out with five women at the same time.

也許卡爾文有五個女朋友，而他... 同時和五個女人約會。

You know, it's...

你知道，這是...

In different cultures you get different things happening with dating, but going out means

在不同的文化中，你會得到不同的東西 約會發生，但外出意味著

you're pretty much with somebody and you really like them.

你跟別人差不多了 你真的很喜歡他們。

Okay?

好嗎？

So Calvin is going out with Amy.

所以Calvin要和Amy約會了。

They're a couple.

他們是一對夫妻。

They're together.

他們在一起了。

Okay?

好嗎？

So, I want you to pay attention to this: "go out" is also together.

所以，我想讓你注意 這。"出去 "也是一起。

They're one of those phrasal verbs where "go" and "out" are together, there's nothing between them.

他們是那種短語動詞，其中 "去 "和。 "出 "在一起，他們之間沒有什麼。

We don't need the "with".

我們不需要 "與 "字。

We can actually end just with: "They're going out."

其實我們可以結束只是 與。"他們要出去了"

So if you're talking about two names: "Kim goes out with Kanye", for example, in that

所以如果你說的是兩個名字。"金 例如，"與Kanye約會"，在該。

case you'd use the "with", but if you're just talking about two people and, you know, like

的情況下，你會使用 "與"，但如果你只是 談論兩個人，你知道，就像。

they're at the beginning of the sentence, you can also say: "Kim and Kanye are going out."

句首，你 也可以說，"金和坎耶要出去了"

Okay?

好嗎？

So very, very important.

所以非常非常重要。

It comes up a lot in English culture.

它經常出現 在英語文化中。

If you're ever interested, maybe you meet two people and you want to know if they're

如果你有興趣的話，也許你會遇到。 兩個人，你想知道他們是否。

boyfriend and girlfriend, you can say:

男友和女友。 你可以說。

"Hey. Are those two people going out?"

"喂，那兩個是 人出去了？"

Okay?

好嗎？

So that's how we can use it.

所以我們可以這樣使用它。

Let's look at another example.

我們再來看一個例子。

"Stand" or "stood me up".

"站 "或 "讓我站起來"。

So, "stand" is the present tense of "stood"; "stood" is the past tense.

所以，"站 "是現在的時態。 "站"，"站 "是過去式。

They have the same meaning.

它們的意義是一樣的。

In this example I'm using the past tense.

在這個例子中，我是 用過去式。

So my example is: "My date", so the person I'm going out with, "My date stood me up."

所以我的例子是"我的約會"，所以這個人 我要出去了，"我的約會放我鴿子。"

What does this mean?

這意味著什麼？

Well, it means when you have plans to meet somebody, imagine I'm supposed to go to the

嗯，這意味著當你有計劃，以滿足。 某人，想象一下，我應該去的是

movies and I'm supposed to go with my boyfriend.

電影和我應該 和我男朋友一起去。

And imagine if at the very last minute he doesn't come.

想象一下，如果在最 最後一刻，他沒有來。

So I'm waiting there, I'm looking at my watch:

所以我在那裡等著，我... ... 看著我的手錶。

"Hmm, where's my boyfriend? Why hasn't he come yet?"

"嗯，我男朋友呢？ 他怎麼還沒來？"

And he doesn't call, he doesn't tell me where he is so I wait, and wait, and wait, and he

他不打電話，他不告訴我在哪裡。 他是這樣的，我等待，等待，等待，他

never comes.

永遠不會來。

That's a very sad story.

這是一個非常悲傷的故事。

Luckily that's never happened, but it means to stand someone up.

幸運的是，這從來沒有發生過，但 意思是讓人站起來。

Okay?

好嗎？

So, any time you see somebody waiting and waiting, and their date doesn't come

所以，任何時候，你看到有人在等待和 等待，而他們的約會沒有到來

- they were stood up.

- 他們是站起來的。

Okay, so one thing to notice with the grammar of this: "stood" and "up", is there something

好吧，所以有一點要注意的文法 的。"站 "和 "起"，是否有什麼東西

between "stood" and "up"?

在 "站 "和 "起 "之間？

You'll notice in this case the word "me", but it's a person.

你會注意到在這種情況下 "我 "字，但它是一個人。

So you can stand a person up.

所以你可以把一個人立起來。

So, Cindy stood John up.

於是，辛迪讓約翰站起來。

Okay?

好嗎？

So a lot of the times we have a person here.

所以很多時候 我們這裡有一個人。

Could we do it without?

我們能不做嗎？

"My date stood up"?

"我的對象站起來了"？

No, this has a different meaning.

不，這有一個 不同的意義。

In this case, without a person here it means you stand up.

在這種情況下，沒有一個人 在這裡，它意味著你站起來。

So, that's why the placement of these things are so important.

所以，這就是為什麼放置 這些東西是如此重要。

All right, let's look at two more examples.

好了，我們來看看 在再舉兩個例子。

We have: "turn on" and "turn off".

我們有。"打開" 和 "關閉"。

Two more very good examples of dating vocabulary.

還有兩個非常好的例子 的約會詞彙。

So, what are these examples?

那麼，這些例子是什麼呢？

"Tattoos turn me on."

"紋身讓我興奮。"

This means tattoos, in my opinion, are attractive.

這意味著紋身，在我 認為，是有吸引力的。

I like tattoos on a man.

我喜歡男人身上的紋身。

When I see tattoos...

當我看到紋身的時候...

No, no. Can you see?

不，不。你能看到嗎？

Okay?

好嗎？

I feel my heart flutter.

我覺得我的心在顫動。

I like tattoos.

我喜歡紋身。

Okay? Now, what's the opposite?

好嗎？現在，什麼是相反的？

Big muscles, so big muscles turn me off.

肌肉好大，好大 肌肉讓我不爽。

This means in my opinion I don't think they're attractive.

這意味著在我看來，我不 認為他們是有吸引力的。

It means I don't like big muscles.

這意味著我不 像大肌肉。

Okay?

好嗎？

For some people you could say intelligence, people who are smart turn me on.

對於一些人來說，你可以說是智慧。 聰明的人讓我興奮。

People who like to read turn me on.

喜歡的人 讀給我聽

People with mustaches turn me on.

有鬍子的人 讓我興奮。

This means I find them attractive.

這意味著我發現 他們的吸引力。

And then the opposite maybe you could say somebody who smells turns me off.

然後相反，也許你可以 說某人誰的氣味讓我反感。

Maybe somebody who is rude, somebody who is not polite

也許有人是粗魯的。 不客氣的人

- that's a turn off, that turns me off.

- 這是一個關閉。 這讓我很不爽。

So, it means I don't like that in a person I'm dating.

所以，這意味著我不喜歡 在一個人，我約會，

So, "turn on" is attractive, "turn off" means it's something unattractive.

所以，"開 "是吸引人的，"關" 意思是說這是不美的東西。

Now, notice the placement for these phrasal verbs.

現在，注意一下位置 對於這些短語動詞。

Okay?

好嗎？

"Tattoos turn me on."

"紋身讓我興奮。"

Is there something...?

有什麼... ？

Is something in between "turn" and "on"?

是介於兩者之間的東西 "轉 "和 "開"？

Yeah, we have the person here.

是的，我們有一個人在這裡。

You know, Hollywood actors turn me on.

你知道，好萊塢 演員讓我興奮。

Okay? It means I find them attractive.

好嗎？這意味著我發現 他們的吸引力。

You could also put somebody else's name here, for example.

你也可以把某人 例如，在這裡，其他人的名字。

I know with my sister, British guys, she loves British accents

我和我姐姐知道，英國人 夥計們，她喜歡英國口音

- British accents turn my sister on.

- 英國口音 把我的妹妹。

Okay?

好嗎？

Maybe beards, long beards turn my sister off.

也許是鬍子，長鬍子 把我妹妹關了。

So you can put a person between "turn" and "on" or "turn" and "off".

所以你可以把一個人放在 "轉 "和 "開 "或 "轉 "和 "關"。

We also have the noun form of this.

我們也有 的名詞形式。

We can say: "Wow. Beards are a turn on."