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  • Hey guys. Quick question. What do you do when life is cold? You chill.

    嘿大家,快速問個問題。當人生很寒冷時怎麼辦?你會覺得冷/你就放鬆一下 (*在英文原文中同音同字)

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  • Alright. Today I wanna talk to you about why it's important to learn to be alone.


  • When I was in college, I took acting classes.

    我在大學時 曾選修戲劇課

  • During those two semesters, I not only learned about acting skills but also developed a sort of philosophy of life.


  • And it goes like this, 10% of the time you're on the stage, you're under the limelight,

    它是這樣的,10% 的時間 你站在舞台上,你在聚光燈下,

  • looking all glamorous, savoring applause from your passionate crowd.


  • Those are the good moments in life. And then there's the rest of the 90 percent of time.


  • That's when you're off stage, behind the curtains, striving to hit the stage in the first place, chasing your dreams,


  • overcoming daily obstacles that come along the way.


  • That's when you're unseen, when you're unnoticed.


  • That's when life is not full of balloons and confetti falling from the sky. That's when you're just another ordinary face in the crowd.

    那些人生時刻 不僅沒有滿天氣球,也沒有五彩紙片從天而降。那些時刻 你只不過是眾多人群中的另一張面孔罷了

  • However, those are the moments that define who you are. You see, it's easy to behave, perform, do well,


  • or even put on an act when you're surrounded by people. The problem is, can you do the same when you're alone?

    或甚至裝個樣子都很容易。問題是 當你獨自一人時,也做的到嗎?

  • For example,


  • from where I come from, students go to study centers to study.

    在我的家鄉 學生們會去 K 書中心讀書

  • And in those rooms everybody studies like crazy under that atmosphere. And that prompts you to stay focused in that mode so you can act alike.

    在那些房間那種氣氛裡,每個人都像發了瘋似地在讀書。這會促使你也專注在讀書模式 所以你也能這樣做

  • But when you're studying home alone, that's a total different story. We're all experienced in that, right?


  • When we're home alone studying, we might be really studying at first.


  • But then you can't help yourself and you start turning on the TV. You watch TV for a bit.


  • And then you get your hands on your smartphone for a bit. You start watching YouTube for a bit.

    再稍微玩一下手機,你開始看 YouTube

  • You watch my videos for a bit. Hopefully.


  • And then you get tired and you nap for a bit. And after that you might get back to studying for a little bit more


  • It's much harder to behave and perform well when we're by ourselves


  • 'Cos when we're alone, to be honest, we just wanna chill.


  • It's human nature. When we're alone, we're more prone to our weaknesses We become lazier.


  • We tend to waste more time. We become less productive. We're much more easily enticed by negative things surrounding us. Need not to mention.


  • So in conclusion,


  • we're weaker when we're on our own. Acceptable, 'cos we're social animals after all.


  • Bonding makes us stronger. There's no arguing with that. But try to wrap your head around this the other way.


  • What if we could bring out the best in ourselves even when there's no one out there to give us credit for it.


  • You're the only person (that) you are responsible to.


  • You're the only person who sees your own deeds. If we could manage to keep ourselves in shape, both physically and mentally in solitary.


  • Wouldn't we be able to bring out even better result when we're in a crowd?


  • Life is like a soccer game.


  • It requires intense teamwork but also excellence in individual skill.


  • I like a movie calledThe Shawshank Redemption


  • The main character, Andy, was sentenced to lifetime in prison while he was innocent of killing his wife and her lover.

    主角安迪被判決終身監禁,但其實他是無辜的 (太太與太太的情人遭到殺害)

  • A young, rich American banker deprived of everything he had.


  • Locked up in a small jail cell. Alone, cut off from society.


  • However, he managed to keep his sanity by creating a little hope for himself.


  • Making impossible friends. Doing little favors. Helping out other inmates. And for 19 years, without missing a day, night after night,

    結交不可能的朋友、施予別人恩惠、幫助其他獄友。而在 19 年後,他每天

  • executing his ultimate escape plan. It tells us how a glimmer of hope can drive people to do the impossible.


  • It tells you bow strong self-discipline and managing the environment can make people do the incredible.


  • So, to wrap it up. Learn how to live with yourself.


  • If you master that, you can confidently, easily fit into any condition,


  • either in abundance or poverty, in the public eye or when alone.


  • There are both things that you can take away either when you're in a group of people or when you're all alone.


  • But it's the 90 percent of moments that make who we are.


  • Peace

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Hey guys. Quick question. What do you do when life is cold? You chill.

嘿大家,快速問個問題。當人生很寒冷時怎麼辦?你會覺得冷/你就放鬆一下 (*在英文原文中同音同字)


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