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  • Hey guys. Quick question. What do you do when life is cold? You chill.

    嘿大家,快速問個問題。當人生很寒冷時怎麼辦?你會覺得冷/你就放鬆一下 (*在英文原文中同音同字)

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  • Alright. Today I wanna talk to you about why it's important to learn to be alone.

    好啦,不鬧了。今天我想跟你們聊聊關於為什麼學會獨處很重要

  • When I was in college, I took acting classes.

    我在大學時 曾選修戲劇課

  • During those two semesters, I not only learned about acting skills but also developed a sort of philosophy of life.

    在那兩學期中,我不僅學習了演戲的技術,還發展出一套人生哲學

  • And it goes like this, 10% of the time you're on the stage, you're under the limelight,

    它是這樣的,10% 的時間 你站在舞台上,你在聚光燈下,

  • looking all glamorous, savoring applause from your passionate crowd.

    看起來容光煥發,享受著熱情群眾的掌聲

  • Those are the good moments in life. And then there's the rest of the 90 percent of time.

    享受著熱情群眾的掌聲。接下來,還有剩下的90%時間

  • That's when you're off stage, behind the curtains, striving to hit the stage in the first place, chasing your dreams,

    你在舞台下,在簾幕後面,奮鬥著要邁向舞台,追逐你的夢想

  • overcoming daily obstacles that come along the way.

    克服每天接踵而來的阻礙

  • That's when you're unseen, when you're unnoticed.

    那些時刻,你是不被看見的、不被注意到的

  • That's when life is not full of balloons and confetti falling from the sky. That's when you're just another ordinary face in the crowd.

    那些人生時刻 不僅沒有滿天氣球,也沒有五彩紙片從天而降。那些時刻 你只不過是眾多人群中的另一張面孔罷了

  • However, those are the moments that define who you are. You see, it's easy to behave, perform, do well,

    然而,是這些時刻定義了你是誰。要在人群面前舉止合宜、表現優良,或甚至裝個樣子都很容易

  • or even put on an act when you're surrounded by people. The problem is, can you do the same when you're alone?

    或甚至裝個樣子都很容易。問題是 當你獨自一人時,也做的到嗎?

  • For example,

    例如,

  • from where I come from, students go to study centers to study.

    在我的家鄉 學生們會去 K 書中心讀書

  • And in those rooms everybody studies like crazy under that atmosphere. And that prompts you to stay focused in that mode so you can act alike.

    在那些房間那種氣氛裡,每個人都像發了瘋似地在讀書。這會促使你也專注在讀書模式 所以你也能這樣做

  • But when you're studying home alone, that's a total different story. We're all experienced in that, right?

    但是當你獨自一人在家讀書時,那完全是另一回事。我們都滿有經驗的,不是嗎?

  • When we're home alone studying, we might be really studying at first.

    當我們一個人在家讀書時,或許一開始真的是在讀書

  • But then you can't help yourself and you start turning on the TV. You watch TV for a bit.

    但沒多久,你就忍不住打開電視。稍微看一下電視

  • And then you get your hands on your smartphone for a bit. You start watching YouTube for a bit.

    再稍微玩一下手機,你開始看 YouTube

  • You watch my videos for a bit. Hopefully.

    你又看了一下我的影片,希望是

  • And then you get tired and you nap for a bit. And after that you might get back to studying for a little bit more

    然後,你累了就小睡一下。在那之後,你可能又再稍微回去讀一下書

  • It's much harder to behave and perform well when we're by ourselves

    獨自一個人的時候要表現好是更加困難的

  • 'Cos when we're alone, to be honest, we just wanna chill.

    因為當我們一個人的時候,老實說,我們只想要放鬆

  • It's human nature. When we're alone, we're more prone to our weaknesses We become lazier.

    這是天性啊!當我們獨處時,我們比較容易輸給自己的弱點,會變懶

  • We tend to waste more time. We become less productive. We're much more easily enticed by negative things surrounding us. Need not to mention.

    我們會浪費時間、我們的生產力下降、會更容易被身旁負面的事物給誘惑,就不提了

  • So in conclusion,

    所以結論是,

  • we're weaker when we're on our own. Acceptable, 'cos we're social animals after all.

    當我們獨自一人時,是更加軟弱的。可以接受啦,畢竟我們是社會性動物

  • Bonding makes us stronger. There's no arguing with that. But try to wrap your head around this the other way.

    緊密的人際關係使我們變得更強大,這是不爭的事實。但試著從另一個角度來理解

  • What if we could bring out the best in ourselves even when there's no one out there to give us credit for it.

    如果我們可以帶出最好的自己,甚至是當沒有任何人給我們認定時

  • You're the only person (that) you are responsible to.

    你只對自己負責

  • You're the only person who sees your own deeds. If we could manage to keep ourselves in shape, both physically and mentally in solitary.

    只有你看得見自己的行為。如果我們可以在獨處時讓自己保持最佳狀態,兼顧生理與心理層面

  • Wouldn't we be able to bring out even better result when we're in a crowd?

    那當我們在人群中不就可以做得更好嗎?

  • Life is like a soccer game.

    人生就像是一場足球比賽

  • It requires intense teamwork but also excellence in individual skill.

    它需要高度的團隊合作,但也強調個人卓越的技術

  • I like a movie calledThe Shawshank Redemption

    我喜歡一部電影叫《刺激1995》

  • The main character, Andy, was sentenced to lifetime in prison while he was innocent of killing his wife and her lover.

    主角安迪被判決終身監禁,但其實他是無辜的 (太太與太太的情人遭到殺害)

  • A young, rich American banker deprived of everything he had.

    一個年輕、富有的美國銀行家被剝奪了人生的一切

  • Locked up in a small jail cell. Alone, cut off from society.

    被關在一個小牢房。孤獨、與社會脫離

  • However, he managed to keep his sanity by creating a little hope for himself.

    然而,他設法保持自己的理智,為自己創造了一絲希望

  • Making impossible friends. Doing little favors. Helping out other inmates. And for 19 years, without missing a day, night after night,

    結交不可能的朋友、施予別人恩惠、幫助其他獄友。而在 19 年後,他每天

  • executing his ultimate escape plan. It tells us how a glimmer of hope can drive people to do the impossible.

    執行自己的逃亡計畫。這故事告訴我們,一絲的希望如何驅使人做到不可能的事

  • It tells you bow strong self-discipline and managing the environment can make people do the incredible.

    它告訴我們,強大的自制能力,及治理環境,可以讓人們做到不可思議的事

  • So, to wrap it up. Learn how to live with yourself.

    所以,來做個收尾。學習如何自處吧!

  • If you master that, you can confidently, easily fit into any condition,

    如果你精通自處之道,你就能夠有自信地、輕鬆地縙入任何情境

  • either in abundance or poverty, in the public eye or when alone.

    無論富有或貧困、在公眾注目下,或獨自一人

  • There are both things that you can take away either when you're in a group of people or when you're all alone.

    無論是跟一群人在一起,或是獨自一人,都有可以學習的東西

  • But it's the 90 percent of moments that make who we are.

    但是,那百分之九十造就了我們

  • Peace

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Hey guys. Quick question. What do you do when life is cold? You chill.

嘿大家,快速問個問題。當人生很寒冷時怎麼辦?你會覺得冷/你就放鬆一下 (*在英文原文中同音同字)

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