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  • Do you ever just feel like a fish out of

  • water like nobody really gets you and

  • you feel out of place?

  • That's why I wanted to make today's

  • video to share with you three tips of

  • what you can do when you're feeling this

  • way. So before I get started I just want

  • to share a really short story with you

  • guys. When I say feeling like a fish

  • out of water out of place I don't

  • necessarily mean that you feel like this

  • all the time it can be just in a

  • particular area of your life.

  • So when I was younger I always had great

  • friends around me but i always loved

  • talking about spirituality and universe

  • philosophy for as long as I can remember

  • and it was an area that i really had a

  • hard time connecting with people on so I

  • remember this one time when I must have

  • been 12 years old or something like that I was at the park and I started asking my

  • friend if she thinks that when we're

  • born on this earth if we have all this

  • predisposed knowledge or if were born

  • like a blank slate and we learned

  • everything as we go along from our

  • parents and our influences also now known

  • as the nature versus nurture debate

  • which back then I didn't even know what

  • that was but I remember she looked at me

  • like i was a weirdo and the conversation

  • kind of ended there and to be honest I

  • don't blame her because we were 12 so

  • that being said I know that there is a

  • lot of times when I wanted to talk about

  • these things or initiated conversation

  • and people were just not really

  • responsive and it made me feel like a

  • little bit of a weirdo back then so i

  • wanted to share with you guys my three things

  • that I know now that I definitely

  • didn't know back then and what i do now

  • when I feel like a fish out of water i

  • feel out of place!

  • Alright so the first thing i want to say

  • about this is that it's actually a

  • blessing

  • so what I mean by that is if you read

  • the biographies of some of the most amazing

  • entrepreneurs and philosophers around

  • the world you'll see that a lot of the

  • times they felt misunderstood out of

  • place, didn't get the school system

  • questioned everything were always told

  • that they were weird or strange or silly

  • and they should just stick to the norm

  • so if you do have something that you

  • love talking about or you love and

  • researching about or whatever it is i

  • would say hold on to that and pursue it

  • because these people have gone on to

  • create amazing organizations to change

  • the way the world works and to change

  • the way we think about a lot of things

  • in this world so it's super important

  • and I promise you it is a blessing so

  • For me if you take a look at what i do i

  • basically combine spirituality and

  • science in my practice as a mindset

  • coach and kinesiologist so ALL I do these

  • days is talk about the universe and

  • spirituality and philosophy and how the

  • mind works and psychology and all these

  • things so it's absolutely served me and I

  • could definitely see where that interest

  • sparked as a little girl how it helped

  • me get to where I am today so if i had

  • just shut myself down and not let myself

  • explore it on my own further and thought

  • i was a weirdo

  • I definitely wouldn't even be where I am

  • today. The second thing I want to say

  • is if you have something that you love

  • to talk about or you love to do make

  • sure you seek other like-minded people

  • around you

  • so if you guys don't know I actually

  • grew up in Canada and I moved over 12

  • Australia three years ago. And when I

  • moved to Australia i took a whole bunch

  • of seminars and I studied and I met most

  • of my friends here now in the natural

  • health industry so we have very similar

  • interests and we could talk about things

  • like spirituality in the universe and

  • all these things for days and days and

  • days but that's because I consciously

  • sought out to make connections and make

  • friends with people that had similar

  • interests to me

  • alright so the final thing that you can

  • do when you feel like a fish out of

  • water and you don't have any like-minded

  • people around you is to actively seek a

  • connection point so for example say you

  • go into a workplace and there's no

  • like-minded people around you - you know

  • that what I would encourage you to do is

  • find a common

  • point so for me yes i love spirituality

  • and all that kind of stuff but i also

  • love yoga and i also love traveling and

  • I also love marketing and i also love

  • you know interior design or whatever it

  • may be

  • so if I'm speaking to somebody that I

  • know has zero interest in what I do for

  • a living or spirituality or any stuff

  • like that then actively try to find

  • something that we do have in common. Is

  • it a place that they've traveled to

  • around the world that i can ask them

  • questions about etc sometimes it's

  • really a simple it's just finding a book

  • or series or a TV show or movie maybe

  • both enjoyed and you can talk about that

  • because if you're talking about

  • something that you love and they're

  • talking about something that they love

  • you're automatically going to feel

  • connected

  • alright so those are my three tips of

  • what you can do when you feel

  • disconnected and like a fish out of

  • water so just to recap some really

  • really quickly

  • number one is that you're just a genius

  • so remember that there's actually

  • nothing that's wrong with you

  • number two is to seek out like-minded

  • people and connect with them and number

  • three is if you know somebody has

  • dissimilar interests, find something on

  • common ground like a TV show or series

  • or a place that you both traveled to so

  • you can connect over that

  • alright guys if you liked this video be

  • sure to hit the like button below share

  • with your friends and subscribe for

  • weekly videos every single tuesday on

  • how to master your mindset! Bye!

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