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  • Hello everyone, my name is Tripp from trippadvice.com and today we're

  • talking about kissing on the first date.

  • I know you want to do it but

  • should you?

  • When is the best time

  • and how do you know if it's right?

  • Well i'll tell you

  • on this episode of:

  • Ah

  • kissing on the first date, the age old question.

  • Should you do it?

  • The answer is maybe.

  • Why maybe?

  • Because there's a few factors involved before you pull the trigger. Going for

  • a kiss on the first date can be deal-breaker so you have to know the

  • proper time when to do it. So how do you know?

  • Well I use a little acronym called "BITE."

  • B-I-T-E.

  • B is for body language.

  • Are they moving closer to you, are they

  • touching you,

  • are they facing you in conversation?

  • These are great signs to know if she's into you.

  • Body language never lives. I is for interest. Are they interested, are they

  • asking you questions, do they seem intrigued in the things you are saying,

  • is conversation flowing smoothly,

  • have you already sealed the second date?

  • If they're not engaging with you

  • then something's off and you're

  • not making a solid connection.

  • You need that connection

  • before you can pursue a kiss. T is for tonality. Does the tone of their voice

  • sound excited, angry, bored, monotone? This is another great way to gauge interest.

  • Listen to the way they are talking to you.

  • Sure they might be asking you questions but are they just desperately trying to

  • get through the date

  • or are they genuinely interested?

  • Pay attention.

  • E is for eye contact.

  • Are they keeping eye contact with you? This means they're interested.

  • Are they staring off into the distance?

  • This means they're bored. Gauge the level of eye contact being used throughout the

  • conversation.

  • Is she just looking down at her food? Is she staring around the room or is she

  • on the edge of her seat as you talk to her? If you're getting positive reactions

  • from three out of four of these

  • then all signs

  • are a go. But if it's not looking so good

  • then you may want refrain from any big moves

  • and just play it cool until your potential second date. Moving along,

  • if you see the signs

  • and she's ready for the kiss

  • then you just want to remember a few more things. First,

  • do it in a private area,

  • like right before you drop her off

  • or at least in a place away from a crowd.

  • You see your girl might not like PDA and you don't want that small detail to

  • get you rejected. Second, you've got to have the balls to do it

  • because she won't do it.

  • Girls generally won't make the first move

  • so man up,

  • pucker up

  • and make it happen.

  • There's one more super, super important problem

  • and if you don't solve it

  • then this could mean the and

  • with you and this girl.

  • If you want to know what I'm talking about that you can find that

  • and the solution on page 15

  • of my ebook,

  • "Ten Simple and Unknown Dating Tips to Increase Attraction."

  • All you got to do is go to trippadvice.com.

  • Just click right here it will take you to page

  • where you can download it and get your free copy. And don't forget, the answer is

  • on page 15. I put out videos every single week so click subscribe

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  • you can get tips

  • on how to get the girl of your dreams.

  • I'll see you next time.

Hello everyone, my name is Tripp from trippadvice.com and today we're

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第一次約會應否親吻嗎?(Kissing on the First Date: To Kiss or Not to Kiss?)

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