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Hello everyone, my name is Tripp from trippadvice.com and today we're
talking about kissing on the first date.
I know you want to do it but
should you?
When is the best time
and how do you know if it's right?
Well i'll tell you
on this episode of:
Ah
kissing on the first date, the age old question.
Should you do it?
The answer is maybe.
Why maybe?
Because there's a few factors involved before you pull the trigger. Going for
a kiss on the first date can be deal-breaker so you have to know the
proper time when to do it. So how do you know?
Well I use a little acronym called "BITE."
B-I-T-E.
B is for body language.
Are they moving closer to you, are they
touching you,
are they facing you in conversation?
These are great signs to know if she's into you.
Body language never lives. I is for interest. Are they interested, are they
asking you questions, do they seem intrigued in the things you are saying,
is conversation flowing smoothly,
have you already sealed the second date?
If they're not engaging with you
then something's off and you're
not making a solid connection.
You need that connection
before you can pursue a kiss. T is for tonality. Does the tone of their voice
sound excited, angry, bored, monotone? This is another great way to gauge interest.
Listen to the way they are talking to you.
Sure they might be asking you questions but are they just desperately trying to
get through the date
or are they genuinely interested?
Pay attention.
E is for eye contact.
Are they keeping eye contact with you? This means they're interested.
Are they staring off into the distance?
This means they're bored. Gauge the level of eye contact being used throughout the
conversation.
Is she just looking down at her food? Is she staring around the room or is she
on the edge of her seat as you talk to her? If you're getting positive reactions
from three out of four of these
then all signs
are a go. But if it's not looking so good
then you may want refrain from any big moves
and just play it cool until your potential second date. Moving along,
if you see the signs
and she's ready for the kiss
then you just want to remember a few more things. First,
do it in a private area,
like right before you drop her off
or at least in a place away from a crowd.
You see your girl might not like PDA and you don't want that small detail to
get you rejected. Second, you've got to have the balls to do it
because she won't do it.
Girls generally won't make the first move
so man up,
pucker up
and make it happen.
There's one more super, super important problem
and if you don't solve it
then this could mean the and
with you and this girl.
If you want to know what I'm talking about that you can find that
and the solution on page 15
of my ebook,
"Ten Simple and Unknown Dating Tips to Increase Attraction."
All you got to do is go to trippadvice.com.
Just click right here it will take you to page
where you can download it and get your free copy. And don't forget, the answer is
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