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  • Nine signs that you're dating a sociopath.

  • How do you know when you're in a relationship with the wrong person?

  • Sometimes, you can't tell when you're in such a relationship.

  • As love can often blind you.

  • So here are nine signs to help you identify if you're dating a sociopath.

  • One

  • They're motivated solely by their own personal desires.

  • Basic human needs like food, water or money are what drives them

  • If you talk to them about making the world a better place

  • they won't be motivated

  • In a relationship context

  • only things like money, sex, food or whatever you can offer are interesting to them

  • Two

  • They are highly manipulative.

  • Sociopaths usually prey on your emotions

  • They find your weak spots and take advantage of them.

  • They socially isolate you from your friends and even family

  • Not allowing you to go anywhere such as the grocery shop

  • without letting them know and gaining their approval first

  • This behaviour weakens your relationship with other people

  • so you end up needing your partner more and more.

  • Three

  • They don't walk the walk.

  • Your partner will tell you one thing

  • but do another

  • or they'll say how they hate certain things

  • but allow those things into their life

  • They tell you their grand plans but,

  • none of it shows in their actions.

  • This behaviour can be confusing

  • and disorienting

  • especially when they're being hypocritical

  • For example

  • They may tell you that they hate when you're late to dates

  • because it shows that you have no respect for them

  • yet they themselves will often be late

  • or even reschedule plans with you

  • with no valid explanation or apology

  • Four

  • They lack sympathy

  • Empathy is the ability to understand someone's emotions

  • Sociopaths certainly understand your emotions

  • they just have no sympathy for you

  • When you're feeling sad

  • they simply don't see it as something that should concern them

  • but rather, as an opportunity to exploit your perceived weakness

  • Five

  • They don't take responsibility

  • Sociopaths are usually narcissistic

  • so they believe they are never at fault no matter what

  • when confronted on their behavior and asked to change their ways

  • they will say yes to keep you by their side

  • however, there won't actually be any changes

  • continuing the cycle of mistreatment and manipulation

  • Six

  • They constantly insult you

  • your partner's jabs don't always have to be direct

  • Let's say you're wearing an outfit similar to another person you both encounter

  • Your partner might make a comment about how ugly and gross the other person's clothes are

  • and if you confront them they'll accuse you of being paranoid and play the victim

  • Seven

  • You're always guilty

  • You're the one at fault for every mishap

  • and your partner will never admit when they're wrong

  • They'll manipulate situations to become the victim

  • when they're clearly not

  • In the end

  • you're the one apologizing

  • Eight

  • They'll project their insecurities on you and everyone else

  • This is the result of their narcissism

  • and manipulation habits

  • as they're always trying to look perfect or at least better than the rest

  • Nine

  • They can adapt themselves

  • In negative ways they will adapt to the situation and to you if need be

  • For example

  • they may yell at you, making you shut up and playing with your emotions

  • but when you lash out

  • they promise to change

  • In the long run however,

  • they actually become more manipulative

  • causing you to become even more insecure

  • Based on these characteristics

  • Do you think you know anyone who may be dating a sociopath?

  • Have you ever been in a relationship with a socipath before?

  • Feel free to share your stories in the comments below

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Nine signs that you're dating a sociopath.

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    Amy.Lin 發佈於 2017 年 07 月 29 日
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