self-centred

以自我為中心

Yea that's true

嗯這倒是真的

So it's more like as Asian

身為亞洲人

We care about the harmony

我們比較在乎整體的和諧

And we like to be good to everybody

我們想要對別人好

so we are afraid to destroy a relationship with the other person

所以我們會怕去破壞了 和其他人的感情

With your friend

怕破壞跟朋友的感情

or even if you hate this person

就算你超討厭這個人

We will still pretend we like them

你還是會假裝一下

because we want everything to be good

因為我們不想壞了和氣

So I remember when I was in the the meeting

我記得有一次我在一場會議中

with lots of my colleagues from different countries

和我其他來自不同國的同事們一起開會

It was about other people complaining

會議中大家都在抱怨一件事

My friends - they were telling about they angry opinions

我那些朋友們不斷地講 他們生氣的原因

and I was just being silent because I don't want anyone to hate me

我就只是安靜地在那聽， 因為我不想要讓任何人討厭我

but Caucasians, they had told me - you should speak for yourself

但我那些歐洲朋友們告訴我， 你應該要替自己講話啊

If you don't speak it means people will think you agree with them

如果你不發表意見， 大家就會以為你同意了

Yea so it was like wow I've learned a lesson

所以我反而上了一課

So actually I would say that it's good and bad at the same time

所以這樣來說， 我會說以自我中心有時是件好事

because if you put this way too far you gonna be like a douche

但如果你太自我為中心， 基本上你就變成個混球

So if we want to show it in a very easy way

所以我想用很簡單的方法來表達

This is you

這是你

and as an Asian I think

這是亞洲人的思維

all the people are at the same position as you

全部的人跟你是在同個平面上的

You treat them the same I think

你對他們跟對自己是平等的

You try to be polite to everyone

你試著對所有的人都很客氣禮貌

and Caucasians are like - you are in the centre

白人像是：你在最中心

and you just do everything which is the best for you

你做每件事都是為了自己最大的利益

and don't care about any other that much as Asians I think

對其他人在乎的程度會比亞洲人還少

Yea that's why people are like this in western countries

很多西方國家的人都是這樣的

So you can expect that for sure in here

所以不要太意外

So you need to adjust yourself

所以你要自我調適

to see if you can accept this kind of personalities

看看你到底能否接受這樣的中心思想

Because that's the way you've been taught I think, right?

因為我想這是你們被灌輸的想法 對吧？

during the whole education

從小到大

I don't know abot this I just feel like this

我不知道，我就是一直都是這樣做事的

dobrze!

好！

Disadvantage of Asians is...

亞洲人的缺點是...

ADDICTED TO INTERNET!

網路成癮！

Really, I have to say like

真的不是我在講

The first thing that crushed my mind

我的第一個文化衝擊

in the beginning of our relationship, lots of argues because of that

我們剛開始這段感情時 很多時候吵架都是為了這個

is that really Internet is so popular in Taiwan

在台灣網路真的非常普及

that much that you have to show your private life

普及到大家都在分享自己的私生活

so much

超愛分享

So if you are not such an open person

所以如果你不是個這麼開放的人

to everyone

對網路上的大家那麼開放

as a Caucasian - you should be prepared for the worst

你要做好心理準備

because she's gonna put your private life everywhere

因為她會到處分享你的生活

on facebook, on I don't know

在facebook上，或是...我不知道

Instagram, Twitter

Instagram，Twitter

I don't know I'm not even using these things

我不知道我根本沒在用這些社交媒體

except Facebook

除了Facebook

yea so that was a huge crush for me

恩所以對我來說這文化衝擊很大

and lots of argues because of this

也常為了這吵架

so I really reccomend you to think twice

所以談跨國戀前， 我真的建議你要再三考慮

or be prepared for this

或是做好對這心裡準備

Be prepared

做好準備

Right now I'm super ok with that

現在我對分享生活這件事已經習慣了

I even gain more open because of her

我甚至因為她變得更開放

Right now I treat it like an advantage for me

我把這當成是一個優點

because I'm more open

至少我對社交媒體接受度更廣了

You know, you need to be prepared for this

你真的要做好準備

I have to say, cause it's very hard for us to change this habbit

因為對我們來說， 改掉愛上網這件事真的不簡單

I do change!

我有改變！

a bit

一點點

Another advantage

另外個優點

Disadvantage, I'm sorry

缺點，對不起

co?

什麼？

disadvantage!

缺點

Alcoholic!

酒鬼

nieeee!

不

I'm not I'm not!

我不是酒鬼

But!

但是

We drink more

我們酒喝比較多

Especially like we in Poland

特別像是波蘭人

Which is like mid to eastern Europe

像是中東歐的國家

We drink more, way more

我們酒喝的比較多

Slovakian soul probably

斯洛伐克民族

Drink a lot!

喝很多

If you look at it in a big way there are lots of homeless people

如果你用比較大的角度去看， 因為這樣，所以路上很多流浪漢

because they spend all the money on drinking

因為他們把所有的錢都花在喝酒上面了

It's like you will find a homeless person in here

你可以在這找到很多無家可歸的流浪漢

or even in super rich countries like Germany

就算是在德國，比較富有的歐洲國家

You will still find homeless people

你還是可以看到很多酒鬼流浪漢

and they are not really like

而且他們不是說

homeless looking for job or anything like that

流浪漢，但還是盡力在找工作養活自己

they are just wasting their life on drinking and they don't care about it

不是，他們只是把人生虛擲在喝酒上， 而且他們也不在乎

and they are so destroyed

他們根本就是沒救了

so I can see that alcohol in here is like a big business and a big issue

我可見酒在這裡是個很大的商機， 也是很大的危機

If it's about I would say Poland I don't know about any other countries

但是只有指波蘭， 其他歐美國家我不確定

I think in Asia you do this because of social stuff

我想在亞洲你喝酒比較像是社交

social meetings and so on

應酬之類的

and here in Europe you even drink with yourself sometimes

但歐洲人偶爾也會跟自己來上一杯

All the time!

常常吧不是偶爾

Not all the time but yea it is a disadvantage

才不是常常勒， 但的確這是我們的缺點

yea that's true

沒錯

I would say it's more like a disadvantage

我會說這是缺點

even know I personally like it

雖然我個人是滿喜歡這缺點的...

wohohohoho

哈哈哈哈哈

Another disadvantage is the food BUT!

另外一個缺點是 食物

It's not about Asian food I love Asian food

但不是因為我不喜歡亞洲食物

I even find it more interesting than Polish food

我甚至喜歡中式比波式還多

But it's about spiceness!

但是是關於辣！

It's like

是因為

I'm not up to spicy things that much as she

我不像她那麼會吃辣

Even if she thinks that she use just a bit of spiceness

就算她覺得這只是小辣

It's like a burn in my mouth

對我來說像是在嘴裡燒一樣

all the time when I try it it's like Jesus Christ!

我常常就是：天啊這也太辣

How can she even eat that!

她怎麼吃得下去

And then I drink milk all the time

所以常常都要喝牛奶止辣

Because I can't even survive it

因為我根本無法

It's too spicy!

太辣了

It's not!

才沒那麼辣勒

because I like spicy food, I even found this spice pouder

我喜歡吃辣， 我甚至在這找到一個辣粉

which is like very spicy!

超級辣

I love it! I enjoy this feeling like

我好愛， 而且那辣又麻的感覺就像是

Oh God Dmmit it's burning my mouth

天阿，完全就是在我嘴裡燃燒

I love it!

太喜歡了

and because we are making dinner together

還有我們都一起煮晚餐

I'm adding just one, one shake

我都只灑一下辣粉，或是灑兩下

Or even no shake... ok there is a shake

或是沒灑...好啦我承認都有加辣粉

I'm adding one shake and that's it and it's not even spicy for me

我灑了一次辣粉， 對我來說根本就不會辣

but for him it's the pain in the ass

但對他來說就像是火燒屁股一樣地痛苦

yea, maybe I'm just like this I don't know

說不定是我自己不會吃辣的問題

Just too much for me

我無法

Another one! Tadadadada

另外一個

So like we've mentioned

像我們稍早提到的

You are spontaneous as an advantage

歐美男生很彈性，是個優點

but on the other hand you are pretty unorganized

但換句話說，就是很沒組織性

So it's like everything can be done in the last minute

所有的事情都可以放到最後一秒再決定

So it cost lots of troubles

因此帶來很多麻煩

or let's say we are trying to organise the party

就說我們在找大家開party好了

So as Asians we would tell your friends like two days before

身為亞洲人，你會在2天前就跟你朋友約好

Oh! What about the weekend? Let's hang out together

噢你周末要幹麼？ 我們一起出去玩好不好？

It's more like this

亞洲人是這樣做事

but as I can see polish are like last minute

但我看到波蘭人做事的方法 就是放到最後一秒

Especially you can see that for example we are going somewhere

你特別可以在出去玩的時候看到這情況

to the bar lets say

譬如說我們要去酒吧

and it's like

然後情況會像這樣

My friends they say - today we are going to the bar

我朋友會說 好今天在酒吧見

and then after one hour there is a message

然後一小時後你會收到簡訊

"We will be there at 8 pm"

我們8點見

and I'm not even replying

我沒有在回覆的

or they are not replying to my messages

他們也不太愛回我簡訊

and it's like we are already in the bar but not everyone is there

然後我們8點到酒吧後 你會發現根本沒人到

some people arrive like two hours later

有的人會一小時後才到

or some people will just text you in the last minute telling you:

或是有的人會在最後一分鐘 傳簡訊給你說

"Oh not today I'm sorry"

噢今天不行，抱歉

Or I'm busy or I'm sick

或是： 我在忙，我生病了

Oh come on just find a better excuse to do this

拜託，找個更好的藉口好嗎

So it's like everybody is being very chillax

大家都很隨興

very relaxing

太隨性

so they don't care, they are really unorganized

所以沒人在乎這種事， 對我來說就是很沒組織性

Too jealous

忌妒心太強

They are very loyal

她們很專情

they care about relationship so much

而且非常在乎感情

but it also mean that you have to expect that they gonna be very jealous

但同時這代表的也是她們很容易感到忌妒

about other girls

當然，對其他女生

What's this?

這是什麼

Am I?

我會嗎？

Or like of course in some examples you are

當然如果你在看其他女生

really looking at other girls

真的一直在看妹的

ASS

屁股

Not ass. I'm not talking about ass

不是屁股啦， 我不是在說屁股

Yes ass, ok

對，屁股

just we are looking at other girls

就說男生一直在看其他女生

of course it's pretty bad you should be concentrated about your girl

當然這不是好事， 你應該要專注在自己的女朋友身上

But it's more like if you even say something for fun

不過如果你開開玩笑

or anything like that - she's gonna be very angry

她可能就會大吃醋

Not very!

哪會大吃醋啦

I mean she's not like this but what I've heard

我是說，她還好 但我有聽過其他故事

is that actually some girls

就是說一些女生

They controll guys right?

會想要控制男生，對吧？

Kind of

類似

In Taiwan, in Asia

在台灣，在亞洲

They might call them asking "where are you?"

她們可能會打給你問你 你在哪？

Or "make me a picture" I mean I do have a friend

或是：你現在拍張照片給我看

got this experience

我有一個朋友就有這經驗

When his girlfriend asked - make me a picture to show me who are you with exactly

他女朋友就說： 你現在拍張照片，讓我看你今天跟誰出去

and this sounds very creepy for me

對我來說這超詭異的

So I won't say all the girls are like this

當然我不是說所有女生都是這樣

jealous that's true

但愛吃醋，倒是真的

But you know it means they love you a lot when they are too jealous sometimes

但你知道， 這同時也代表著她很愛你

Yea Yo Yo Yo Yo MAN!

耶yoyoyo man

Just wanted to say Yo Yo!

我就只是想說Yo yo

I would say younger generation is better

我覺得年輕一代比較ok

About Poland I would say

波蘭的年輕人

Some people can find this like someone is staring at you

有的人會發現 在比較小的城市有的人會盯著你看

Especially in smaller places

特別是小城或小鄉鎮

Yea so there was one experience that I was with you and your friends

我記得有次，我跟你還有你朋友一起出去

There was actually one girl and she was speaking in Polish

就有個女生看著我，用波蘭文說：

and said "what is that creature?"

那是什麼生物啊？

Why are you that mean? Haven't you seen Asian in your life?

為何要這麼壞心啊？ 你從沒在你人生中看過亞洲人嗎？

Sometimes I feel offended

有時候我會覺得被冒犯

but then I realized that it's their problem

但是我後來就覺得 這是他們的問題

They are too narrow-minded and they have never seen Asian

他們見識太淺薄 才從沒在人生中看過亞洲人

They don't know we are one of the most powrful race in the world

難道你不知道亞洲人是全世界最強大的人種之一嗎？

Right now yea

沒錯 (BITCHES!)

So the final conclusion about this

所以最終的結論就是

you can see lots of advantages and lots of disadvantages

你可以看到很多優點和缺點

so it might sound like a storm for you

感覺起來像是暴風雨一樣

Like it really is something complicated

感覺談跨國戀很複雜

for the relationship but actually

但其實

the thing is that

重點是

because we are different

因為我們的差異

so the whole relation between us is even better

所以反而讓這段感情更有趣了

because

就是說

you can see good things on my side and good things on her side

我的優點和她的優點

which are basically taking over bad things of me

基本上就互補了

and bad things of you

彼此的缺點

so it's making a ballance

達到了一個平衡

Yea making the ballance

沒錯 平衡

It means that I'm terrible at something but she is going to help me

所以當我很不擅長某件事時， 她可以幫我

She is terrible at something but I'm gonna help her

她很不會做一件事時， 我可以幫她

and it's very very great

這感覺很棒

and also because the whole differences of cultures

還有也因為文化差異

you will find lots of things to talk about

你會發現彼此有很多話題

lots of things to share about

可以討論

you feel so shocked about this experience, this habbit

你常常會有文化上的衝擊，或是學到新的文化

It's amazing, your life changes completely

真的很棒，你會覺得人生很不一樣

It's really awesome

很酷

AMAZING!!!

棒棒棒

Ok, that's it I hope you guys find it interesting

希望你們會喜歡這一集

It was very nice to talk about these things

很開心可以跟大家聊聊天

about this whole relationship stuff

分享對感情

And talk about this and share this with you

還有其他的一些看法

See you guys next time!

下次見囉

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記得按讚，訂閱，和在底下留言！

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記得也要到我們的Facebook專業按讚， 我們會把網址放在底下

Tak, just there

對，放在那裡

See you next time!

下次見囉

See you, we love you!

下次見，我們愛你

Zàijiàn

再見

Bye Bye Hey!

Byebye!

Byebye!!!

BYE! :)