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  • where parents feel a kid can't be successful

    父母覺得孩子不能成功的地方

  • unless the parent is protecting and preventing at every turn

    除非家長處處保護,處處防範。

  • and hovering over every happening

    目不轉睛

  • and micromanaging every moment

    和微觀管理的每一刻

  • and steering their kid towards some small subset

    並引導他們的孩子走向一些小的子集。

  • of colleges and careers.

    的高校和職業。

  • Our kids end up leading a kind of checklisted childhood,

    我們的孩子最終會過上一種清單式的童年。

  • and here's what the checklisted childhood looks like.

    而這裡'的清單上的童年是什麼樣子的。

  • We want to be sure they go to the right schools,

    我們要確保他們能上對學校。

  • but not just that,

    但不僅如此。

  • that they're in the right classes at the right schools,

    他們在正確的班級在正確的學校。

  • and that they get the right grades in the right classes

    而且他們在正確的班級裡獲得正確的成績。

  • in the right schools.

    在正確的學校。

  • And when they get to high school,

    而當他們到了高中。

  • they don't say, "Well, what might I be interested

    他們不說,"好吧,我可能會有興趣的東西

  • in studying or doing as an activity?"

    在學習或做為一種活動?

  • They go to counselors, and they say,

    他們去找心理諮詢師,他們說。

  • "What do I need to do to get into the right college?"

    "我需要做什麼才能進入合適的大學?&quot。

  • And then when the grades start to roll in in high school,

    等到了高中,成績開始滾滾而來。

  • and they're getting some B's

    和他們得到一些B'的。

  • or, god forbid, some C's,

    或者,上帝保佑,一些C'的。

  • they frantically text their friends and say,

    他們瘋狂地給朋友發短信,說。

  • "Has anyone ever gotten into the right college

    "有沒有人考上合適的大學?

  • with these grades?"

    與這些成績嗎&quot。

  • And they're withering now

    而他們現在正在枯萎

  • under high rates of anxiety and depression,

    在焦慮和抑鬱症高發的情況下。

  • and some of them are wondering,

    而其中一些人卻在想。

  • will this life ever turn out to have been worth it?

    這一生會不會變成值得?

  • Well, we parents, we parents are pretty sure it's all worth it.

    好吧,我們家長,我們家長很肯定這一切都值得。

  • We seem to behave--

    我們的行為似乎...

  • It's, like, we literally think they will have no future

    這就像,我們從字面上看,他們將不會有未來

  • if they don't get into one of these tiny set of colleges

    如果他們不進入這些微小的一組學院的之一

  • or careers we have in mind for them,

    或我們為他們設想的職業。

  • or maybe, maybe we're just afraid

    或者也許,也許我們只是害怕。

  • they won't have a future we can brag about to our friends

    他們不會有一個未來,我們可以向我們的朋友吹噓

  • and with stickers on the backs of our cars.

    並在我們的車後貼上貼紙。

  • Yeah.

    是啊。

  • [Applause]

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where parents feel a kid can't be successful

父母覺得孩子不能成功的地方

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