Name: 如何培養出成功的孩子 — 不要過度的呵護 (TED TALKS | Education Revolution | Julie Lythcott-Haims: A Check-Listed Childhood | PBS)
Uploaded: 2017-04-16T13:14:24.000Z
Duration: 1 min 49 s

where parents feel a kid can't be successful

unless the parent is protecting and preventing at every turn

除非家長處處保護，處處防範。

and steering their kid towards some small subset

並引導他們的孩子走向一些小的子集。

Our kids end up leading a kind of checklisted childhood,

我們的孩子最終會過上一種清單式的童年。

and here's what the checklisted childhood looks like.

而這裡'的清單上的童年是什麼樣子的。

We want to be sure they go to the right schools,

that they're in the right classes at the right schools,

他們在正確的班級在正確的學校。

and that they get the right grades in the right classes

而且他們在正確的班級裡獲得正確的成績。

they don't say, "Well, what might I be interested

他們不說，"好吧，我可能會有興趣的東西

他們去找心理諮詢師，他們說。

"What do I need to do to get into the right college?"

"我需要做什麼才能進入合適的大學？"

And then when the grades start to roll in in high school,

等到了高中，成績開始滾滾而來。

they frantically text their friends and say,

他們瘋狂地給朋友發短信，說。

"Has anyone ever gotten into the right college

under high rates of anxiety and depression,

在焦慮和抑鬱症高發的情況下。

will this life ever turn out to have been worth it?

Well, we parents, we parents are pretty sure it's all worth it.

好吧，我們家長，我們家長很肯定這一切都值得。

It's, like, we literally think they will have no future

這就像，我們從字面上看，他們將不會有未來

if they don't get into one of these tiny set of colleges

如果他們不進入這些微小的一組學院的之一

或者也許，也許我們只是害怕。

they won't have a future we can brag about to our friends

他們不會有一個未來，我們可以向我們的朋友吹噓

and with stickers on the backs of our cars.

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如何培養出成功的孩子 — 不要過度的呵護 (TED TALKS | Education Revolution | Julie Lythcott-Haims: A Check-Listed Childhood | PBS)

literally

anxiety

applause

depression