be one of the most confusing things. But, if we know the key tricks to reading it correctly, it can

是最令人困惑的事情之一。但是，如果我們知道正確解讀它的關鍵竅門，它就可以

actually be one of the most accurate ways to read how he's feeling. Do you guys know what it

其實是一個最準確的方式來閱讀他'的感覺。你們知道嗎？

means if he's sitting on his hands, if he's fidgeting, or if he's standing with his toes pointed

意思是如果他坐在他的手，如果他的坐立不安，或者如果他的站立與他的腳趾尖。

toward each other? Well, by the end of this video, you're going to know all of those things.

向對方？好吧，在這個視頻結束時，你'要知道所有這些事情。

Today, I'm giving you 9 specific things to look for in your crush's body language, so the next

今天，我'給你9個具體的東西，尋找你的暗戀'的肢體語言，所以接下來的

time you have a chat with him, you can read him like a book and know exactly how he feels

和他哈拉的時候，你可以把他看得一清二楚，知道他的感受

about you. This week, I did a surprise Q&A on Instagram where I answered all of your questions

關於你的問題。本週，我在Instagram上做了一個驚喜的Q&A，在那裡我回答了你所有的問題。

live for 2 hours straight. And oh my gosh, you guys, it was like the most intense 2 hours of my

活了2小時直。哦，我的天哪，你們，這就像最 激烈的2小時我的。

life. So many of you had relationship questions, and it was so much fun for me to get to interact

的生活。你們中的很多人都有感情方面的問題 So many of you had relationship questions, 能和你們交流對我來說很有趣 and it was so much fun for me to get to interact.

with you guys. If you do want to be part of the next one, be sure to follow me on Instagram and

和你們一起。如果你想成為下一個的一部分，一定要關注我的Instagram和

Twitter, because I will be doing more surprise Q&As at any random moment. So, come and

微博，因為我會在任何隨機的時刻做更多的驚喜Q&As。所以，來

follow me over there, you guys. Now, let's get right into the decoding.

跟我到那邊去，你們。現在，讓我們直接進入解碼。

This is my hubby, Nathan. And, he's going to be helping us out today a little bit by

這是我的老公，內森。而且，他將是幫助我們今天一點點通過

demonstrating some of the body language postures for guys.

演示一些男生的肢體語言姿勢。

#1 is that he sits or stands with his toes facing each other. If he sits with his toes pointed toward

#1是他坐著或站著的時候，腳趾頭是對著的。如果他坐著的時候腳尖朝向

one another, he's literally closing himself off. Probably, because he feels awkward or insecure.

一個，他從字面上關閉自己。也許，是因為他覺得尷尬或沒有安全感。

This is probably because he cares a lot about impressing you and probably doesn't feel totally

這可能是因為他很在乎給你留下深刻的印象，可能並不覺得完全'。

comfortable around you yet. So, if you like this guy, make sure that your body language is

在你身邊很舒服呢。所以，如果你喜歡這個人，請確保你的肢體語言是。

reassuring. Try smiling, leaning in, and making eye contact.

讓人放心。試著微笑，靠攏，並進行眼神交流。

#2 is sitting on his hands. People who lie will typically hide their hands for fear that their hands

#2號是坐實了自己的手。撒謊的人通常會隱藏他們的手，因為擔心他們的手...

will give away the truth. But, if he's sitting on his hands, it doesn't necessarily mean that he's

會洩露真相。但是，如果他坐在他的手，這並不一定意味著他'。

lying. It likely means that he's trying to control what's coming out of his mouth. This guy may

撒謊。這很可能意味著，他'的試圖控制什麼'的出來，他的嘴。這傢伙可能

be walking on eggshells because he's afraid he's going to say something stupid and mess up his

因為他害怕自己會說一些愚蠢的事情，並搞砸了他的

chances of being with you.

和你在一起的機會。

#3 is fidgeting. Now, we all know that a lot of guys fidget. So much so, that we actually just

#3號是坐立不安。現在，我們都知道，很多人坐立不安。這麼多，我們實際上只是

chalk it up to normal guy behavior. But, have you ever wondered why this is? Fidgeting is a

把它歸結為正常男人的行為。但是，你有沒有想過這是為什麼呢？坐立不安是一種

subconscious way to relieve tension- tension in the mind and tension in the body. If he's

緩解緊張的潛意識方式--心靈的緊張和身體的緊張。如果他'的

fidgeting in a conversation with you, it's because he's feeling uncomfortable and likely wants to

坐立不安，在與你的談話，它'是因為他'的感覺不舒服，很可能想。

get out of the conversation that you're having.

從你的談話中擺脫出來'。

#4 is a half smile. Now, a half smile is kind of like a little smirk. It's when one side of his face is

#4號是半笑。現在，半笑是一種像一個小笑臉。它是當他的臉的一側是。

smiling and the other one is not. And, this usually happens subconsciously because each side of

微笑，而另一個人卻不笑。而且，這通常是在潛意識中發生的，因為每一方的

his face is actually giving a different message with a different intension. One side of his face is

他的臉其實是在用不同的意圖來傳遞不同的資訊。他臉上的一面是

being honest, and kind, and loving, and amazing, and committed. And the other side is a frikkin

誠實，善良，愛， 驚人的，和承諾。而另一邊是一個frankkin

little devil.

小惡魔。

The guy is trying to look sincere, but the little devil's coming through. So, watch out. This guy

這傢伙試圖看起來很真誠，但小魔鬼'的來通過。所以，小心點。這傢伙

might not be being totally honest about his intensions. He may be telling you that he wants a

可能對他的意圖並不完全誠實。他可能會告訴你，他想要一個

relationship, when in reality, all he wants is a little fun.

關係，而實際上，他想要的只是一點樂趣。

#5 is when he points his chest and shoulders toward you, even if he's actually looking at

#5是當他指出他的胸部和肩膀對你，即使他'的實際看在

something else. This is a really good sign, ladies. A guy typically points his body and chest

別的東西。這是一個非常好的跡象，女士們。一個男人通常指向他的身體和胸部

toward the thing in the room that means the most to him. And in this case, it seems like that thing

向著房間裡對他最重要的東西走去。而在這種情況下，它似乎像那件事情。

is you.

是你。

#6 is that he uses his hands. So, one of the most important things to look for in a guy's body

#6號是他用手。所以，最重要的事情之一 尋找在一個傢伙'的身體。

language are his hand gestures. Now, a person gestures a lot when they're trying to make sure

語言是他的手勢。現在，一個人的手勢很多，當他們試圖確保';。

you understand what they're saying, and when they're trying to hold your attention. And the

你明白他們在說什麼， 當他們試圖保持你的注意力。和

more they gesture, the harder they're trying to achieve that. So, if a guy uses his hands a lot

他們的手勢越多，他們就越難達到這個目的。所以，如果一個人用他的手很多。

while he's talking to you, he probably totally likes you.

當他'和你說話的時候，他可能完全喜歡你。

#7 is any stare longer than 3 seconds. 3 seconds may seem really short, but in eye contact time,

#7號是任何超過3秒的凝視。3秒可能看起來真的很短，但在目光接觸時間。

it's a really long time. Let's give it a whirl.

這是一個非常長的時間。讓我們'給它一個旋轉。

1.

1.

2.

2.

3.

3.

So, what we do know is that piercing gazes this long just don't happen naturally. So, if a guy

所以，我們知道的是，刺眼的目光這麼長，只是不'自然發生。所以，如果一個人

does try to hold your gaze for 3 seconds or longer, it's because he's actively trying to get your

試圖保持你的目光3秒或更長的時間，這是因為他的積極試圖讓你的

attention.

注意，

#8 is that he touches his hair. In your presence, a guy who likes you might start touching,

#第八條是他摸頭髮。在你面前，一個喜歡你的人可能會開始摸。

twirling, or playing with his hair while smiling. This indicates that he likes you, but that he might

轉動，或者一邊微笑一邊玩弄他的頭髮。這表明他喜歡你，但他可能會

be a little bit nervous. But watch out for head scratching or playing with his hair while he's

是有點緊張。但要注意抓頭或玩弄他的頭髮，而他'。

frowning. Both of these could be signs that he's either bored or frustrated. Hopefully, not with

皺著眉頭。這兩種情況都可能是他'無聊或沮喪的跡象。希望不是與

you.

你。

#9 is the eyebrow flash. And my amazing Ask Kimberly subscribers already know that this is

#9號是眉毛閃光。而我的神奇的Ask Kimberly用戶已經知道，這是

when he raises his eyebrows up and down quickly right after he catches a glimpse of you. This

當他瞥見你後，眉毛迅速上下浮動。這個

means he's totally and utterly into you. Men literally shift gears when they see something they

意味著他'的完全和徹底到你。男人從字面上轉變齒輪，當他們看到的東西，他們

like. They go from just being in the world and looking around at things that don't really mean

喜歡。他們從只是在這個世界上，看著周圍的東西，不'真的意味著

anything to them, to focusing in on something that truly wows them. And in this case, that's you.

對他們來說，任何東西，集中在真正讓他們驚歎的東西。而在這種情況下，那'就是你。

So, my lovely friends, if you love this video, give it a huge thumbsup. Come and follow me over

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在Instagram和Twitter上。當然，夥計們，請訂閱Ask Kimberly，獲取更多的每週的

videos on relationships. Bye, everybody.

關於關係的視頻。再見，大家。

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