Name: 維克托-弗蘭克爾的《人的意義的尋找》 - 我最喜歡的動畫理念 (MAN'S SEARCH FOR MEANING BY VIKTOR FRANKL - MY FAVORITE IDEAS ANIMATED)
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So I remember watching the movie The Pursuit of Happyness

a long long time ago, and I just thought it was so beautiful.

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And then a few months ago, my girlfriend and I wanted to watch a movie

and we decided that's what we were going to watch.

And this time, I thought it was the dumbest thing I had ever

seen and yet another stupid lesson from Hollywood.

And this is a really famous movie, but just in case you haven't seen it,

So this guy's really poor and going through all this adversity,

but he has a chance of one day becoming a stockbroker.

And the entire movie basically shows him constantly worried,

constantly stressed, constantly pissed off and negative,

constantly yelling and getting into fights with his wife,

BUT one day he might become a stockbroker and finally attain happiness.

I guess Hollywood's version of happiness is one day being a stockbroker.

And at the end of the movie, of course he gets the job,

and he has now successfully pursued and attained happiness.

Now, there are so many things wrong with that, but let's start with this one...

It's weird that someone would even try to pursue happiness,

because happiness cannot be pursued. It's not like a degree that you pursue for

and can keep it for the rest of your life. It's more like a birth certificate that just

comes with you. It's in your house, you just have to find

it. It doesn't depend on how big or small your

So my first favorite idea from the book is, Happiness cannot be pursued.

And to keep this from getting esoteric, let me tell you a story.

So I remember when I was about 7 or 8 my parents left me with my grandma

and we never really had food at home. And I don't mean that in the western sense

of there's nothing that I like in the fridge.

No it was like, there's nothing in the fridge that can be

consumed as calories. And my grandma's only source of income was

her pension. And I remember it was 13 Lari

which is about $6 or $7, and sometimes they wouldn't even bring her

Now, there was also a little bakery at the end of the street.

And they had this little pastry that I really really liked.

And it cost 20 Tetri which is about 10 cents. But most of the time,

I didn't have money to go buy it. So I was out on the street a lot with other

kids, and I soon figured out that there was this

lemonade store. And they'd give you 5 tetri if you brought

And I remember I'd wake up every day and I would go looking for bottles on the

streets. Now it was pretty hard to find those bottles,

but if I found four bottles that would mean I could

bring them to the lemonade store and get 20 Tetri for them.

And I remember how I was just the happiest kid alive.

Every time I found a bottle, it was like the happiest moment of my life.

Every time I went to the lemonade store and collected my 20 Tetri,

it was an unbelievable feeling. And finally I would go to the little pastry

store, and I would buy my little 20 Tetri pastry.

And I would sit out on the side walk and just enjoy it.

And it was supposed to have raisins in it, but since it was so cheap,

they only put a few of them in there. And I remember the occasional raisin bite

and how I felt like the happiest kid alive.

Now contrast that to today... There have been times where I'm eating a $100

because I ordered a medium well but this looks more like a medium.

My night is now officially ruined guys. I'm going to be negative for the rest of the

Now, I'm not here to tell you that the stale, bland, 10 cent pastry is better

I have a preference for the steak. There's nothing wrong with improving your

But that's all it is. Just the ability to experience more.

What I will guarantee you is that you either cultivate the ability to be happy

and are able to be completely happy where you are right now.

Or, I promise you there's absolutely nothing around you

that you can chase to attain happiness. Going from a 10 cent pastry to a $100 steak

is like going from having to take the bus to owning a Ferrari.

Now I'm going to say this again. Yes, it's okay if your preference is driving

But remember, all that does is just let you experience more.

That's it. So you're either happy on the bus right now

just like you'll be happy when you have the Ferrari.

Or you aren't happy on the bus right now and you won't be happy in the Ferrari.

And you know, I look at my life right now, which is really really good.

But I also think of what it's going to be like in 5 years.

And in 5 years, the quality of my life is going to be

a hundred times better than what it is right now.

It'll literally be like going from the 10 cent pastry

to a $100 steak all over again. But I have to keep reminding myself that

I'm either going to be completely happy with that pastry right now

just as I'll be completely happy with the $100 steak in five years.

Or, I'm not going to be happy right now, and I'm not going to be happy in five years.

My second favorite idea is that there's a stimulus,

which is what happens to you, which you can't control.

And then there's a response, which is what you do about it,

which you have full control over. But we treat the response like we have no

control over it. It's just completely automatic for most people.

Something bad happens to you, you automatically get pissed off.

You have complete control over it. Doesn't matter what kind of stimulus you're

presented with, no one can ever take away the ability

for you to choose whatever response you like.

So let's say you're in the kitchen, and you break a bunch of new plates that you

just bought. Now what's the automatic, natural reaction?

Getting pissed off, right? You have to clean it up now.

Plus you broke a bunch of plates that you just bought.

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