Tolearntocope, weneed a prominentmutualawarenessandforgivenessofthisdynamicofsensitivityanddistress,
要學會應付這種情形,我們需要對於這種不斷變化的敏感與悲傷擁有明確的互相意識與原諒,
and a commitmenttodecodeitwhendisengagementandindifferencedescend.
並願意在發生脫離或默示的狀況時,投入心力理解它。
Wehavetocreate a foruminwhichso-called "minor, love-sappinghurts" cansafelybeairedwithouttheotherdismissing⏤astheyalwayssoeasilycan⏤theissuesatstakeas "childish" or "imagined".