Name: 【許添盛醫師/賽斯】Dr.Hsu 一位眼睛生病的小五生(老人黃斑部病變) (【許添盛醫師/賽斯】Dr.Hsu 一位眼睛生病的小五生(老人黃斑部病變))
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講一下我今天的這個感觸 Let's talk about my feeling today.

祈使句型

先講幾個門診來求助的個案 First, let's talk about few of my clients from my clinic.

過去簡單式

第一個個案讓我印象比較深刻 The first case gave me very deep impression.

他其實才小學五年級 He is only a 5th grader

可是他被診斷眼睛的"黃斑部病變" but has been diagnosed as 'Macular Degeneration'.

大家知道"黃斑部病變"是眼睛的一個中老年的疾病 As you all know, Macular Degeneration is the eye disease for older adults.

而且一旦得到是沒有辦法治療的 Once infected, it will not cure.

所以這個小學五年級的小男生 So this 5th grader little kid

他面臨可能持續惡化到不知道甚麼時候會瞎掉 is facing the possibility of getting blind if the condition continue to deteriorate.

看了所有眼科的名醫沒有治療方式 have visited all the famous eye specialists but before the doctors give any treatments,

就向他說運氣好的話就慢慢退化到有一天瞎掉 the doctors told him that he will gradually become blind if he is lucky,

運氣不好　兩三年內就會瞎掉了 what if he is unlucky, within 2 to 3 years, he will get blind.

好　那一樣我跟大家講賽斯心法怎麼幫助這個小朋友 Well, I tell you how Seth Material helped the young boy.

我就跟這小朋友玩一個遊戲 I played a game with the young boy.

假設他是小明好了 the young boy name is Xia Ming.

我說　小明叔叔跟你玩一個遊戲 I told Xia Ming, “Uncle Hsu wants to play a game with you."

他說　玩什麼遊戲 Xia Ming asked, "What kind of game?"

我說　假設你這個"黃斑部病變"是被你吸引過來的 I said, "Assume the 'macular degeneration' is attracted by you"

那你覺得你為什麼會把它吸引過來 “So, what do you think you could attract it?"

因為小朋友很容易進入狀況 You will find the young children are easy to play along.

大人會馬上說　什麼我吸引它 If they are adult, they will immediately deny it.

它就是病變啊什麼吸引 They will think that is the disease and that has nothing to do with the attraction.

各位大人很討厭懂我意思嗎 They hate to believe what I said is true.

大人就是跟小朋友不一樣 Adults are different from the children.

小朋友就很快跟你進入這個遊戲的過程 For children, they are easily indulged in the game.

他就說　嗯　叔叔我想第一個我看太多電視了 Xia Ming said, "I think I must be watching too much of TV".

玩很多的網路 "Played a lot of internet."

我說有道理喔　有道理 I said, " It sounds logical."

那當你看這麼多電視　玩網路的時候 "When you were watching TV or getting on internet,

你有沒有跟媽媽起衝突 did you quarrel with your mom?"

他說有啊　媽媽常常罵我　說眼睛不要囉 Xia Ming replied, " Yes, my mom always scold me, she said I don't take care of my eyes."

說我再玩下去就瞎了 "If I continue to play, I will blind!"

再看電視就瞎了 "If I continue to watch TV, I will blind!"

那你有沒有因為這樣子就沒有看電視就不玩了 Then I asked, "Do you stop watching TV or getting on internet because of this reason?"

他說沒有啊　我還是繼續看電視繼續玩 Xia Ming said, "No, I still continue to watch TV and getting on internet."

那你心中有沒有罪惡感 I asked, " Do you feel guilty?"

各位來了沒有 Dear all, do you see that?

所以他的潛意識有沒有罪惡感 Do you think Xia Ming feel guilty subconsciously?

有　那潛意識有沒有可能被暗示了 Yes, his subconscious mind has been implied.

各位我說我們常講父母親常常為了善意 Dear all, the parents want to do something good for their children many times

而告訴孩子某一些話 by telling them a message

可是卻變成了一個負面的暗示 but this message turn out to be a negative implication to their children.

所以你們常常希望孩子好 So, you want your children to be good,

你不要給我看電視 you do not allow them to watch TV,

你眼睛看瞎了啦 you told them, if they watch TV, their eyes will get blind.

這個是負面暗示不要講 This is a negative implication, please don't say that,

或是你看你又亂吃東西 Or, you tell your children that if they eat wrong food,

你肚子痛中毒我就不理你了 they will get food poisoning and you will not take care of them.

各位不要亂講 Dear all, please do not simply say this.

因為我們以前常講 As we mentioned before,

小孩子有耳無嘴　對吧 Children “have ears but no mouths”, right?

大人你們不要一天到晚有嘴無耳 As an adult, please do not “has a mouth but has no ear.” all the time

因為大人我剛講為了孩子好 This is because the adults thought they are doing something good for their children,

常常你會講一些 they end up saying something like,

你看感冒出門你不撐傘感冒肺炎死掉 “If you don't use the umbrella, your flue will be worsen and you will die with pneumonia.”

我告訴你喔　對不對 It sounds familiar right?

像最近這麼熱有時候我跟你說你中暑 Like the weather is so hot recently, the parents will say you will get the heat stroke.

中暑很可怕會死掉喔 The heat stroke is very serious, you will die.

各位你可以保護他 Dear all, you can protect your children,

你可以給他衛教 you can teach them health education,

但是你不要講負面的話 but you do not give them the negative implication.

各位聽懂了嗎 Dear all, do you understand this now?

就像以前賽斯講說 Seth has said before,

像我們以前父母關心孩子 Some parents, they care for their children.

你吃飽飯不要去游泳 They told their children not to swim after their meal.

等一下你抽筋就死掉喔 If not, they will die from leg cramp.

萬一哪天他吃飽飯　忘記了　去游泳 If one day, the children forget it and they go swimming after their meal,

剛好那個暗示一發作 Coincidentally, that implication has surfaced,

會不會抽筋 Do you think, the children will feel their leg cramp?

各位這樣聽懂了我的意思嗎 Dear all, do you understand what I want to tell you?

所以你們不要誤會 So, please do not misunderstand it.

我們一樣要關心孩子 We still care for our children.

一樣要把孩子導向正向 We still want to lead our children to the correct direction.

那我今天的專注點在於你不要講負面暗示 Today, my emphasis is not using negative implication.

你不要講負面暗示 Do not use the negative implication.

很多父母就很喜歡講負面暗示 Many parents like to give negative implication such as

你就沒讀書以後做乞丐 “If you don't study hard, you will become a beggar.”

對啊　是啊 Yes, don't be shocked, some parents did say so to thier children.

像我媽媽也很喜歡給我負面暗示 My mom also like to give me negative implication.

像我昨天不是在中正紀念堂嗎 For example, I was in Chiang Kai-Shek Memorial Hall yesterday.

那我剪這個髮型 I was in this hairstyle.

已經被詬病罵到今天了嘛　對不對 I was scolded by my mom for a long while.

我跟你講你這髮型有多難看 “How terrible your  hairstyle is!”

你不要看到中正紀念堂人那麼多 “Despite many followers in Chiang Kai-Shek Memorial Hall,

你這髮型喔再過兩三年大家都跑光了 but if you continue keeping this hairstyle, within 2 to 3 years, all your followers will run away.”

我說媽媽人家來聽身心靈演講不是因為我的髮型 I told my mom, my followers came for my speech not  for my hairstyle.

不是那也是有關係啊 They are two different things.

好　因為我媽媽的負面暗示就是有點太離譜 Well, my mom's negative implication was too weird.

所以對我起不了作用 So it didn't cause any effects on me.

可是你們的負面暗示對你們的孩子會起作用啊 But your negative implication to your children can cause effect!

這樣各位了解我的意思嗎 So, do you understand what I am trying to say?

所以我剛講說是我們關心孩子ok What I said is it's okay to care for our children

但是你盡量說出口的不要講負面暗示 but try to abstain from using the negative implication.

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