Name: 他喜歡我嗎？男生喜歡妳的 7 個徵兆 (Does He Like Me? 7 Surprising Signs He Does... - Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)
Uploaded: 2019-02-22T21:01:20.000Z
Duration: 3 min 42 s

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One of my first ever YouTube videos was "How to Tell if a Guy is Interested in You" and it got millions of views.

我有一部很早的 YouTube 影片叫做「男生對你有興趣的徵兆」，點閱率破好幾百萬。

過去簡單式

So me and Jameson sat down, and we thought, you know what, the sophisticated me, a decade on, can probably do better.

我就跟 Jameson 就想說，十年之後，更成熟、見識更廣的我，應該可以做一支更好的影片。

So here it is: "Seven Signs that a Guy Likes You."

來看看這部「男生喜歡妳的七個徵兆」吧！

Number one: people often say that if a guy's trying to impress you, that means he likes you.

第一：許多人會說若一個男生故意要讓妳對他印象深刻，就表示他喜歡妳。

But that doesn't necessarily mean he likes you. It might mean he likes himself.

但那不一定代表他喜歡妳！那可能代表他喜歡他自己。

See, narcissists give great first dates, because they want you to fall in love with them and reflect their glory back at them.

自戀的人都很會設計初次約會，因為他們希望妳愛上他們，這會讓他們很有成就感。

But the person who actually likes you shows that they are impressed by you.

但真正喜歡妳的人會讓你知道妳有多讓他們印象深刻。

They are someone that you have made an impression on.

喜歡妳的人是對妳有印象的那些人。

Number two: he's not afraid to be earnest about his affection for you, even if it gets him teased.

第二：就算他會被揶揄，他也不怕表達對妳的感情。

We're often worried that our friends or our family are gonna taunt us for being too affectionate with the person we like.

我們時常會擔心親朋好友會嘲笑我們對喜歡的人太深情。

When he stops caring about that, you know he's really started caring about you.

只要他不在乎被捉弄，就代表他真的很關心妳。

Number three: when he has to get dressed up for an occasion when he's looking his best, he'll find an excuse on that day to send you a picture.

第三：當他為了某種場合必須精心打扮，他會找機會傳張照片給妳。

He may not take a selfie and send it to you.

他不一定會直接傳一張自拍照給妳。

They'll take a picture of him with his brother or his mom and be like, "Hey look, we're having a great day!"

他有可能會跟兄弟或媽媽合照，告訴妳：「妳看，我們今天很開心！」

What he's really saying is, "Look at me. This is the best dressed I've been all month, and I want you to see it."

但他真正想告訴你的是：「看看我！這是我一個月以來穿得最帥的一次，我希望妳可以看到。」

Number four: he calls you around six o'clock after work to tell you about his day, because you're the one he wants to share his news with.

第四：他下班後大約六點會打電話妳告訴妳今天發生了什麼事，因為他只想跟妳分享這些私事。

I'm not talking about the phone call he makes to you at midnight where he says, "Hey, I have some news. I have a boner. Where are you right now?"

我不是在說他半夜打電話給妳跟妳說：「嘿，我有事情要告訴妳。我現在很硬，妳在哪？」

I'm talking about the guy who actually wants to talk about his day.

我在說那個真的想告訴妳關於他的一天的那位男子。

Number five: he's prepared to wait for intimacy. Doesn't mean he doesn't want it.

第五：他願意等妳準備好跟他有親密行為。這不代表他不想要。

Doesn't even mean he won't maybe try to have it early on.

甚至不代表他不會嘗試早一點跟妳來。

But when you delay him and you say, "That's not my speed." he still wants to see you again, and he's more than prepared to wait.

但當妳告訴他說：「我不想這麼快」，他還是會想見妳，也很願意等妳。

Number six: he finds time to see you even when it's not convenient.

第六：就算不方便，他還是會找時間去見你。

Now I'm not saying he finds a day to see you, or even three hours to see you.

我不是說他會為了妳空出一整天或三個小時。

But when someone likes you, they will cobble together whatever time they have, from the scraps, just to be able to get 15 minutes to say hi to you.

但當一個人喜歡妳，他們會硬擠出時間，哪怕是 15 分鐘，也要去和妳打個招呼。

Not talking about the hookup right now. I'm talking about his desire just to see your face.

我不是在講上床這件事，我是在說他是否渴望見到妳。

When someone likes you, they make it happen.

只要有人喜歡妳，他一定找得出時間。

Number seven, and let this one sink in: he wants to go to the movies with you after sex.

接著好好想想第七點：他會想在跟妳上床之後和妳去看電影。

Most guys will take women on dates, go to movies, go to dinners before they have sex.

大多數的男生會帶女生約會、看電影、吃晚餐，再上床。

And then they wake up, and they're like, "Okay. Now, leave please. I wanna go and be with my friends."

早上起床後他們就會說：「好喔，妳可以回去了。我現在想去找朋友。」

When you wake up with a guy, and he's like, "Hey, you with the crazy hair. Let's go see a movie," he likes you.

當妳睡醒，而躺在一旁的他對妳說：「嘿，妳這頭髮亂得跟瘋婆子一樣的女孩。我們去看電影吧！」，就表示他喜歡妳。

So there it is. Take that, nineteen-year-old me.

就這樣。接招吧，十九歲的我。

Oh, and if you were listening to these, and you thought, "There is a guy in my life that's attracted to me," and you wanna flirt back, I have a free guide for you called "The Five Compliments," which gives you five exact compliments you can give to a guy that'll not only get him more attracted to you, but also give him a clue that you're attracted to him.

如果妳聽完之後，發現妳生活中好像有一個喜歡妳的男生，然後妳也想跟他調情，我有一本免費的約會指南，叫做「五個讚美」，提供妳可以讓一個男生更愛妳的五個讚美，也可以讓他知道妳喜歡他。

I'm not talking about the phone call he makes you at midnight where he says, "Hey, I have some news. I have a boner." (laugh)