字幕列表 影片播放 列印英文字幕 okay so earlier today I went to make Q&A video with my mom because it's something we've done before and I think people like seeing how great she is with dealing with me being gay and just even being silly like how normal our relationship is and how awesome our relationship is and I think people really get a lot of hope from that and anyways we went to make another video half way through recording the video my camera ran out of room so I'm deleting stuff from it and in the middle of that me and my mom just started to have a conversation a pretty personal conversation and she didn't know but I started recording a part of it and um it's pretty emotional but uh I couldn't spread a better message than what she said and I think I dont know it's just.. I'm amazed that that's my mom and I'm so proud that she's my mom and I just think it's something a lot of people will benefit from hearing so even though it's super personal I decided I'm gonna upload it so here it is We've got a better relationship than anyone else Well I mean I felt so bad for you when you called me that time and you're like \"I've got everything going for me. I'm smart and I'm pretty and people like me\" but I've got this thing about me and you know I was like you don't have a thing, everybody has a thing it doesn't matter you know. I was trying to make you feel like that's nothing you know that's just everybody has a thing and that's just a thing. It doesn't define anything about you. You know? You're perfect just the way you are. You know? You're the best. You are. You're just like a perfect girl. All that stuff, it doesn't matter. Why do people care about that? Why are people so involved with your life that they've got to like, make that a big deal. What is the big deal? Why do they care? It's not a big deal.-me I know it's not - mom and people don't get that. I don't think people get that unless like if somebody has somebody in their life you know that has that, I mean then they start to get it. But it's like, until they are in that situation. Some people are just so close minded that they are like nope this is how it is! and you know, and it's like no that's not how it is. That's not how it has to be. We'll teach em' - me But I mean yeah it's getting better and I think it's kind of cool that - mom you do your videos. And I mean some people in your situation commit suicide I mean and then it's over for them and they can't change that you know then it's done and if you let them know that yes you're in a bad place, I was in that bad place you know I felt the same way What way do I have out of this? But it's like if you just go with it and get comfortable with yourself and you know you'll get to a point where you're like, this is okay you know it doesn't matter - mom yeah it's true - me but you know some people don't make it to that part They commit suicide or just I mean hopefully they get to that and can get past that and don't do that Mac wants them to make it too I just feel awful that there are people out there, GOOD people out there in that spot and then they do that to themselves and it's like, that didn't have to be that way you know? or other issues, whatever people deal with that make you know young people get to the point where they might kill themselves they don't understand, this can change. it's like I read that book, It Get's Better if they don't make it there then you don't know you don't have the chance to get passed that. If you just think there's no end, there's no way out of this and that's your choice then you don't have a way to get beyond that and say Wow, it could be okay and I can actually be happy.- mom It's so easy to fall into that -me yeah I mean if you feel trapped like with you being able to talk to these people it gives them hope that, Oh wow there's someone who was in my shoes And she worked through that, and look how happy she is now. It gives them the opportunity to see, that's not my only option. My options are wide open. yeah what's it like having the best daughter ever I don't know you'd have to ask my mother.