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  • Hi, this is Brad Browning, author of the Ex Factor Guide and in this video I'm going to

    嗨,我是 Brad Browning,我是 Ex Factor Guide 的作者。在這部影片中,我將要

  • talk about how to make your ex miss you. Now, if you want to get back together with your

    告訴你怎麼樣讓你的前任情人想念你。現在,如果你想要和你的前任情人複合,

  • ex, you're going to have to make your ex miss you. That's just a simple fact of life. If

    你要先讓你的前任情人想念你。那就是生活的真實樣貌。

  • you want to get them back, your ex must miss you. So how do you make them miss you? That's

    如果你想要他們回到你身邊,那你就要讓你的前任想念你。所以,要怎麼樣才能讓他們想念你?

  • what I'm going to talk about in this video. The first thing that you need to understand

    這就是接下來我要在這部影片說的。第一,你要了解

  • is that you can't convince your ex to get back together with you. No amount of words

    你不能說服你的前任情人跟你復合。不要說太多類似

  • -- begging, pleading, or trying to convince is going to make that happen. They need to

    懇求或是試著去說服讓事情發生。他們需要

  • organically and naturally want to get back together with you. And if they miss you, that's

    從本質上想要回到你身邊。如果他們想念你,

  • going to stimulate those feelings of wanting to get back together with you because they

    那就要去刺激那些想要回到你身邊的感覺,因為他們想念你了。

  • miss you. And the way to stifle that pain of missing you is to get back together. So

    而去抑制那些想念你的情感,最好的方法就是回到你身邊。所以,

  • how do you make them miss you? Well, the first thing that you need to understand is that

    要怎麼樣讓他們想念你?第一件你要了解的事情是

  • your break up ended because the attraction faded between you and your ex. It was there

    你們的分手原因是因為你和前任情人彼此之前的吸引力已經淡了。

  • initially when your relationship was going really well and then over a period of time

    原本你們彼此之間的關係還不錯,但過了一段時間後

  • whether it was a month or a year, the attraction faded. And it faded to the point that your

    不管是過一個月或是一年,這股吸引力就變小了。這個點

  • ex decided that they didn't want to be with you. So how do you rebuild that attraction

    也就變成他們不想再和你交往的原因了。所以,要怎麼樣才能讓你變得更有

  • well again? Make them miss you! Now, let's just think about, more broadly, what makes

    吸引力,讓他們想念你!現在,就讓我們來廣泛的想一想,到底是

  • you miss someone or something? Well it's when you're used to having someone or something

    甚麼能讓你想起一些人或一些事?當你習慣有了某些人或某些事情出現在你的生活中

  • in your life, you become comfortable with them. It becomes part of your daily routine.

    而你也覺得跟他們在一起很愉快。這變成你每天例行公事的一部分。

  • They become integrated in your life. Just like your ex was! You were there for them,

    他們真正融入到你的生活裡。就像你前任一樣。你就在那兒,

  • you called them everyday. Maybe they woke up beside you everyday. Maybe you saw them

    你每天打電話給他們。可能他們每天在你身邊睡醒。可能

  • every night after work. Whatever it was, they were a major part of your life and you were

    你每天晚上下班之後都會看到他們。不管怎麼樣,他們都是你生活中很主要的部份

  • a major part of their life. So in order to make them miss you, what do you have to do?

    你也是他們生活中的主角。所以為了讓他們想你,你應該要做些甚麼呢?

  • Well, you have to disappear! Completely vanish off their radar. That's the very best way

    你必須要消失!完全在他們的雷達範圍內消失。這是個讓某人能

  • to make someone miss you. They were comfortable having you around. They were used to having

    想念你最好的方法。他們覺得有你的時候很快樂。他們很習慣你在他們的生活裡了

  • you part of their life, and then all of a sudden, boom. Cold turkey. You're gone. And

    你在他們的生活了,然而,在一瞬間所有的東西就突然不見了。說不見就不見。

  • that's really going to stimulate those feelings of missing you. And that's something you absolutely

    這種情況真的會刺激想念你的感覺。這就是那些如果你

  • need if you want to get them back. It has to be natural and making them miss you is

    想要找回的那種需要。要很自然的讓他們想念你

  • the most natural way of doing that. So how do you disappear completely in a very practical

    要用最自然的方法去做。所以,你要如何真正百分之百的消失?

  • way? Of course you can't just magically, poof, be gone from their life. It's always more

    當然你不可能很神奇的就直接消失,總有

  • complicated than that. But this is where the 30 day, No Contact rule comes into play. Maybe

    更多複雜的方式。但在這30天內,請遵循不聯絡守則。或許

  • you've heard about this before on the internet, you've read about it. Essentially what the

    你已經在網路上聽過或看過這些。

  • No Contact rule is is that is basically means, for the 30 days after your break, the first

    不聯絡守則基本上是在講說,從你開始消失的這30天

  • 30 days after your breakup, you don't talk to your ex at all. Of course there's a few

    這30天你完全不跟你的前任講任何一句話。當然,有時候

  • complications with that, and the very rare case where it might not be appropriate, but

    也有些複雜的情況。在極少見的情況下,這樣是非常不妥當的

  • generally speaking the 30 day No Contact rule is something you're going to want to do after

    但通常來說30天不聯絡守則 是你要讓你的前任

  • the breakup in order to get your ex to start missing you. Now the science says (and there

    想念你而必須做的手段。現在是科學的時代

  • is some science behind this, I'm not just making all this up) the science says that

    (有些科學根據在這背後,我不只是讓這一切都取決於科學拉),科學證明

  • generally speaking after a breakup, and of course it depends on the duration of your

    在分手之後,一般而言,取決於你的戀情長度、

  • relationship and how bad the breakup was and how serious the relationship was, but generally

    你分手時的情況有多糟、你對於這段感情有多認真。大致上來說,

  • speaking, the peak of those feelings of missing your ex occur 3 weeks after the initial breakup.

    想念前任情人的感覺達到最高峰時是在於分手後的三個禮拜。

  • That's assuming you're doing this No Contact method, of course. If you're not doing that,

    這就是為什麼你要確保在前三個禮拜遵守不聯絡守則。如果你不遵守,

  • then you're not giving them the chance of developing those feelings of missing you.

    你就沒辦法給他們想念你的機會。

  • But if you are employing the No Contact strategy for 30 days, then around 3 weeks is the peak

    但你若執行不聯絡守則30天,在三個禮拜的這個想念高峰時點,

  • of those feelings. Your ex is going to be missing you like crazy. They haven't heard

    你的前任情人一定想你想的要死。他們已經沒有

  • from you or talked to you in 3 weeks. And even if things were a little rocky at the

    你的任何消息,也沒有跟你說話長達三個禮拜了。甚至,你在最後分手時

  • end of your relationship, trust me, they're still going to be missing you and missing

    的情況有點緊張,相信我,他們還是會想念你,以及想念

  • having you around and in their life. Now there's another element to this whole making your

    你在他們身邊的日子。現在是另外一個如何讓你前任情人想你的元素。

  • ex miss you and No Contact thing that you also need to understand. And that's that,

    不聯絡原則你必須要了解。再來,

  • making your ex miss you, at the same time, it also helps to make your ex let go of some

    要讓前任情人想念你,在這同時,你必須要讓你的前任情人

  • of the negative memories that they have of you and your relationship. Over time, as they

    忘卻關於你們之間的一些負面回憶。隨著時間的推移,他們會

  • get to miss you more and more and as they approach that 3 week peak of missing you,

    會在達到巔峰的這前三個禮拜逐漸的想念你,越來越想你。

  • they'll start to let go of the negative memories and they'll start to forget, even if it's

    他們會逐漸忘卻所有不愉快的回憶,即使在淺意識裡,

  • on a subconscious level, why they decided to break up with you in the first place. And

    他們也會開始忘記為什麼他們決定要跟你分手。

  • in addition to dropping some sort of the negative memories of forgetting some of the reasons

    除了忘記負面的回憶、忘記一些想要分手的

  • why they wanted to breakup, they'll also hold on to the nostalgia and happy memories. They'll

    原因,他們也會記得懷念充滿快樂的回憶。他們

  • hold on to them and they'll come back to the surface during that time when they're missing

    會守住,當他們想你想得要死的時候,他們會回到記憶的那瞬間。

  • you like crazy. They'll be thinking and focusing on the positive aspects. And that's great

    他們會思考,對於某件事有了正向的想法。

  • of course if you want to get them back because they're forgetting the bad parts of your relationship

    這樣實在是太棒了,前提是你想要他們回到你身邊,他們正在忘卻你們的關係中負面的情緒,

  • and they're remembering the good parts. So that's another advantage of making your ex

    他們只記得好的那部分。所以,那正是讓你的前任情人想念你的另外一個優點,

  • miss you is that those feelings will be even stronger and if you can make them miss you

    這些感覺會越來越強烈,如果你可以讓他們想你想到不行,

  • so badly that it's killing them inside and really need to stifle that pain and that heartache,

    這種感覺快要殺死他們了,他們真的很需要撫平這種傷痛和心痛

  • then maybe they'll get back together with you. And that certainly does happen sometimes

    以至於他們會想回到你身邊。而這確實偶爾會發生

  • if you were so close and then you breakup and you apply the 30 day No Contact rule,

    如果你跟前任是非常親近的,然後你在分手後30天實行這個不聯絡法則

  • they miss you so much that in order to just stifle that pain they decide, well, let's

    他們很想你,為了抑制這個痛,他們就決定要

  • get back together and that will solve all my problems. I won't miss him anymore or her

    回到你身邊,而這就會解決全部的問題。我不會再想念他或她了。

  • anymore. So that's pretty much how to make your ex miss you in a nutshell. Obviously

    簡而言之,這就是讓前任情人想念你的方式。顯然還有很多方法可以做到讓前任想念你,

  • there's way more to it than that that I can't cover in this video, so please if you do need

    但是我的影片沒辦法全部都包含在內,所以如果你需要幫助,

  • more help or if you want to learn more, head over to my website. It's BREAKUPBRAD.com and

    或是想學到更多方法,請你到我的網站來 BREAKUPBRAD.com

  • over there, I got a FREE video up, you can watch that. And also you'll be able to get

    這裡有免費的影片可供觀看。或者你可以email給我。

  • my email address and send me an email. And thanks very much for watching I would really

    謝謝觀看!如果你喜歡我的影片,

  • appreciate it if you like this video or subscribe to my YouTube channel. Really appreciate it.

    可以點"喜歡",或訂閱我的 YouTube 頻道,我將會非常感激。

  • Thank you so much for watching. We'll talk to you next time.

    謝謝觀賞,我們下次見。

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