five body language tricks that would make anyone instantly like you. Now definitely,

能夠讓別人立即喜歡你的五種肢體語言技巧

It's important that people should like us. It kind of boosts up our confidence. So most

當然的，別人喜歡我們是很重要的。這是一種提振自信心的感覺

of the people that I meet are very much in love with themselves, very much interested

我遇過的大部分的人，都非常的愛慕自己、對自己的一切非常感興趣

in themselves. So how do we capture and hold their attention towards our conversation or

那麼，我們要如何能夠讓我們的對話，捕獲並抓住他們的目光呢？

towards us without saying a word. Well, its a wonderful body that would help to capture

又或者，不用說任何一個字就可以吸引對方呢？正是我們完美的身體可以幫我們做到！

and hold their attention. So we are gonna look at

所以我們要來看看

these ways to win friends and to influence people.

這些可以贏得朋友和影響別人的方法

The first trick that I have for you is, The flooding smile. Please do me a favour, please

第一個技巧是：滿滿的笑容。請幫我一個忙，笑一個！

smile. Definitely It's very important to smile. Now of course this doesn't mean that you keep

笑容是非常重要的。當然的，這並不代表你必須要

grinning all day long, keep grinning that would not help. That would not impress people

一整天都露齒微笑，一整天的露齒微笑並沒有什麼太大的幫助；也不會讓對方印象深刻

either, because they would think that you do this for everyone. So not that impressive,

因為他們會覺得你對每個人都是如此。所以並不用那麼的引人注目

what you need to do is the moment you greet people, give a very positive warm responsive

你需要做的是，是在和對方打招呼的那一刻，給予對方一個正向又溫暖的笑容

smile. So the smile should flood over your face and that would stipulate good feelings.

你的笑容必須是滿溢在臉上並展現出欣喜之情

It would give a very positive feeling to the opposite person and will show that you are

如此一來，就會給對方一個很正向的感覺，並且可以表現出你的喜悅

really happy and your'e feeling very glad to meet this person. So do smile, because it works

以及你非常榮幸可以和這個人見面。所以，微笑吧！真的非常有效

The second trick that I have for you is, Sticky eyes. So what are sticky eyes? Well, eyes

第二個技巧是：眼神直視對方。要怎麼要算是直視對方呢？

are the most important part of our body and here what I mean is don't break eye contact.

眼睛是我們身上最重要的一個部位，所以我這裡指的是，不要讓雙方的眼睛沒有互動

Now when you are talking to someone pretend that you are completely glued to the conversation.

現在，當你正在和別人說話時，要裝作你完全被對話內容給吸引了

Like your eyes are completely glued to the conversation that you're having with the opposite

就像你的眼球完全被你們之間的談話內容所吸引一樣

person. So this brings a little bit of confidence in the opposite person, that Oh yes he's listening

這會給對方帶來一些自信心。很好！他正在聽我說話

to him, to me and he is very interested in what I am saying, so this would make him or

而他也對於我講的東西很有興趣

her to like you instantly. Now even when the conversation ends, do not just look away.

這就可以讓他或她立即的喜歡上你。即使對話結束了，也不要立即看向他方

What you need to do is reluctantly or slowly look away from that person that your'e talking

你需要做的是：不情願的，或是慢慢的將目光從對方身上轉移

to, so which means that don't break your eye contact instantly.

代表著你沒有立即就轉移了視線

The third trick that I have for you is the, Big baby pivot. Now here what I mean is people

第三個技巧是：轉動你的支點

are very concious that how a person would react to them, so when you meet someone make

我想說的是，人們對於和對方的互動是非常在意的

sure that you turn completely, turn your body, keep your head straight and your tore sell

所以，當你和對方見面時，記住，確定自己轉正、將自己的身體轉正，頭保持筆直

straight, when you are meeting someone. You don't have to just look back and say hello

你不要只是向後看並和他說哈囉，這是不正確的

to him, that's not right. So give a completely undivided attention like you would do it for

如同你對於你的嬰兒般，將你全部的注意力集中、持續的放在對方身上

a baby. If a baby crawls up to you and you know is trying to seek attention, of course

如果嬰兒爬起來，你會知道他是在尋求你的注意

with open arms and with a straight body, you are gonna give him that undivided attention.

理所當然的，張開雙臂、打正身體，你會將你的注意力集中在他身上

So that's what even every adult likes. He will be highly impressed, if you do that,

這也是大人所需要的。他會對你印象深刻

complete attention is what everybody loves.

如果你做到了，接收到全部的注意力是每個人都喜愛的

The forth trick that I have for you is, Limit the fidget. So here what I mean is, if you

第四個技巧是：控制自己的舉動。我的意思是

want to appear credible, do not move much, when you are having a conversation with someone,

如果你想要表現出自己很可靠的樣子，就別一直動來動去。當你在和對方對話的時候

not professional and definitely not appreciated by anybody, so do not move much. Also stop

別動來動去，否則會表現出不專業的態度，也不令人讚賞

fidgeting with your hands, like stop wiggling or even stop scratching like many people have

也要讓你的手停止坐立難安的感覺，像是要停止擺動，或甚至是停止抓癢

a habit of scratching, while they are talking or you know scratching in this manner, doesn't

就如同有些人有抓癢的習慣一樣。當對方正在說話，或是你知道抓癢這個舉動，看起來並不好看

look good at all. So please stop that, also even if you are really tempted to look at

所以，拜託別這麼做。即使是你非常想要看一下手機

your phone to see what emails have you received or what messages have you received. Stop multitasking,

來確認你收到了什麼郵件，或是什麼訊息。不要一心多用

please give or please be attentive to the conversation that your'e having, this would

請給予或是注意你正在進行的這個對話

impress the opposite person.

這會讓對方印象深刻的

The fifth and the last trick that I have for you is, Use your hands. Hands the most important

第五個也是最後一個技巧是：善用你的手。手是最重要的身體部位，請善用他們

part of a body, do use them. Well, do not cross your hands, crossing your hands or your

不要雙手抱胸，雙手抱胸或是讓手臂交叉

arms shows disinterest or boredom. Are you really bored of a conversation? Well, yes

表現出沒興趣或是感到無聊。你是真的覺得談話內容很無聊嗎？如果是

then you can cross your hands, just kidding but do use your hands, when you are talking

那你就可以雙手抱胸，開個小玩笑。但當你在和別人談話時，你真的要善用你的雙手

to someone. In fact I read it somewhere that when you use your hands, while you are talking.

事實上，我有在某個地方看過一個訊息，當你在談話時善用你的雙手

It helps active speech production, which means it helps you to take those words out, you

這會讓你的演講更活潑，意味著，他能夠使你的文字活過來

know your mind is set that you have to use these words or use this vocabulary. So it's

你知道你的心裡已經知道了，你必須使用這些字詞、或是這些單字

the hands that help you to take it out of your mouth, so do use it. Do not stand straight

而就是手，他可以幫助你讓字詞從口中說出，所以快去善用他吧

or do not cross your hands, while you are talking to someone.

當你在和他人說話時，不要立正站直或是雙手抱胸

So this brings me to the end of this session. Do use these tips, because

這帶我來到課程的尾端了。好好使用這些技巧

our body language definitely speaks out better.

因為你的肢體語言一定可以表現得更好

People will like you, if you end up using these tricks, if you end up using all your

如果你用了這些技巧，大家都會喜歡你，如果你最後

body gestures in a wonderful manner and of course, do subscribe to my channel and you

將你的身體運用於完美姿態上，那當然。訂閱我的頻道

will be posted with lots of videos. I'll be back with a new lesson for you. Till then

而你將會收到許多影片。我會帶著新的課程回來的

you take care.

在那之前，你多保重！