Name: 【性別平等】你有男子氣概嗎？男人們坦承自身的焦慮 (Men Reveal Insecurities In Their Masculinity)
Uploaded: 2016-07-13T23:00:00.000Z
Duration: 2 min 17 s

In part, probably 'cause my dad had a beard.

And aren't we all just trying to be our dads?

我們做兒子的，不都想和我們的爸爸一樣嗎?

Growing up, you always like question your masculinity.

長大後，你總是會對你的男子氣概有所疑問

I've definitely questioned my gender before.

我以前真的對我的性別有所疑惑

but not sure if I've always been like a manly man.

但是我不敢說，自己是個堂堂男子漢

I started really questioning whether I was or not.

但我覺得，如果當時我沒有參與

I had this pink salmon lunchbox that I really liked.

以前我有一個很喜歡的粉紅色午餐盒

Both boys and girls told me that I shouldn't have that,

不論男生女生都跟我說，我不應該有這個東西

and so, that was the last time I ever used that lunchbox.

因為這樣，從那之後我在有沒有用那個午餐盒了

My girlfriend's dad said I wasn't a real man.

我女友的爸對我說，我不是真男人

When he said that, he was referring to the fact

that he didn't think that I could be the man of the house

我還不能夠擔當日後家裡的男主人

You know it's those microaggressions and macroaggressions

就是「微侵略」，「宏侵略」這個東西

that constantly wear at you, that start making you question

Different points of my life, I've been self-conscious

Growing up a skinny kid, like definitely,

As a short guy, everyone has remarked  at how small I am.

因為我身高不高，大家都注意到我有多小一隻

我有點皮包骨、瘦瘦高高的，動作很笨拙

A muscular man with a six pack is an ideal.

My physical form, I've worked really hard

A real man, I guess, is anyone that identifies as a man

真男人，我自認為，就是一種自我認同

If you take away all these societal expectations.

besides just someone that identifies as a guy.

Because when we think too polemically  about what makes a man or what makes a woman, we erase all of the like giant space of what makes a person.

當我們過於斤斤計較怎樣才像個男人，怎樣才像個女人，我們已經把「怎樣才像『人』」的定義與空間都抹滅掉了

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【性別平等】你有男子氣概嗎？男人們坦承自身的焦慮 (Men Reveal Insecurities In Their Masculinity)