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  • I couldn't wait to grow a beard.

    我等不及要長鬍子

  • I felt like that was a true marker

    我深深覺得那是

  • of what it meant to be a man.

    身為一個男子漢的重要象徵

  • In part, probably 'cause my dad had a beard.

    也或許是因為我爸也有鬍子

  • And aren't we all just trying to be our dads?

    我們做兒子的,不都想和我們的爸爸一樣嗎?

  • Growing up, you always like question your masculinity.

    長大後,你總是會對你的男子氣概有所疑問

  • I've definitely questioned my gender before.

    我以前真的對我的性別有所疑惑

  • I've always felt like a man,

    我一直覺得自己是男人

  • but not sure if I've always been like a manly man.

    但是我不敢說,自己是個堂堂男子漢

  • I have been made to feel less than a man

    在我大半的人生

  • for a good chunk of my life.

    我一直覺得自己不像個男人

  • I started really questioning whether I was or not.

    我開始質問自己是否是個男人

  • I tried fantasy football.

    我試著踢過足球

  • I'm bad at it, I hate it,

    我踢得不好,我恨它

  • but I felt like if I didn't participate

    但我覺得,如果當時我沒有參與

  • in my school's fantasy football group,

    校內的足球社團

  • that I wasn't a dude.

    我就不是個男的

  • I had this pink salmon lunchbox that I really liked.

    以前我有一個很喜歡的粉紅色午餐盒

  • I was made fun of it.

    我被取笑了

  • Both boys and girls told me that I shouldn't have that,

    不論男生女生都跟我說,我不應該有這個東西

  • and so, that was the last time I ever used that lunchbox.

    因為這樣,從那之後我在有沒有用那個午餐盒了

  • My girlfriend's dad said I wasn't a real man.

    我女友的爸對我說,我不是真男人

  • When he said that, he was referring to the fact

    他當時這麼說,其實另有所指

  • that he didn't think that I could be the man of the house

    他認為如果我要娶她的女兒

  • if I were to marry his daughter.

    我還不能夠擔當日後家裡的男主人

  • You know it's those microaggressions and macroaggressions

    就是「微侵略」,「宏侵略」這個東西

  • that constantly wear at you, that start making you question

    一直疲勞轟炸你,你開始質疑

  • your right to be called a man.

    你被稱為男人的權利

  • Different points of my life, I've been self-conscious

    在我人生中,我有幾次意識到

  • of aspects of myself physically

    我自己的生理

  • because I felt like it was an indication

    我感覺到

  • that I wasn't man enough.

    我不夠像個男人

  • Growing up a skinny kid, like definitely,

    從小瘦得像根竹竿

  • felt a little weaker.

    感覺自己有點弱

  • As a short guy, everyone has remarked at how small I am.

    因為我身高不高,大家都注意到我有多小一隻

  • I'm kinda skinny and lanky and awkward.

    我有點皮包骨、瘦瘦高高的,動作很笨拙

  • If I could change a part of my body,

    如果可以改變我的身體構造

  • I'd definitely add some muscle mass.

    我絕對要多長一點肌肉

  • Because muscles make a man.

    有肌肉,就像個男人

  • A muscular man with a six pack is an ideal.

    有六塊肌的肌肉是最好的

  • My physical form, I've worked really hard

    為了我的身材,我一直很努力

  • for it to look this way.

    要變成心目中的樣子

  • Getting stronger is amazing.

    要變得強壯是件不得了的事

  • The muscles starting to form.

    肌肉開始出現了

  • The look, the confidence.

    外在和自信就顯露出來了

  • A real man, I guess, is anyone that identifies as a man

    真男人,我自認為,就是一種自我認同

  • that is not imaginary.

    不只是一種想像而已

  • If you take away all these societal expectations.

    如果可以將社會期待拋諸腦後

  • Protects women.

    例如要保護女人

  • Take up a lot of space.

    要大塊兒

  • Needs to be tough.

    一定要很粗獷

  • Can't cry.

    有淚不輕彈

  • Cannot be gay.

    不可以娘娘腔

  • You really don't have anything else

    不用因為別人的價值觀

  • besides just someone that identifies as a guy.

    來定義你是否是個男性

  • Because when we think too polemically about what makes a man or what makes a woman, we erase all of the like giant space of what makes a person.

    當我們過於斤斤計較怎樣才像個男人,怎樣才像個女人,我們已經把「怎樣才像『人』」的定義與空間都抹滅掉了

I couldn't wait to grow a beard.

我等不及要長鬍子

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