Today what I'm going to talk about is:

今天我要談的是：

what does it mean to grow up in a pornified culture?

在被色情汙染的文化中成長，代表什麼意思呢？

What does it mean to live in a society

生活在這樣的社會，代表什麼意思呢？

where you are surrounded by images of hypersexualized, pornified women.

圍繞著縱慾化的、情色化的女性影像，

What does it mean when you live in a society

當你生活在這樣的社會，代表什麼意思呢？

where basically pop culture is shaped by those pornographic images?

基本上色情的影像塑造了流行的文化，

What I'm going to talk about

而我要談論的是

is how those images shape gender and sexual identity

這些影像如何塑造「性」和「對性的認知」

because today young people grow up not in a print-based culture

因為現在年輕人不是在一個以「印刷為基礎」的文化下成長

- like those of us over the age of 35, and I'm being nice here -

- 就像我們之中超過35歲的人，而我也很榮幸在這裡範圍裡面 -

but they grow up in an image-based culture,

但他們在一個以「影像為基礎」的文化底下成長

so let's wander through the world they live in.

所以讓我們看看他們活在什麼樣的世界

When I lecture to people, often therapists or parents,

當我對人們演講的時候，通常是一些治療師或家長，

they don't really know the world their kids live in.

他們並不真正的知道他們的孩子活在什麼世界

But you know what? The media does.

但你們知道嗎？媒體了解

Here is a magazine called Details which is like Cosmopolitan for men.

這裡有一本雜誌叫做《Details》，就像《柯波夢丹》之於男性

They had an article called "How Internet porn is changing teen sex?"

他們有一篇文章叫做《網路色情正如何改變青少年的性觀念？》

They interviewed a pornographer called Joanna Angel,

他們訪問了一個叫做 Joanna Angel 的情色作家

and she said, "The girls these days just seem to come to the set porn-ready."

她說：「現在的女孩子像是只在準備做些色情的行為」

What does that mean?

這是什麼意思？

What I'm going to say is that this culture is socializing our young girls

我要說的是，這文化在讓我們的女孩們 社會化為

to be ready for pornography

準備好去做色情的行為

whether they ever end up on a porn site or not.

不論她們有沒有上過色情網站

The reason for that is that they are being taught

原因是她們被教導成

to hypersexualize and pornify themselves.

要去縱慾化和色情化自己

So let's wander through the images that these young women and men live in.

所以讓我們看看這些影像，這些年輕的女孩和男孩生活周遭的影像

Let's just think about the images that bombard them,

我們來想想這些 轟炸著他們的影像

the kind of pornified, hypersexualized images.

這些色情化和縱慾化的影像

And really, when you think of all the thousands of images,

說真的，當你想想所有的數千張影像

they all come down to a young, white, blonde, tall female.

她們都是年輕的、白皮膚、金髮的高挑女性

God forbid, by the way, anything jiggles, apart from the breasts, of course.

順道一提，但願不要，所有部位都在搖晃，當然除了胸部以外

But other than that, your whole skin has to be bolted down.

除此之外，妳所有的皮膚都該被固定住

Now, we do let some women of color in,

現在我們讓一些其他膚色的女性出現

if they look like Beyoncé,

是否她們看起來像Beyoncé

or Nicki Minaj,

或Nicki Minaj

or, of course, Rihanna.

或者當然有Rihanna

But on the whole, the main image is a white, hypersexualized female.

但整體而言，主要的影像都是白皮膚又極好色的女性

In media theory, we have a concept called "the reader inscribed in the text".

在傳播理論裡，我們有一個概念叫做「讀者被刻記在文字裡」

So look at this woman.

所以看一下這個女人

Look at her clothes, look at her face, look at her posture,

看她的衣服，看她的臉和她的姿勢

and look at her gaze, G-A-Z-E.

看她注視著你，G-A-Z-E（注視）

Who is she speaking to?

她在對誰說話

Because the notion is that every image has a reader in mind.

因為這個觀念是，每個影像裡面都先預設了一個讀者

Before you answer, do you think she's speaking to her mother,

在你回答之前，你覺得她在對她媽媽說話嗎？

saying, "Let's go for a cup of coffee after the photo shoot?"

在說：「我們拍完照之後去喝杯咖啡吧？」

(Laughter)

（笑）

So who is she talking to?

所以她在對誰說話？

Who is she speaking to?

對誰說話？

Men.

男人

And what is she saying?

她在說什麼？

"Fuck me." Would you all agree?

「幹我！」 你們都同意嗎？

(Laughter)

（笑）

So this is what I call the "fuck me" look,

所以這就是我說的「幹我」的樣子

and there is not a woman in this room

現場沒有任何一位女性

who couldn't right now go into the "fuck me" look, am I right?

不能馬上表現出「幹我」的樣子，是嗎？

(Laughter)

（笑）

Does this look right?

這樣看起來對嗎？

With your vulnerable neck, looking with your eyes like this.

露出妳脆弱的脖子，讓妳的眼睛看起來像這樣

I want you to think what it means to be male and grow up in a culture

我要你想想這對男人代表什麼意思，而成長在這樣的文化 中

where before you can even speak, females are offering themselves to you,

甚至在你會開口說話之前，女性就獻出了自己給你

"Come get me! Come get me!"

「來得到我！來得到我！」

What happens to young girls,

年輕女孩發生了什麼，

is when they are developing their sexual identity,

是她們在發展「性的認知」時，

what they learn is they have two choices:

她們了解自己只有兩種選擇

either fuckability or invisibility.

「可以幹我」或「變得隱形」

And what do you want from a teenager when built in to the DNA of adolescence

你要青少年在她們青春期DNA裡建立的東西

is the need to be visible?

不就是需要被看見？

What do you want from her when her friends are walking around

你要她們怎麼做？當她們朋友走過時，

with low-slung jeans, a tramp stamp, with their midriff showing?

都穿著低腰牛仔褲，露出她們的腹部和浪女戳紋身。

What do you want her to do?

你要她們做什麼

Because it is impossible to ask her to go for invisibility.

因為要她們變得隱形 是不可能的，

So this is not a choice, this is being forced into a trap of sexuality

所以這不是一個選項，是被強迫掉進一個「性的陷阱」

that she didn't invent, that she didn't decide

這不是她們發明的，也不是她們決定的

because there are so few choices.

因為這裡只有這麼少的選項

So what does this mean to be a young girl?

所以對一個年輕女孩而言，這代表什麼？

When I was struggling with thinking what has happened in this culture,

當我在掙扎著思考，這社會發生了什麼事，

you know who really told me what it was?

你知道誰真正告訴我了答案？

It wasn't someone with a PhD in sociology or psychology,

並不是某位社會學或心理學博士

it was actually an incarcerated child rapist I like to call Dick.

事實上是一個被監禁的兒童強暴犯，我就叫他Dick好了

Dick was imprisoned for raping his 12-year-old stepdaughter,

Dick因為強暴她的12歲繼女而被監禁

and he was explaining to me how he groomed her.

他向我解釋，他如何誘姦她

Grooming is what you do

誘姦（Grooming ）是你做了以下的事

when the perpetrator homes in on his victim,

當這罪犯瞄準了受害人，

starts to develop a relationship with her and then tells her

就開始去和她建立關係，並告訴她

what really matters is how hot she is, that she's really sexy, she's hot.

真正重要的是她有多辣，她真性感，她真火辣

By the time you actually make your move,

這時候你才真的去行動，

she's bonded to you, and she thinks the most important thing about herself

她和你建立了連結，而她認為對她最重要的就是

is that she's hot.

她很辣（性感）

Dick was explaining to me how he groomed his stepdaughter,

Dick解釋如何誘姦他的繼女，

and then he looked me straight in the eye and he said,

然後他直視我的眼睛說

"The culture did a lot of the grooming for me."

「這個社會幫我做了很多誘姦的工作」

And I have to tell you I nearly fell off my chair.

我需要告訴你，我差點從椅子上摔下來

Because he was exactly right.

因為他說得完全正確

The culture is mass-perpetrating against our girls.

這個社會（文化）正在不斷大量的對我們的女孩們犯下罪行

It used to be that you needed an individual perpetrator

曾經是需要一個單獨的犯罪者，

to perpetrate against an individual girl.

去對一個單獨的女孩犯下罪行

Not anymore.

不再是這樣了

Now, pop culture part 2 for the boys is the porn industry.

現在對流行文化的第二段探討，對男生而言是色情工業

When I talk about porn, I don't mean Playboy, Penthouse, or Hustler.

當我在談色情刊物（porn），我不是指《Playboy》、《Penthouse》或《Hustler》

Let's go back to Details.

我們回到《Dtails》

Basically, they said in this article,

基本上，他們在這篇文章中說到，

"There is an entire generation of young people who think

「這一整個世代的年輕人都認為

sex ends with the money shot to the face."

性愛結束於顏射（money shot ）」

For the uninitiated out there,

為了缺乏相關知識的人說明一下，

a money shot is ejaculation on the face.

顏射（money shot ）就是射精在臉上

To tell you what goes on in the world

告訴你這世界發生了什麼事

- because I teach young people, I lecture across the country in colleges all over -

- 因為我在教年輕人，我在國內各個學校演講 -

a student told me that she was talking to a boyfriend who wanted to actually date

一個學生告訴我，當她和一位真正要和她約會的男性朋友談話時

- which in the hook-up sites culture, believe me, is a big thing -

- 在一個「約炮文化」風氣下，相信我，這是一件大事 -

and he said to her he had a deal breaker,

他告訴女孩，他有一個禁忌，

and the deal breaker was that she had to let him come on her face.

這個禁忌就是她必須讓他射在她臉上

She said, "No, I'm not letting you do that."

她說：「不，我不會讓你這麼做」

And I was telling a reporter in England, who was in her 40s,

當我在英國告訴一個40歲左右的記者，

she was doing a documentary, and she said to me,

她正在做一個記錄影片，她告訴我：

"I don't believe you. You're exaggerating."

「我不相信你，你太誇張了」

And a 23-year-old assistant turned to her and said,

而一位23歲的助理轉頭過來說，

"Do you know how many men have come on my face without asking?"

「妳知道有多少男人沒有問 就射在我臉上嗎？」

So get rid of the notion of Playboy, Penthouse, or even Hustler;

所以拋棄那些《Playboy》、《Penthouse》，或甚至《Hustler》的觀念吧，

those were the good old days of pornography.

那些是色情刊物的舊時美好時光

I never thought I would stand here and tell you, look back and say,

我從不曾想像我會站在這裡告訴你們，往後看看然後說，

"These seemed evil quaint."

「這真是不合時宜啊」

What changed everything was the Internet.

改變一切的就是網際網路

The Internet made pornography affordable,

網路讓色情可以負擔得起（affordable）

it made it accessible, and it made it anonymous.

可以接近（accessible），可以匿名（anonymous）

The three A's that drive demand.

這三個A開頭的字，驅動了需求

Do you know that porn sites get more visitors each month

你知道色情網站每個月有比Netflix、Amazon、Twitter合起來

than Netflix, Amazon, and Twitter combined?

還要更多的訪客嗎？

Just get your head around that

讓你的腦袋了解一下

and that we know from studies

而據研究得知

that nearly 90% of the top-watched rented scenes have

約有90%最多人收看的出租內容，畫面包含

at least [one] physical or verbal abuse against the woman.

至少一件對女性的身體或言語的施暴

What I'm going to do now is I am going to follow

我現在要做的事，是去跟隨著

the breadcrumbs of a 12-year-old.

一個12歲男孩的麵包屑（線索）

The first age of using pornography is 12.

第一次接觸色情網站通常是12歲

And I'm just going to follow him

我只是去跟著他

with no credit card, put "porn" into Google,

在沒有信用卡情況下，就輸入「porn（色情片）」在Google

and I'm going to tell you what he is going to see.

我要告訴你，接著他要看到什麼

The first thing he is going to see, the major act on virtually all websites

他要看到的第一個畫面，主要的動作，事實上在各個網站都是

is gagging.

是口交（gagging有噎得作嘔的意思）

This is where the man puts the penis so far down her throat

就是男人讓下體深入她的喉嚨

that she gags almost to the point of vomiting.

然後她作嘔到幾乎要吐的地步

They put a lot of mascara on her face, so that she's actually tearing

他們畫了很多睫毛膏在她的臉上，讓她真的在流淚

and you can see the rivulets of mascara running down.

然後你可以看到睫毛膏就像小河一樣流下來

As she is choking, he grabs her head,

當她被嗆到，他抓住她的頭，

and he pulls it towards him, and he says, "Look at me!"

拉過來朝向自己說：「看著我！」

And she is choking!

而她正被嗆到噎住啊！

This is a kind of a sexual psychopath.

這是一種性變態

When you think that porn is the major form of sex-ed,

當你在想 色情影片是性教育的主要形式時

think what is going to happen to the next generation of boys,

想想下一代的男孩們正在發生什麼事

most of whom are brought up on hardcore, mainstream Internet porn.

其中多數是在露骨的性交，主流網絡色情中長大。

The average 12-year-old,

平均在12歲

when he goes onto porn, when he puts "porn" into Google,

當他去接觸色情內容，當他在Google輸入「色情片」

what do you think he thinks he's going to see?

你認為他覺得自己將看到什麼呢？

Breasts? People having sex? Do you think he's thinking of gagging?

胸部？做愛？你認為他會想到口交（gagging）

Of course, he's not.

當然，他不會

So what keeps him on that?

那麼是什麼讓他碰到這些東西？

I started to read the text that went with the images, so let's look at his.

我開始去讀這些影像底下的文字，讓我們來看一下

"Do you know what we say to things like romance and foreplay?

「知道我們對羅曼史和前戲說些什麼嗎？

We say, "Fuck off!"

我們說：『滾開』

We take gorgeous young bitches,

我們讓美麗的年輕蕩婦，

and do what every man would really like to do -

做每個男人真正想要去做的

we make them gag," etc., etc.

我們讓她們口交（gag）」等等...

This is from a very well-known website called Gag Me Then Fuck Me.

這是從一個有名的網站「口交然後幹我」擷取下來

Now, think about this:

現在想想：

he is 12 years old, he is going into manhood, he is aroused,

他12歲，他即將成為男人，他開始有性慾，

that is telling him, "You wanna be a male?

這在告訴他：「你想要成為男人？

This is your entrée into masculinity.

這是你成為真正男人的入場券，

This is the price you pay to be masculine."

這是變得男子氣概要付出的代價」

In that boy's stomach is a toxic stew

在那個男孩的肚子，有一種有害的焦慮

because he's aroused, but he is also ashamed,

因為他開始有性慾，但他也感到難為情，

and he is also scared, and he is also angry,

他也在害怕，也在憤怒，

and he feels enormous shame that he is aroused,

他感到巨大的羞愧，他有性慾，

and nobody has said to him, "This is not who you are."

沒有人告訴他：「這不是你（真正的你）」

Because the pornographers say to him,

因為色情出版商告訴他：

"This is who you are. This is what you want.

「這就是你，這就是你要的，

Because we take gorgeous young bitches,

因為我們有美麗的年輕蕩婦，

and we do what every man would really like to do."

我們做每個男人真正想要去做的事」

But you know what? That's not true.

但你知道嗎？這不是真的

I know that's not true,

我知道這不是真的

and I know that is true because feminists are man's best friends,

我知道這是真的因為女性平權主義者（feminists ）是男性的最好朋友

because we believe more in men than the pornographers do.

因為我們比色情出版商更相信男人們

And you know how I know

你知道我如何了解的嗎？

that the pornographers don't tell the truth about men?

色情出版商對於男人的事沒有說真話

I know that as a feminist, I know that as a scholar,

身為平權主義者所以我知道，身為學者我知道

and above all, I know that as a mother of a son.

最重要的，身為一位兒子的母親，我知道

My son is worth better than this.

我的兒子值得比這更好的

If my son is, then I believe your son is too.

如果我兒子值得，我相信你們的子女也值得

The next really constant scene you're going to see

接下來你們要看到的連續場景

is really violent, pounding anal sex.

是真的暴力，衝擊的肛交

Let me read you the kind of promotional copy

讓我為你們讀出那些宣傳的文字

from the movie "Anally ripped whores".

從「肛門被撕裂的妓女們」這部影片

"We at Pure Filth know exactly what you want:

「我們『純綷的猥褻』就是知道你要什麼：

chicks being ass fucked

女人被肛交

till their sphincters are pink, puffy, and totally blown out.

直到她們的括約肌變得粉紅，浮腫，脹滿到噴出來

Adult diapers just might be in store for these whores when their work is done."

當她們完事後，大人尿布在賣場裡等著這些妓女們」

This is the promotional copy.

這是他們的宣傳文字

You don't need a PhD in media studies to understand the violence,

你不用媒體研究的博士學位就能知道這是一種暴力

and I want to make this clear: this is mainstream porn,

我想說得更清楚些：這是主流的色情（網站），

this is what the 12-year-old boy gets to within 15 seconds,

這是一個12歲的男孩在15秒內能得到的東西，

this is not the worst, I don't go near the worst.

這還不是最壞的，我還沒去接近最壞的

The standard porn scene, the standard porn film:

標準的色情場面，標準的色情電影：

one woman, three men, oral, anal, vaginal penetration.

一個女人，三個男人，嘴巴，肛門，和陰道的抽插

They're pulling her hair, they're spitting in her face,

他們拉扯她的頭髮，他們射在她的臉上，

they're calling her a whore, a slut, and a cum dumpster.

他們叫她妓女、蕩婦、精液的垃圾箱

This is the sex education today across the world.

這就是現今世界上所謂的性教育

We know from 40 years of research that the younger the boys get to porn,

我們經過40年的研究知道，年輕的孩子愈早接觸到色情影片

the more it limits their capacity for intimacy,

愈會限制他們了解親密行為的能力

the more it decreases their empathy for rape victims,

愈會減少他們對強姦受害者的同情

the more it increases depression and anxiety,

卻愈增加抑鬱和焦慮

and the more likely they are to engage in risky sexual behavior.

愈可能從事危險的性行為

The future.

未來

Now we have a whole generation of boys desensitized

現在我們已經有一整個世代的男孩不再敏感（對親密行為）

because really what you want at 10 is different to what you want at 15, 20, 30.

因為真的你在10歲要的，和你在15、20、30歲要的是不一樣的（例如性的教育）

So where is this going?

所以我們要去哪裡？

In 2002,

在2002年

the Free Speech Coalition which is the lobbying arm of the porn industry

色情工業的遊說力量，言論自由聯盟，

lobbied the Ashcroft Court to take away the argument

遊說Ashcroft法院撤回這個爭論，

that you couldn't use girls who looked under 18,

關於不能讓看起來像小於18歲的女孩（拍色情片）

and this is what we've got overnight:

一夜之間這就是我們所得到的：

teen porn,