as they can. And you want to communicate that your competent, but you want to know your

threshold. If you're a 20-year-old guy and you're working under a 40-year-old guy, you're

much smarter and more competent than he is, guess what? Do not communicate that. As soon

as you communicate that, what is the person going to do? He is going to get insecure and

get rid of you, because you're going to be substituting him. This is a mistake that people

make all the time. Display your competence but make sure you know what your threshold

is. Never outshine the master. Win through your actions, never through argument. Michelangelo

had just finished a perfect sculpture. Soderini, an arrogant man, walked in, he looks at the

sculpture and he says, "Well, the nose is a little too big." Now Michelangelo knew that

it was the perspective from which Soderini was looking at the sculpture that the nose

looked too big from, but did he say anything? Of course not! He said, "Very well." He picked

up a tool and he secretly picked up some of the dust that had been laying there from previous

work. He went to the nose, and he started hitting the nose. Of course he wasn't changing

anything, but at the same time, he let some of the dust fall. While Michelangelo was doing

this, he said, "Hey, go look at it from there. See if you like it now." Soderini went over

there, looked at the sculpture and said the nose looked perfect now. Of course, Michelangelo

kept his wages and kept his reputation as an artist, and didn't get destroyed by an

arrogant man. Again, win through your actions, never through argument. Law 10: Infection!

Avoid the unhappy and unlucky. If your friends introduce negativity into your life all the

time, guess what, cut them out. If they're getting arrested all the time, guess what,

cut them out. This is the number one principle probably of power, success, and just creating

an extraordinary life in general. Law 13: When asking for help, appeal to people's self-interest,

never to their mercy or gratitude. I had a friend who I'd drive around all the time when

he needed it. He would run out of money, and I would just loan him money and never even

get it back. Wouldn't even ask for it. I remember one time being stuck in a really bad situation,

and I called him and I said, "Hey, can you please come get me?" He gave me that two seconds

of hesitation, and he was about to start an excuse. And of course, I remembered the law

and I said, "Okay, I gotta switch this around," and I said, "And actually I have some extra

money." Like, what is extra money? But I said, "I have some extra money, and, you know, if

you come pick me up, we can use it to fill up your tank. And on the way back, we can

stop and eat and I'll pay for that too." And in two seconds he said, "Okay, I'm coming."

Again, Law 13: When asking for help, most of the time you'll have to appeal to people's

self-interest instead of their mercy or gratitude. Law 16: Use absence to increase respect and

honor. A lot of young guys come to me and they say, "Well, my parents don't respect

me at all. They tell me what I'm going to be, they tell me what my hobbies are going

to be, they tell me who my friends are going to be, they tell me who my girlfriend is going

to be." And again, why is that? It's because of a very well-known economic principle of

scarcity. You're spending 24 hours a day with your parents, they're the ones feeding you,

they're going to dictate that. Now, what's the harder but the better version of it? Become

independent. Once you're independent, and again, we're creatures of habit, so what are

we going to do? We're going to resist that. But if you become independent, guess what?

You're working on a lot of stuff now. You're chasing your purpose, whatever that is. You

don't have much time for other things. Well, a month passes and your mommy starts to miss

you. She calls you and says, "Hey, how are you?" And she's going to be a lot more understanding

now. Again, as soon as she starts to introduce that negativity, you say, "Well, you know

what, I'm sorry. I don't have time. I gotta go work on this." And guess what? Over time,

she's going to be conditioned to it where when she calls you, she's not going to be

introducing any of that negativity. And if she does, you'll be cutting it out. Use the

economic principle of scarcity to increase your respect and honor. Law 38: Think as you

like, but behave like others. It's funny if you take a look at the United States Congress.

535 people, very powerful, and not a single one of them an atheist. Now, you don't have

to be a statistical genius to know that that's pretty much impossible. But again, why is

that? Because they know the power of law 38: Think as you like but behave like others.