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  • I want to talk about like when I started

    我想跟大家聊聊這一切是如何開始的

  • You know , go to school and stuff,

    你知道的,上學,還有其他的事

  • and a lot of people put me down

    我當時對人性感到失望

  • You know what I mean ?

    你懂我想表達的嗎?

  • a lot of people tease each other .

    我看到人們彼此嘲弄

  • I mean. People come up and say

    我的意思是,人們會對你說像是

  • Hey ! ah you know ,you're too short, you're too tall

    「嘿!你怎麼都長不高?你長那麼高幹嘛?」

  • You look .... whatever !

    「你看起來好.....」 諸如此類的話!

  • and different hair and all that .... it doesn't matter !

    甚至是髮色也能被恥笑,還有很多很多.....沒辦法一一舉例

  • when you're growing up in life it actually sort of matters

    總之,當我們在成長的過程中,會有段時間渴望從別人眼光

  • to people how you look.

    來肯定自己的價值感

  • and than it matters to you because it matters to others !

    不只有你這樣想,而是每個人心中都有這樣的渴望!

  • Why? Why does it matter how you look?

    為什麼會對自己的價值有不安全感?!因為你怕沒有人會愛你,

  • Because if they don't like you then who will?

    所以想活出他們喜歡的你?

  • if they don't accept you then who will?

    只有你自己能夠做到喜歡並接受真實的自己

  • And the fear that we have is that we're gonna be alone

    有時候我們活出別人眼中的自己是渴望被人們接受

  • that we're not good enough. And you know we have to change ourselves.

    因為你總覺得自己不夠好,所以用盡所能的去改變

  • you know so many people put me down and said ,Nick, you look too weird and no one is really your friend.

    你知道嗎?我聽過好多人們嘲笑我的話,他們說:「Nick,你知道你長得很奇怪嗎?沒有人想要跟怪胎做朋友。

  • and you can't do this and you can't do that.

    你沒有四肢還能幹嘛,什麼事都沒辦法做啊。」

  • And I couldn't change anything. It isn't like I was fixing my hair one day and everything was fine.

    我確實無法改變上帝所給我的身體,這不是睡一覺起來就像魔法般自動修正所有錯誤那樣

  • it isn't like, you know... just whatever .

    完全不是。所以,這不是我所能控制的。

  • I couldn't change my circumstance.

    我沒辦法改變我現在身體四肢的事實狀況

  • I couldn't just one day wake up and say Hey!

    我也沒辦法在睡一覺醒來就跟上帝說,嘿!

  • give me arms and legs. I need arms and legs !

    給我完整的四肢吧,我需要強健的手臂和雙腿啊!

  • But it was so hard because people put me down.

    我當時總是一再的被人們恥笑作弄

  • and I started believing that I was not good enough. I started believing that I was a failure.

    因為這樣,我一直無法喜歡自己,總覺得有缺陷很丟臉,總覺得自己是個失敗者

  • That I would never ever be somebody who people would like , people would accept.

    我永遠沒辦法成為別人喜歡的那個我,那個大家都願意接受的我

  • and it was so hard, man. I thought to myself : "You know?

    這一切真的很煎熬,我充滿著痛苦,你知道嗎?

  • I can't go on the soccer field like everybody else !

    我沒辦法像一般人有雙腳可以踢足球!

  • I can't ride my bike and I can't skateboard and all these sort of things !

    也沒辦法享受乘著風騎單車的愉悅,我也沒有腳能夠滑滑板,有好多事情我都做不來!

  • I started getting depressed.

    於是我開始陷入自己設下的絕望黑洞

  • I thought, what kind of purpose do I have to live? I mean, are you just here to live to die

    我一直問自己,到底我活在這世上有什麼意義?這樣的狀況根本一生下來就是在等死

  • I mean

    我一直問自己

  • is there not a purpose for me? is there not a purpose in life ?

    到底我活著的目的是什麼?我的人生目標到底是什麼?

  • and I had questions and no answers and I asked my mum and dad ,why did this happen?

    我有好多好多的問號,但全部都得不到解答。我問我的爸媽,為什麼這種事會發生在我身上?

  • I asked doctors why did this happen ? they don't know .

    我問醫生到底為什麼我會變這樣?但所有的人給我的答案,都是無解

  • There are some things in life that are out of your control

    我們生命當中有很多事是你完全無法掌控的

  • that you cann't change and you gonna live with

    你無法改變它,但它又如影隨形跟著你

  • The choice that we have, though, is either to give up or keep on going.

    而我們能做的,就是做出選擇:你要放棄自己?或是帶著盼望再繼續向前?

  • I want to ask you, what are you gonna believe ?

    我想要你們問問自己,你的信念是什麼?

  • are you gonna believe in yourself or are you gonna believe everybody else's judgment on you

    你相信你自己,還是你要全盤接受所有人對你的評論?

  • are you gonna believe people when they say that

    或是當所有人都說你是個失敗者的時候,

  • you're a failure

    你覺得真的是那樣嗎?

  • That no one really likes you. That no one really cares about you .

    大家跟你說你沒人愛,跟你說沒有人在乎你

  • And It isn't really to say that you need somebody to come up to you

    況且真正的內心渴望,應該不會只希望有人來跟你說

  • and say , Hey! I really like you and I really care about u.

    「嘿,我真的很喜歡你而且非常在乎你。」

  • you know , it is not about that,

    我相信你知道的,絕非僅此而已

  • but it's the fact that people put you down.

    但你所面對的現實,是人們一再的用負面的話語傷害你

  • people don't even look you in the eye.

    人們不願撇開外在去看你的內心

  • people ask you how you are and you say fine but you are not really fine and they'll never know that.

    人們會關心你,你其實很不開心卻回應他們你很好,但他們永遠不會知道實情

  • I tell you life is interesting. Life is a journey.

    生命其實很有意思,就像一趟冒險旅程

  • so what do you do when you fall down? get back up everybody knows to get back up.

    所以,當你失落的時候你會怎麼做?我相信每個人都知道應該要重新振作

  • but I tell you there're some times in life where you fall down

    但你能夠每次都從挫敗中告訴自己要再次剛強站立起來嗎?

  • and feel like you don't have the strength to get back up.

    不,有時候你會軟弱到無力抵抗那負面的陰霾

  • I'm down here ,

    我看著自己

  • face down and I have no arms and no legs

    我低下頭,看著自己沒有四肢

  • it should be impossible for me to get back up

    這足以讓我放棄自己,放棄重新振作的機會

  • it should be impossible

    這足以讓我認為一切都不可能會更好

  • for me to get back up but it's not

    讓我放棄重新振作。但是,這絕不會是結局

  • You see , I'll try one hundred times to get up and if I fail one hundred times

    你知道嗎,我失敗多少次,我就用多少次的力氣再次站起來

  • if I fail and I give up , do you think that I'm ever gonna get up?

    但如果我失敗又放棄自己,我還能再振作起來嗎?

  • No !

    沒辦法!

  • but if fail and I I try again.

    但如果即便失敗,我仍然繼續努力,

  • and again and again for as long as I try

    一直一直嘗試,我知道只要我繼續嘗試

  • there is always that chance of me getting up !

    我就能振作起來!

  • and it is not the end

    所以,困境永遠不是你的終點

  • until you have given up!

    除非你先屈服了!

  • And just the fact that you are here

    而就是因為你還活著

  • should persuade you

    所以你該告訴自己

  • that you have another chance to get back up.

    你永遠有機會再次剛強站立

  • There is still hope

    你的人生永遠都有美好的盼望

  • I'm not here today to tell you that I understand your pain, I don't know how it feels to be abused.

    我今天不是要分享對痛苦的同理心。我不是你,我不了解被霸凌的感覺

  • I don't know how it feels, I don't know how it feels

    我不知道那樣的感受是什麼,我不知道

  • but I know how it feels to have a broken heart.

    但我知道擁有一顆破碎的心是什麼樣的感覺

  • and I know how it feels to be alone

    我了解被孤立的感覺

  • but I just want you to know that it's not the end.

    但我要你知道,這絕不是你的終點

  • it matters how you are gonna finish

    重點在於,你是否決定拋下纏累的束縛

  • Are you going to finish strong ?

    你是否決定給自己一個機會剛強站立?

  • and you will find that strength to get back up !

    我相信這股如同重生的渴望動力會讓你重新看見自己的未來!

I want to talk about like when I started

我想跟大家聊聊這一切是如何開始的

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