Name: 【TED】Thandie Newton:擁抱他人，擁抱自己（Thandie Newton: Embracing otherness, embracing myself）。 (【TED】Thandie Newton: Embracing otherness, embracing myself (Thandie Newton: Embracing otherness, embracing myself))
Uploaded: 2021-01-14T05:42:18.000Z
Duration: 13 min 56 s

which I think is worth sharing with you today.

我想這個見解值得與在座的每一位分享

but I don't think that we're born with one.

但我認為這個自我不是與生俱來的

認為他們與萬物是一體的，自己只是萬物的一部分

就像是我們人生的初始階段很快就結束了

這個合一的概念對於我們不再真實有效

Our little portion of oneness is given a name,

我們個人的這一小部分開始有了一個名字

is told all kinds of things about itself,

Or who we really want to be, or should be?

或者真實的反映了我們想要成爲的樣子，或者應該成爲的樣子嗎？

was a very difficult one for me growing up.

在我長大的過程是個很大的難題

The self that I attempted to take out into the world

我試圖展現給世界的一個自我身份

適合世界的自我身份而帶來的恐慌

以及由於這種自我身份受到打擊

which kind of defined me for a long time.

這些感受在很長的一段時間裏是我生命的主題

the destruction of my self was so repetitive

sometimes not wanting to be there at all.

that it was never alive in the first place?

這個自我根本不是從一開始就存在的

我的爸爸是從康維爾地區來的，白人

對於大多數人來說是不好接受的

我就意識到，我與世界格格不入

我是在我們由修女們管理的全是白人的

in the all-white Catholic school run by nuns.

天主教學校的無神論的黑人孩子

and my self was rooting around for definition

Without it, we literally can't interface with others.

沒有這個功用，我們根本無法與他人交往

不斷的向上爬，變得更加受歡迎

And I was "other" before being anything else --

這個身份甚至比作爲一個女孩還要考前

【TED】Thandie Newton:擁抱他人，擁抱自己（Thandie Newton: Embracing otherness, embracing myself）。 (【TED】Thandie Newton: Embracing otherness, embracing myself (Thandie Newton: Embracing otherness, embracing myself))

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【TED】Thandie Newton:擁抱他人，擁抱自己（Thandie Newton: Embracing otherness, embracing myself）。 (【TED】Thandie Newton: Embracing otherness, embracing myself (Thandie Newton: Embracing otherness, embracing myself))

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