There are lots of subtle clues that will let you know if a guy is interested in you that way, or just sees you as a friend.

他是否喜歡妳，或者它只是把妳當她的朋友；這時，妳就需要

You will need courage to make the first move, Good observational skills and hints to drop.

「勇氣」先採取行動；「觀察技巧」，還有給他「釣魚線」。

Step 1. Find a reason to chat him up. If he seems happy that you said hello or if he responds to your text message right away, that's a good sign.

步驟一：找機會和他聊天，如果你對他打招呼他很開心，或者他馬上回覆妳的訊息

Guys generally don't play hard to get, so what you see is what you get.

那就是好兆頭，男生通常不難搞

Step 2. Notice how he acts when you're around.

所以妳所看到的通常就是真的。步驟二：注意妳在他身邊時他的反應。

If he gets all loud and jokey with his friends or starts showing off in some way, he's probably trying to impress you.

如果他嗓門變大、和友人有說有笑或開始在炫耀，那麼他可能想要給妳個好印象

Look at his pupils when you make eye contact; if he's attracted to you, they'll get bigger.

四目交接時，注意他的瞳孔。如果妳吸引到他

Step 3. Check out his chest. Is he sticking it out a little when he talks to you?

他的瞳孔會放大；步驟三：看看他的胸肌，當他和妳說話時，

Men subconsciously "puff up" around females they're interested in.

他是不是有挺起他的胸膛呢？男人潛意識地在他們感興趣的女性面前，擴展他們的體魄

It has to do with evolution：He's sending the message that he's strong enough to protect you.

這與演化有關連：他其實在說「他很壯可以保護妳」

Step 4. Watch his hands. Men who are attracted to someone tend to touch their earlobes.

步驟四：注意他的手，男性看到喜歡的人通常會摸摸耳珠

His ears may turn a bit red, too. Step 5. Mention something you like – a type of food, a local sports team

他的耳珠或許會變得通紅。步驟五：聊聊妳喜歡的話題─食物、球隊

and see what he says. It's human nature to respond positively when

看看他怎麼說。當我們喜歡的人給意見時，我們會正面回應

someone we like gives their opinion. Ask him to help you with something,

這是人類的本性；另外，請他幫妳個忙

whether it's carrying a heavy item or giving you advice. Guys love to "rescue" girls. Step 6. Drop a hint

不管是提重物或給予建議，因為男生通常喜歡「拯救」女生。步驟六：給他釣魚線

like,"I'm hoping to catch a game the next time the team is in town," and see what he says.

例如：「下次這支球隊到這裡來的話，我想去看場他們的球賽。」然後看看他怎麼回應。

It will provide an opening even the shyest guy can't ignore! Step 7. He's not biting?

即使再害羞的男生，這樣的開場白他們也都無法聽而不聞了! 步驟七：他句點妳了嗎?

Ask him out. It's the fastest way to find out his feelings for sure.

直接約他出來吧！這是最快的方式，看看他對妳的感覺是怎樣。

Did you know? In a study of reunited childhood sweethearts, the most successful rekindled

妳知道嗎? 一項針對重聚的兒時玩伴們的研究指出，舊情復燃成功的例子

romances were between lost loves who were 17 or younger at the time they first fell in love.

多位在17歲以下第一次墜入情網的時候。