Name: 別再給單身狗壓力了 (2025)！ (STOP pressuring single people (2025))
Uploaded: 2026-01-31T17:07:33.000Z
Duration: 3 min 13 s

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Single does not mean lonely and relationship does not mean happy.

單身不代表孤單，有關係也不代表快樂。

When you tell some people you're single, they look at you like it's a bad thing.

當你告訴別人你單身時，他們看你的眼神好像這是一件壞事。

They need to understand that single is way more than a status.

他們需要明白，單身不只是一個狀態。

Sometimes I'm single means I refuse to settle for less.

有時候我單身，代表我拒絕妥協。

Sometimes I'm single means I'm working on me.

有時候我單身，代表我專注於自我成長。

Sometimes single stands for stress is now gone, Life's easier.

有時候單身代表壓力已消失，生活更輕鬆。

Don't let friends, family or anybody rush you into a relationship.

別讓朋友、家人或任何人催促你進入一段關係。

And especially don't let loneliness rush you into a relationship.

而且尤其別讓孤獨感催促你進入一段關係。

I see you follow those couples on Instagram.

我看到你關注 Instagram 上的那些情侶。

You ever wonder why they always show you the highlight reels but never show you the behind the scenes?

你是不是有時候會想，為什麼他們總是隻給你看到精華片段，卻從不讓你看到幕後花絮？

See, they appear to be happy all the time, but things ain't always what they seem.

你看，他們總是顯得很快樂，但事情並不像表面看起來那樣。

Those so called power couples, see low key, they have power struggles.

那些所謂的模範情侶，其實私底下，他們也有權力鬥爭。

See, they post about relationship goals, but in real life, it's relationship knows.

你看，他們發文談論關係目標，但現實生活中，那是關係的煩惱。

Now I'm not saying relationships are bad.

I'm saying don't let anybody pressure you.

我只是想說，不要讓任何人催促你。

Because see, the worst thing in life is not being alone.

因為你看，人生中最糟糕的事不是孤單。

It's ending up with someone that makes you feel alone.

而是最後跟一個讓你感到孤單的人在一起。

See, we live in a world where every romantic movie, every song on the radio says that you need somebody to complete you.

你看，我們活在一個世界，每部浪漫電影、每首電臺裡的歌都說你需要一個人來讓你完整。

你看，每個人都想找到那個「對的人」。

Don't wait for anybody to make you happy because that's a guaranteed way to end up sad.

不要等任何人讓你快樂，那隻會讓你更難過。

See, if you're unhappy, a relationship won't improve it, it will exp it.

你看，如果你不快樂，一段關係不會改善它，反而會加劇。

Being single is the best time to become the person you want to attract.

單身是成為你想吸引的那個人最好的時機。

And once you become that, you become a magnet for them so you won't have to chase that person down.

一旦你成為那樣的人，你就會像磁鐵一樣吸引他們，這樣你就不用追著那個人跑了。

They will come to you at just the right time.

他們會在最適合的時候出現在你身邊。

And it won't be somebody just to go with you, it'll be somebody there that'll grow with you.

而且那個人不只是陪你走走，而是會跟你一起成長的人。

Somebody who you could be yourself around and have fun doing absolutely nothing with.

一個你可以自在做自己，而且什麼都不做也能玩得很開心的人。

一個你可以成為最好朋友的人。

Because see, a wise man once said, it's not a lack of love but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy relationships.

因為你看，智者曾說，不是缺乏愛，而是缺乏友誼，才讓關係不幸福。

但首先，你得先成為自己的朋友。

So stay single, Stay single until you find someone that adds real value to your life, that supports you that nourishes you.

所以保持單身，一直保持單身，直到你找到一個能為你的生活增添真正價值、支持你、滋養你的人。