so they actually want to continue talking to you? Well today, I'm going to show you the best five strategies so you can have girls hanging on your every word. Stay tuned.

所以他們居然還想繼續和你哈拉？好了，今天，我要告訴你最好的五個策略，這樣你就可以讓女孩掛在你的每一個字。敬請期待。

Hey,Tripp here from TrippAdvice.com teaching you how to get the girl while still being your genuine self

嘿，TrippAdvice.com的Tripp在這裡教你如何獲得女孩，同時仍然是你真正的自我。

and today we're talking about how to talk to girls. Is it hard for you to talk to girls?

而今天我們要講的是如何和女生哈拉。你和女生說話難不難？

Are you not sure how to really do it or what to say to be interesting?

你是不是不知道該如何真正做，或者說怎麼說才有意思？

Talking to a girl and actually getting her interested in what you have to say is one of the most crucial elements of attraction and getting your next date.

與女孩交談並真正讓她對你所說的話感興趣是吸引和獲得下一次約會的最關鍵因素之一。

You need to know exactly what to say to her so you can get her to like you.

你要知道到底該對她說什麼，這樣才能讓她喜歡你。

Step one is presence. The second you start talking to her, you have to be present, in the moment.

第一步是在場。當你開始和她說話的那一秒，你必須在場，在當下。

Don't think about what's going on inside your head or else you're going to lose the ability to continue talking to her.

不要去想你腦子裡的東西，否則你就會失去繼續和她說話的能力。

Instead, listen to her so you'll know exactly what to say next in the flow of conversation.

相反，傾聽她的聲音，這樣你就會知道接下來在談話流程中該說什麼。

Remaining present will help you push the conversation along as well as keep the anxiety levels down

保持在場將幫助你推動談話的進行，並保持焦慮水準下降。

and it's going to help you portray way more confidence. So for you, it's a win-win.

它將幫助你描繪更多的信心。所以對你來說，這是一個雙贏的結果。

Step two, know a little bit about everything. The more involved you are in day-to-day activities

第二步，什麼都要懂一點。日常活動中，你的參與度越高。

and the more knowledge you have, it's going to give you so much more to talk about.

而你的知識越多，就會給你帶來更多的話題。

Some of the most amazing conversation I've ever had was talking to the same person for hours about anything.

我所經歷過的一些最神奇的談話，就是和同一個人談了幾個小時的任何事情。

You connect easier and you appear way more interesting than the next guy who has nothing to say.

你比下一個無話可說的人更容易溝通，也顯得更有趣。

Step number three, be unpredictable. Every guy is talking about the same stuff with girls, boring stuff.

第三步，要有不可預知性。每個男人都在和女生談論同樣的東西，無聊的東西。

"What do you do? Where are you from? What do you do?

"你是做什麼的？你是哪裡人？你是做什麼的？

Where are you from? Blah blah blah." Instead, try to be more creative.

你是哪裡人？諸如此類的問題。"相反，要試著更有創意。

Talk about subjects that don't usually come up from conversation,

談論通常不會從談話中出現的話題。

like a fun story from your past or why Fiji is the best vacation spot you can ever go to

比如說你過去的一個有趣的故事，或者為什麼斐濟是你能去的最好的度假地？

or why Snickers is the number one candy bar of all time. Yeah, I've got a million of these.

或者為什麼士力架是所有時間的頭號糖果棒。是啊，我已經得到了一百萬的這些。

Step four, body language. Ninety-three percent of all communication is nonverbal, which means it's done through body language.

第四步，肢體語言。百分之九十三的溝通都是非語言的，也就是說是通過肢體語言來完成的。

When you're talking to a girl, you're going to be more connected to her,

當你和女生哈拉的時候，你會和她有更多的聯繫。

and she's going to be more interested in you when you know how to physically present yourself.

她會對你更感興趣 當你知道如何身體力行地展示自己。

The biggest tip I can ever give you is to hold strong eye contact during every conversation that you ever have with a girl.

我可以給你最大的建議是，在你和女孩的每一次談話中，都要保持強烈的眼神交流。

When you're talking, focus looking into her eyes so she can connect with every word that comes out of your mouth.

當你說話的時候，專注地看著她的眼睛，這樣她就能和你嘴裡的每一個字聯繫起來。

Last, number five, qualify. Is this girl qualified to be your next date?

最後，第五條，合格。這個女孩有資格成為你的下一個約會對象嗎？

Is she qualified to be your girlfriend? Does she meet the standards of the type of woman that you want?

她有資格做你的女朋友嗎？她是否符合你想要的女人類型的標準？

This is the stuff you have to find out. A lot of guys forget this.

這是你必須找出的東西。很多人都忘記了這一點。

You should be talking to girls with the intention of getting to know them better, to see if they're good enough for you.

你和女生哈拉的目的應該是為了更好地瞭解她們，看看她們是否對你足夠好。

You are awesome and she should be too.

你是真棒，她也應該是。

So what you want to do is to ask her the type of questions that you want to know about her to see if she's quality enough for you.

所以，你要做的是問她你想知道的關於她的問題類型，看看她是否足夠優質，適合你。

Now if you really want to master the skills of talking to girls,

現在如果你真的想掌握和女生哈拉的技巧。

then I have a free gift for you. It's the 10-minute Magnetic Conversation course and I want to send it to you absolutely free.

那麼我有一個免費的禮物給你。這是10分鐘的磁力對話課程，我想把它送給你，完全免費。

All you have to do is click the link below in the description or click the box right here

你所要做的就是點擊下面描述中的鏈接，或者點擊這裡的方框。

and I'll send it to you instantly at no cost.

我馬上給你寄過去，不收任何費用。

It's going to teach you not only how to keep a conversation going,

它不僅會教你如何保持對話。

but the certain questions you can ask a girl to make her attracted to you,

但某些問題你可以問一個女孩，讓她對你產生吸引力。

what to say to start a conversation and how to get her interested and attracted to you within 10 minutes.

如何說開始一個談話，如何讓她的興趣和吸引你在10分鐘內。

So go ahead, click the link in the description box below or click the box right here

所以，請點擊下面描述框中的鏈接，或者點擊這裡的方框。

and I'll send it to you instantly. Thanks for watching and I'll see you on the next video.

我就會立刻發給你。謝謝你的觀看，我們下一個視頻見。