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  • Hey, what's going on. This is Tripp from TrippAdvice.com and today I have a very special guest. This

  • is Amanda Cerny and she has been on covers of fitness magazines. She's one of the top

  • Vine-rs - is that the way to say it? - Vine-rs. Yeah, Vine-rs. Check her out. I've put a bunch

  • of links in the description below. You can find her on Vine and Twitter. She does all

  • these hilarious videos. So we're talking today about how to be attractive to women. Off the

  • top of your head, give us like the first thing that comes to mind in terms of what a guy

  • can do to be more attractive to a woman. I would say have a good outfit going on or just

  • have yourself put together. Groom yourself, that's important. Number one. Okay, so let's

  • go deeper into that. You say groom yourself and be more put together, what's some practical

  • example, practical advice you can give these guys to be able to do that. Okay, so like

  • going out into public and you have your hair all crazy and you haven't shaved in a year,

  • to me, that's important, so if you don't care about yourself, why should I care? You know?

  • It's the same. Exactly. So it's like guys who are going out, doesn't matter if it's

  • at night or during the day, always make sure that you're put together, because it's those

  • little things. I even say that to guys. One of the things that you have to pay attention

  • to in terms of your fashion is your shoes. The shoes is such a little detail that most

  • guys look over, but it's that little detail that will almost subconsciously tell a woman,

  • like oh, I actually care about my lifestyle. I care about what I look like. And if a guy

  • pays attention to those little things, then that also shows he's paying attention to all

  • the other little things in his life. Like you said, that kind of makes it so you're

  • like more put together. Okay, what is another tip for guys in terms of being more attractive

  • to women? I would say, of course, personality. It sounds cliche, but it's true. Some people

  • can be just so in their own shell and it makes you very bland when that happens, so say you

  • go up and talk to somebody and you're all excited to meet them, like "Hey, I'm Amanda.

  • Nice to meet you," and the person's like shy, all in their own world, but it's nice when

  • somebody's just themselves and just open and willing to talk and carry on the conversation

  • and it's fun. I don't know, I personally like somebody who can make me laugh, so that's

  • part of my world, so it's important to me. I mean if you can make me smile, you're in.

  • Besides that, what is one of the most important part of a guy's personality that you're looking

  • for? Thoughtful. Like a guy that you're going to date. Thoughtful. He has to be very thoughtful.

  • That's a new one, I've never heard that. Thoughtful. So give me some examples of being thoughtful.

  • So for instance, I had this horrible carry-on bag. I was walking around on a date with this

  • guy but I had my carry-on with me because I'm always traveling all the time, so I was

  • like, all right, gotta get this bag to a hotel room and lugging this thing around. And dating

  • this guy a couple of times. I just put it in my hotel and went on a date and he remembered

  • that and then he remembered the purse I had too. And so then what he did later on dates

  • down the line, he surprised me with a roller, like this awesome carry-on bag that I love

  • now that matches my purse. So like this guy thought of everything. He thought okay, this

  • girl is killing herself, like breaking her back walking around the airport with this

  • bag, let me help her there. She travels all the time so she'll love this. It matches her

  • other stuff, so she's a girl, she'll be all excited about this. I was. So thoughtful.

  • That is going like a step further. That's you being the exception to all the other guys

  • because you're just taking it a little step further and paying attention to those details.

  • Yeah, and even like some guys are really like, I'm not going to buy this girl a piece of

  • luggage to match her purse. It's expensive. I don't want to do that. But let's say the

  • guy bought me a diamond ring, right? I would be way more impressed with that piece of luggage

  • than that diamond ring he could have bought me just because the thought behind it. And

  • I'm not just saying that because obviously it's stuck in my head and I'm telling you

  • guys now these little details really do stick with us. I guess another big thing would be

  • to have a little bit of...and I hate using this word, but swag. Okay. So... It's a little

  • broad. I think I know what you mean. Let's go deeper. What does swag look like to you?

  • Okay, so it's a sense of confidence. Okay. I think it's very important to be sure that

  • you're not overly confident, because that can be a little much, like guys who walk in

  • with their muscle shirts coming up, like yeah, this is me. Like that's a no. But just like

  • be sure of yourself and don't double guess and question things you're telling me because

  • you're afraid I might not, may not like it. This could be another topic, but don't try

  • to please me with your answers. Oh, that's a good one. Don't try to please you with your

  • answers. So it's almost like don't be too agreeable with everything you say. Don't say,

  • "Oh yeah, that's the best. Oh yeah for sure. Oh no, I don't like that either. Oh yeah,

  • I totally agree with you." Like cutting that out. I've met so many guys that would just

  • be like, I...for example, this is random...I hate pineapple. And I'd be like, oh, I love

  • pineapple. Pineapple's awesome. And then they'd be like, oh, I like pineapple too. Pineapple's

  • okay, but it's not that bad. But you just said you hated pineapple, and then they're

  • like, oh well I like it. I'm like okay...who am I talking to, you know? Right, so I think

  • what we're saying here is like if you're too agreeable with a woman or you're just doing

  • whatever she says, then you're actually not showing your personality. You're actually

  • just creating this fake whoever it is, this fake persona to be able to attract that girl

  • when she really just wants to be talking to you. She wants to be talking to a human person

  • who has all kinds of interests and all kinds of opinions and getting to know you rather

  • than just some guy who's obviously faking it who's being agreeable or disagreeable with

  • everything that you're disagreeing and having this fake personality. Don't be afraid of

  • what type of guy you are. Just be confident with who you are because if you're faking

  • it in the beginning anyway, it's going to be hell down the line with this girl because

  • she's going to find out who you really are and then it's not going to work. It's going

  • to be a waste of time. Yeah, absolutely. So I mean almost just sum everything up, what

  • I think I'm hearing is at the end of the day, you've got to be you, you've got to be authentic

  • and be like the best version of yourself that you can be and be real, but meanwhile, you've

  • got to work on some of the other things, like being thoughtful, being...paying attention

  • to detail and being confident and being sure of yourself while also working on growing

  • and working on your appearance, and if you can combine all those, you will at this point

  • have a much higher success rate of attracting more women into your life and maybe even women

  • like Amanda Cerny. Guys, thanks so much for watching. Don't forget to subscribe to the

  • channel. I'm going to put a button here so you can subscribe and get more videos just

  • like this every week, and of course, do not forget to find Amanda Cerny. She's on Vine,

  • she's on YouTube...Instagram, Snapchat, Facebook, Twitter. She's everywhere. I'll make it easy

  • for you guys. I'm going to put all the links in the description box below so you can see

  • that. She puts up hilarious Vines, she puts up sexy pictures on Instagram, you really

  • just can't lose. So check that out and I'll see you on the next video. Bye guys.

Hey, what's going on. This is Tripp from TrippAdvice.com and today I have a very special guest. This

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