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  • you get excited that's where

  • you really feel like you've achieved something when you've done it

  • and every time i consciously challenge myself

  • to do something that is our side of my comfort zone

  • i noticed afterwards

  • a great sense of achievement

  • whether reflect out a lot right it doesn't even matter just the fact that i

  • do that

  • gives me such a boost

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  • tried to step on the comforter

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  • and i can maybe talk to other

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