something that

matters deeply when it comes to attracting women

making things happen with women

initiating things with women starting a conversation with women escalating with

women

uh... getting successful with women

and that's

and your comfort zone

or you and your relationship

with your comfort zone

and that's just

makino

drawing a castle my super sexy

whiteboard

so that's a

this is

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come close

so yes

you

but at that

what about this comes as that is this

something that's

the same

or is it something that can grow

or get smaller

you guess obviously that condo to make this video about something that i can't

change reformed so yes of course

this grows

an internal social inc to be honest right

uh... what is the depending on that

let's say you're single and you want me more women

it's outside of the companies and is not conversation with the gulped

you going to talk to your friends like

honduras

yukiko outside of your comfort zone

now what happens when you go outside of the company you take that step of

hawk despues a bit

interesting uh... you i don't know me do this

bank i graduate anyway

because

hey i'm going to regret if i don't and you know i want to see where this meets

what would it be like to actually do this okay

so that's a

talking to this

strange going on

which might be to be strange as well you know anyway

but strange but attractive and only and intriguing go back

that saved this might be here right

so let's say you do it

she do talk to this co

act you know who knows what will happen like maybe will work out maybe

you know maybe it just comes out you go we're talking more

that she she she's not be your type whatever about the fact that you did

will to her

means what

it means that you've just told yourself you chis shown yourself

that your comfort zone doesn't stop you

that your diet but can't go beyond the comfort zone

that can take a little risk

they can do something that has a mild sense of notices about that

but you can still go beyond that and you can

do more you can

challenges all

and you can take on the challenge and judith on purpose okay

he stepped onto the comforts and on purpose and you say to yourself

no matter what happens

you did well right

now what happens next next time do you see you're gonna party

what's happening in your mind

do you think well-known i can't talk to her because of all the when completed

by then

she was a few more time to think of all i did this last time it you know it it

nothing terrible happened

while this you know i hiked i think i could do this again

so

there's gonna be another governor of ago another young and you know what sooner

or later something happens like

and give it a novel

so what happens in the process with your comfort zone

because bigger right

it's stretched further

the great thing with the comfort zone

and you know com prove proved this time scientific the i'm just you know we

talking about

states pant

uh... stuff like that the case then yes if you want to come with me and saying

what is a scientifically not proven him them

for cooperating right

i'm just telling you this from experience

you comfort zone brothers ok it gets wider

and the funny thing is that i've notices when i have

stretch my comfort zone is the secretary of my life for example in terms of my

social skills and doing something regularly that

was altered my comfort zone and notes

part of my comfort zone you complete sign

we will around tends to grow and his sense of

harry ability to do whatever it is

starts to grow so i found that very somber moments of comfort zone at a

party growers and i'm getting graded

meeting women

my comforter network sometimes grows an anti get better at me interacting with

people in general

or my comfort zone when i play football gross

and because i feel more alive than war

confident about my ability to do whatever it is

are you with me

when you stretch one area of the comfort zone head to the whole thing tends to

get bigger

so he's starting to feel more more comfortable to do more more things

and a great thing is this president clinton declared pheno

this and there's a powerful human drive about

pectoris

i won a few comfortable i want to be safe

but there's also a powerful human dr appt that says

i need something

exciting something stimulating something different

now i know there's a bit about

uh...

clipping

net conflict right

and i guess that's that's part of a human existence unlike because

i love this and i'm not doing this every time

outside their comfort zone

but for the magic happens

that's where the really cool stuff happens

that's where

you get butterflies that's where

you get excited that's where

you really feel like you've achieved something when you've done it

and every time i consciously challenge myself

to do something that is our side of my comfort zone

i noticed afterwards

a great sense of achievement

whether reflect out a lot right it doesn't even matter just the fact that i

do that

gives me such a boost

and it makes my comfort zone grow

and next time around i don't even think about allotment analysis going to be

okay

and i stopped agonizing

but i move on

to newark bigger challenges

so in terms of

meeting women attracting women

and two

giving greater meeting women

you've constantly constantly want to challenge yourself

he want to challenge yourself to get caught in the comforts of in

relationships

i tell you what from personal experience if you staying a comfort in the

relationship all the time

and you don't consciously growing it

you don't develop it you don't want to make it

everyday

it will stagnate

and you will find yourself at some point wondering what happened

because

sheet may have

done the same thing

and you both

noticed will bring up

going forward anymore we just that meeting

and that's very often home relationships i mean talking any parentals experience

i i have met

fifty relationships ok but uh... i did a few

that's how it was just often

and because

picture us seems to start making one or both persons mines

and said recall that this deep need to move forward to

to get stimulated to

break new ground at the same time we have our comfort zone and we have got