Name: 當你處於人生的不同階段時，你就會發現這一點。 (You’ll see this when you’re in between phases of life.)
Uploaded: 2025-03-15T09:24:53.000Z
Duration: 5 min 15 s

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This video is for those who are pursuing a better life for themselves, but you haven't quite gotten there yet, and you're left in this middle stage that possesses a lot of  And maybe you experience some wins here, some losses there, but your progress is more or less consistent and volatile, if you will.

這段視頻是為那些正在追求更美好生活的人準備的，但你還沒有完全達到目標，你還停留在這個中間階段，擁有很多東西，也許你在這裡經歷了一些勝利，在那裡經歷了一些失敗，但如果你願意的話，你的進步或多或少是持續的、不穩定的。

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And you're feeling discouraged, or maybe you're second-guessing yourself.

你感到氣餒，或許你在懷疑自己。

You're lacking the confidence that you need in order to really enjoy this process.

你缺乏真正享受這一過程所需的自信。

And all of these things are completely understandable, because nothing that you are pursuing or nothing you desire has really been cemented in your reality.

所有這些事情都是完全可以理解的，因為你所追求的東西或你所渴望的東西都沒有真正在你的現實中得到鞏固。

You have the vision, you have the dream, but the progress, especially at the time frame or at least in the time span that we usually look at, which is pretty narrow, it doesn't seem like a whole lot is getting done.

你有願景，你有夢想，但進展情況，尤其是在我們通常關注的時間範圍內，或者至少在我們通常關注的時間跨度內，相當狹窄，似乎並沒有完成很多事情。

So it's understandable to second-guess yourself, to be discouraged and lack a strong level of confidence.

是以，懷疑自己、灰心喪氣、缺乏自信是可以理解的。

But the real problem beneath all of this is that you know and feel that you are capable of much more.

但這一切背後的真正問題是，你知道並覺得自己能夠做得更多。

And there is something within you that confirms that you are capable of what you envision.

在你的內心深處，有一種東西在證實，你有能力實現你的設想。

But your current experience of life does not match that.

但你目前的生活經歷與此不符。

And that is what causes the dissonance that you feel.

And this dissonance is what leads to a lack of confidence.

而這種不和諧正是導致缺乏自信的原因。

And it's what leads to that uncertainty that you feel.

Because living like this, not enjoying the process of pursuing your dreams and ambitions, just simply is not sustainable.

因為這樣的生活，無法享受追求夢想和抱負的過程，根本無法持續下去。

Because what won't change is the fact that it's going to take you time in order to get to where you want to go.

因為不會改變的事實是，你需要時間才能到達你想去的地方。

What won't change is that process is required in order to get to the desired outcome.

不會改變的是，要取得理想的結果，必須有一個過程。

And the perspective that we should understand is that the reason you do not have what you want is because you are not yet the person who is capable.

我們應該明白的是，你之所以沒有得到你想要的東西，是因為你還不是一個有能力的人。

So in order to have something, you must first do the actions that are required in order to have it.

是以，要想擁有某樣東西，首先必須採取必要的行動。

And in order to be capable of doing the actions that are required, you must first be the person who is capable of those actions.

而要想有能力採取必要的行動，你首先必須是能夠採取這些行動的人。

We are still developing, becoming stronger, smarter, wiser, more refined, and precise in the way we make decisions, etc.

我們仍在不斷髮展，變得更強大、更聰明、更智慧、更精緻、更精確地做出決定等等。

This does not mean that we are not meant for what we desire, or what we envision.

這並不意味著我們的願望或憧憬與我們無緣。

這隻意味著我們正在這個過程中。

And so if we can manage to have faith and trust in that this evolutionary process, if you will, does in fact result in the way the ride.

是以，如果我們能夠對這一進化過程抱有信心和信任，那麼，如果你願意的話，這一進化過程就會在事實上產生結果。

And instead of living our days and uncertainty and insecurity about what is to come, we can actually regain the confidence that we've been missing.

這樣，我們就能重拾一直缺失的自信，而不是每天都過著對未來充滿不確定性和不安全感的生活。

And as a result, fall in love with the process and live life as it was intended.

並是以愛上這一過程，按照自己的意願生活。