A really good example of how far this went was people that I knew my entire life would pass me in the street without whispering a word, people like school teachers, people I had a sense of trust with and, you know, an affinity with, and that was really hard.
有一個很好的例子可以說明這一點:我認識了一輩子的人在街上經過我的時候都不會說一句悄悄話,比如學校的老師,我對他們有一種信任感和親切感,這真的很不容易。