Name: 58 歲白手起家的百萬富翁分享她最好的人生建議 (A 58 Year Old Self-Made Millionaire Shares Her Best Life Advice)
Uploaded: 2024-12-06T01:43:59.000Z
Duration: 16 min 14 s

What has been a big mistake or a failure?

過去簡單式

那筆交易讓我損失了數百萬美元。

過去進行式

I was on the Joe Rogan podcast, people were saying like, I want her dead.

我在喬-羅根的播客上看到有人說，我想讓她死。

我希望她死，否則他們什麼都說了。

This summer, I interviewed 58 year old Janet who has started over 12 successful businesses.

今年夏天，我採訪了 58 歲的珍妮特，她已經成功創辦了超過 12 家企業。

Janet for a lot of reasons has figured life out.

出於種種原因，珍妮特想通了人生。

But at the same time, is still someone who's My husband passed away nine months ago, it still feels rather traumatic for me to even talk about.

但與此同時，他仍然是我的親人。我的丈夫九個月前去世了，現在提起這件事，我仍然感到相當痛苦。

We interviewed Janet and posted short snippets of her videos on Instagram.

我們採訪了珍妮特，並在 Instagram 上發佈了她的視頻短片。

And those videos have gone millions of views worldwide.

這些視頻在全球已有數百萬人觀看。

So today we are sharing the extended version of Janet's greatest life lessons and experiences that I guarantee will change the way you look at your life.

是以，今天我們將分享珍妮特最寶貴的人生經驗和教訓的擴展版，我保證這些經驗和教訓將改變你對人生的看法。

It feels better than I thought it would feel.

And I thought at 58, I wouldn't be active.

我想，58 歲的我不會再活躍了。

What would you say is a big change you made in your life that drastically improved the quality of it?

您認為自己在生活中做出的、能極大提高生活品質的重大改變是什麼？

Well, I you know, I didn't live a typical life when I was 18.

你知道，我 18 歲時的生活並不尋常。

You know, I just kind of led my own life to my own rules.

你知道，我只是按照自己的規則過自己的生活。

And I had a lot of feedback that I should, you know, fit in society's rules, never got a high school diploma.

我得到了很多反饋，你知道，我應該適應社會的規則，我從來沒有拿到過高中文憑。

所以，我只是按照自己的方式做事。

And sometimes I cared about what people said to me, you know, you're not gonna make everyone happy.

有時我也會在意別人對我說的話，你知道，你不可能讓所有人都開心。

So why bother and you have to be true to yourself.

所以，何必呢，你必須忠於自己。

It's good when you lose count of how many businesses you have 12 restaurants in Toronto and two restaurants in LA.

當你數不清自己在多倫多有 12 家餐廳，在洛杉磯有 2 家餐廳時，這就很好了。

So you're talking about, you know, people want you to go down this conventional path.

所以你說的是，你知道，人們希望你走這條傳統的道路。

I mean, going to university was was pretty conventional.

我的意思是，上大學是非常傳統的。

And I got the message from society because I was a high school dropout, that I needed that.

因為我高中輟學，社會給了我這樣的資訊：我需要這樣。

And so I was figuring out kind of like, okay, society, parents, you want me to go to university, you know, I'm going to do this.

所以我就在想，好吧，社會、父母，你們想讓我上大學，那我就這麼做吧。

And I went later in life and ended up being a straight A student and valedictorian.

我後來去了那裡，結果成了全優生和告別演說者。

And then I went on to do my master's degree in business.

然後，我繼續攻讀商業碩士學位。

於是，我，我陷入了這種境地。

But I thought it was a little bit, you know, of a joke that I had to do this, read some books, take a test, and now society is going to praise you.

但我覺得這有點像一個笑話，你知道，我必須這樣做，讀幾本書，參加考試，現在社會就要表揚你了。

Yeah, I thought like, right, I figured out the biggest secret on the planet to make people happy.

是啊，我想，對了，我發現了這個星球上讓人們快樂的最大祕密。

You know, at the at the end of the day, I do really need university when you look at the Bill Gates of the world, or, you know, we don't.

你知道，在一天結束的時候，當你看到世界上的比爾-蓋茨時，我確實需要大學，或者說，你知道，我們不需要大學。

So we don't need to fall into what society has taught us.

是以，我們不必陷入社會教導我們的誤區。

I finished university kind of around when I was 30.

我大概是在 30 歲時完成大學學業的。

And I'm open right into the restaurant business.

And I travel all over the world to experience restaurants.

I'm, I'm doing two of my passions, business, and restaurants and food, I feel very lucky.

我有兩個愛好，做生意、餐館和美食，我感到非常幸運。

I mean, some people never discover what their passions are.

我的意思是，有些人從未發現自己的激情所在。

And generally, you know, it's been it's been successful.

總的來說，你知道的，它是成功的。

I think that's the greatest success if you're, if you're happy doing it.

我認為，如果你做得開心，這就是最大的成功。

There's a lot of people who want to make changes in their life.

But the so to speak risk of doing that risk of failure of fear perception from others.

但這樣做的風險可以說是失敗的風險，因為害怕別人的看法。

When I opened my first restaurant, when I was 30, I had a lot of people, a lot of people have a lot of advice when you start off in something new, and you haven't done it before.

當我 30 歲時開第一家餐廳時，很多人都給了我很多建議。

Yeah, unless it's coming from someone who has walked in your shoes or have done it, the experience, but people just randomly giving you advice when you pay, they don't, they don't trust that you know what you're doing.

是啊，除非是你的同行或有經驗的人給你的建議，但人們只是在你付錢時隨意給你建議，他們不相信你知道自己在做什麼。

But for people starting off a lot of people, you know, giving their opinions.

但對於剛開始工作的人來說，很多人都會發表自己的意見。

But one opinion that I had pushed my way was, this is too risky, and you're going to lose everything.

但有一種意見認為，這樣做風險太大，你會失去一切。

And what I had to say to everyone was, I have nothing.

我必須對大家說的是，我一無所有。

I had a bit of money that I rolled into this restaurant.

我帶了點錢，捲進了這家餐廳。

And if I lose it, I'm going to start over again.

如果我失去了它，我會重新開始。

When it depends on how what do you have to lose?

Yeah, I think there's times to take bigger risks.

是的，我認為有時需要冒更大的風險。

Other times, you know, you want to put the kids through college, maybe it's not time to start rolling some dice.

其他時候，你知道，你想讓孩子們上大學，也許現在還不是開始擲骰子的時候。

And you have to add, you have to ask that question to yourself.

你必須補充一點，你必須問自己這個問題。

這是一段個性化的旅程，不是嗎？

But in the beginning, when you start something, what do you have to lose?

但一開始，當你開始做一件事時，你會失去什麼呢？

Yeah, even to that point, I find that's a limiting way of thinking, what do I have to lose being meaning money, this or that?

是啊，即使到了那一步，我發現這也是一種限制性的思維方式，我有什麼好失去的，是指金錢、這個還是那個？

Well, okay, what do you have to lose by not taking that risk?

好吧，不冒這個險，你會有什麼損失呢？

People often think, what do I have to lose by taking the risk?

人們常常會想，我冒這個險會有什麼損失呢？

What do you have to lose by not taking it that pressure that you now have inside your head that dissatisfaction with yourself that all the regrets all the what if that's a lot to bear.

不接受它，你會失去什麼呢？你現在腦子裡的壓力，對自己的不滿，所有的遺憾，所有的如果，都讓你難以承受。

And a lot of the time we don't think about that.

很多時候，我們並沒有想到這一點。

We think about what happens if I take the risk and it doesn't work.

我們會想，如果我冒了這個險，卻沒有成功，那該怎麼辦？

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