If you are a schoolteacher, and you'll probably learn at some point that if a student comes up to you with a problem or something they want to talk about, you should ask them, do you want to be helped, which is a practical conversation, do you want to be hugged, which is an emotional conversation, or do you want to be heard, which is a social conversation?
如果你是一名教師,你可能會在某個時候瞭解到,如果學生向你提出問題或想傾訴什麼,你應該問他們:你想得到幫助嗎,這是一個實際的對話;你想得到擁抱嗎,這是一個情感的對話;還是你想被傾聽嗎,這是一個社交的對話?