Yes Prove it like what's the metric?

是的 證明一下，比如什麼是度量衡？

Give me the number that helps me know Right because when you met her you didn't love her now you love her.

給我一個數字，讓我知道你認識她時並不愛她，現在你愛她了。

Tell me the day The love happened.

告訴我愛情發生的那天

It's an impossible question But it's not that it doesn't exist It's that it's much easier to prove over time Right, if you were to go to the gym you work out and you come back and you look in the mirror You will see nothing and if you go to the gym the next day and you come back and you look in the mirror You will see Nothing, right?

這是一個不可能的問題，但並不是說它不存在，而是隨著時間的推移，它更容易被證明。 對了，如果你去健身房鍛鍊，回來後照鏡子，你會發現什麼都沒有，如果你第二天去健身房鍛鍊，回來後照鏡子，你會發現什麼都沒有，對嗎？

So clearly there's no results can't be measured it must not be effective so we quit right Or if you fundamentally believe that this is the right course of action and you stick with it You commit yourself to the regime the exercise you can screw it up You can eat chocolate cake one day.

如果你從根本上相信這是正確的做法，並堅持下去，你就會致力於制度和鍛鍊，你可以把它搞砸，你可以在某一天吃巧克力蛋糕。

You can skip a skip a day or two, you know It allows for that.

你可以跳過一兩天，你知道它允許這樣做。

But if you stick with it consistently, I'm not exactly sure what day But I know you'll start getting into shape.

但如果你堅持不懈，我不確定哪一天，但我知道你會開始進入狀態。

I know it and the same with the relationship.

我知道，關係也是如此。

It's not about the events It's not about intensity.

這與事件無關，也與強度無關。

It's about consistency Right, you go to the dentist twice a year.

這與一致性有關 對，你每年去看兩次牙醫。

Your teeth will fall out You have to brush your teeth every day for two minutes.

牙齒會脫落 你必須每天刷牙兩分鐘。

What is brushing your day twice a day for two minutes do nothing Unless you do it every day twice a day for two minutes Right.

除非每天刷牙兩次，每次兩分鐘，否則什麼也做不了。

It's the consistency going to the gym for nine hours does not get you into shape working out every day for 20 minutes Gets you into shape But it's the daily practice of all the monotonous little boring things like brushing your teeth that matter the most Leadership is exactly the same.

但是，最重要的是每天堅持做單調乏味的小事，比如刷牙 領導力是完全一樣的。

There's no event There's no thing I can tell you you have to do that.

我不能告訴你你必須這麼做。

Your people will trust you.

你的員工會信任你。

It just doesn't work that way It's the Nick.

尼克就是這樣。

It's an accumulation of Lots and lots of little things that anyone by themselves is innocuous and useless Literally pointless by themselves people will look at little things that are good leadership practices and say that won't work and you're absolutely Right, but if you do it consistently and you do it in combination with lots of other little things Like saying good morning to someone that looking him in the eye My friend George is a three-star general in the Marine Corps He says his test for leadership and I love this He goes his test really a good leaders if you ask somebody how their day is going you actually care about the answer And the number of times we're walking to a meeting.

它是大量小事的積累，這些小事本身是無傷大雅、毫無用處的，甚至可以說是毫無意義的、我的朋友喬治是海軍陸戰隊的三星上將，他說他對領導力的測試，我很喜歡這句話，他說他對一個好上司的測試是，如果你問別人今天過得怎麼樣，你會真正關心他的回答，以及我們走路去開會的次數。

We're rushing.

我們在趕時間。

We go.

我們走

How are you?

你好嗎？

Not good.

不好。

I gotta get you later I got I'm late for a meeting if you ask the question you were standing there and you're listening to the answer it's those little innocuous things that you do over and over and over and over that people will say I Love my job and the same with the relationship She didn't fall in love with you because you remembered her birthday and bought her flowers and Valentine's Day She fell in love with you because when you woke up in the morning, you said good morning to her before you checked your phone She fell in love with you because when you went to the fridge to get yourself a drink You got her one without even asking she fell in love with you because when you had an amazing day at work And she came home and she had a terrible day at work.

我得晚點去接你，我開會要遲到了 如果你問的問題是你站在那裡聽的答案 這些無傷大雅的小事，你做了一次又一次 人們就會說，我愛我的工作她愛上你，是因為當你去冰箱拿飲料時，你問都沒問就給她拿了一杯 她愛上你，是因為當你在工作中度過了精彩的一天，而她回到家時，她在工作中度過了糟糕的一天。

You didn't say yeah.

你沒說是

Yeah Yeah, but let me tell you about my day You sat and listened to her awful day and you didn't say a thing about your amazing This is why she fell in love with you I can't tell you exactly what day and it was no particular thing you did It was the accumulation of all of those little things that she woke up one days and this as if she pressed a button she goes I Love him

是啊是啊，但讓我告訴你我的一天 你坐在那裡，聽著她糟糕的一天 你沒有說你的驚人 這就是為什麼她愛上了你 我不能確切地告訴你是哪一天 這不是你做了什麼特別的事 這是所有這些小事的積累