Name: 心態的轉變改變了我的 20 歲。 (The mindset shift that changed my 20s.)
Uploaded: 2024-09-25T07:23:03.000Z
Duration: 7 min 35 s

未來簡單式

See ya. I just got back from a trip to LA.

I've been traveling a lot lately, and while it's been fun, I'm very happy to be home.

最近我經常出差，雖然很開心，但我很高興能回家。

While I was there, I met up with a new creator friend, Megan Tan, in person for the first time ever.

在那裡，我第一次見到了一位新的創作者朋友--梅根-譚（Megan Tan）。

It was such an adventure, and I think we had an even better time than we thought we would. Today, I want to talk about the one mindset shift that completely changed my 20s.

這真是一次冒險，我覺得我們過得比想象中還要開心。今天，我想談談徹底改變我 20 多歲生活的一次心態轉變。

For the past several years, I've had this personal motto that goes, "Say yes now, figure it out later." I've talked about it once on Here Before, and it is a motto that I hold very close to my heart and has been responsible for many events in my life.

在過去的幾年裡，我的座右銘是："現在就答應，以後再想辦法"。我曾在《Here Before》上說過一次，這是我非常珍視的座右銘，也是我生命中許多事件的起因。

It's my little tattoo on my wrist, and I cannot believe it's already been two years since I got this thing.

這是我手腕上的小紋身，真不敢相信，我紋這個東西已經兩年了。

A lot has changed since then, and I always find it very interesting to revisit themes at different phases in my life and see if it's still relevant, if things have changed, or if it's reinforced. And for this in particular, there have been a few things that have reminded me of it.

從那時起，很多事情都發生了變化，我總覺得在人生的不同階段重溫這些主題非常有趣，看看它們是否仍然適用，是否發生了變化，或者是否得到了強化。特別是這次，有幾件事讓我想起了它。

When I had first come up with the phrase "figure it out later," it was after I had dropped out of college and was slowly finding my way in the world.

當我第一次想到 "以後再想辦法 "這句話的時候，我已經從大學輟學，正在慢慢尋找自己的人生道路。

I had an idea of what I wanted to do, but I wasn't great at putting myself out there.

我知道自己想做什麼，但我不擅長把自己展示出來。

I cared way too much about what people thought.

I was way too in my head about some things, and I struggled to really find my voice.

我對一些事情過於自以為是，很難真正找到自己的聲音。

And throughout this time, "figure it out" was my anchor.

在這段時間裡，"想辦法 "一直是我的支柱。

It was a way of reminding myself to just make a decision, and I will figure it out when I get there, sort of having this trust in yourself while taking these leaps of faith.

這是一種提醒自己做出決定的方式，我到了那裡就會想明白的，有點像在信仰的飛躍中對自己的信任。

And periodically, it will pop in and out of my life.

它還會定期出現在我的生活中。

I think we inherently know when we connect with the idea of something.

我認為，當我們與某件事情的想法產生共鳴時，我們就會與生俱來地知道它的存在。

It feels exciting and terrifying all at once.

But before we even have the chance to pursue it, we often hold ourselves back because we don't know how it will turn out. When Megan asked me to go on a trip to the West Coast, there was a moment where I felt hesitant to go.

但是，在我們有機會去追求它之前，我們常常會因為不知道結果會如何而裹足不前。當梅根邀請我去西海岸旅行時，我曾一度猶豫不決。

It had been a while since I've done anything like that.

我已經很久沒有做過這樣的事情了。

We had only just begun to know each other, and I was considering saying no.

我們才剛剛開始瞭解對方，我正在考慮拒絕。

But you never know what an opportunity will lead to, and you never know how impactful something will be until after you've done it.

但你永遠不知道一個機會會帶來什麼，你也永遠不知道一件事的影響力有多大，直到你做了之後才知道。

There could be a million different things that could make it the wrong choice, but you only need a few good reasons for it to be right.

可能有無數種不同的情況會讓你做出錯誤的選擇，但你只需要幾個好的理由就能做出正確的選擇。

When it comes to these giant leaps of faith, quitting your job, taking the trip, meeting someone for the first time, it always leads back to this four-letter word: risk. It's beautiful outside.

說到這些信念上的巨大飛躍、辭職、旅行、與某人的初次見面，總會讓人聯想到這四個字：風險。外面很美。

There was a period of my life where I was feeling very stagnant.

曾經有一段時間，我覺得自己的生活非常停滯不前。

I wasn't meeting new people or experiencing new things, but I was also not putting myself out there at the same time.

我沒有結識新朋友，也沒有體驗新事物，但同時我也沒有把自己展示出來。

It's so easy to be comfortable in your bubble, but I think it's also important not to take it too far.

在自己的 "氣泡 "中安逸地生活很容易，但我認為同樣重要的是不要走得太遠。

And it's not about saying yes to everything, but it's important to know when something will be a healthy push.

這並不是說要對所有事情都說 "是"，但重要的是要知道什麼時候某件事情才是健康的推動力。

It can be intimidating to open yourself up, to show the world who you are and not know how it's going to be received.

讓自己敞開心扉，向世界展示自己，卻不知道別人會怎麼看，這可能會讓人感到害怕。

But we're never going to know what's on the other side unless we're willing to take that first step and see where that tells us where to go next. The beauty of putting yourself out there is that it also forces you to be adaptable and creative in ways you may have not expected.

但是，除非我們願意邁出第一步，看看這一步會告訴我們下一步該怎麼走，否則我們永遠不會知道另一邊會有什麼。把自己擺在那裡的好處在於，它也迫使你以你可能意想不到的方式去適應和創造。

It opens you up to seeing things in a different way, learning from different people, and maybe even finding things you weren't even looking for.

它能讓你以不同的方式看待事物，向不同的人學習，甚至可能找到你根本沒有尋找到的東西。

There will always be some level of risk involved when it comes to doing something completely out of the ordinary from what we're used to.

當我們做一些完全不同於以往的事情時，總會有一定程度的風險。

But honestly, I think that's just the name of the game.

但老實說，我認為這只是遊戲的名稱而已。

And depending on what season of life we're in, it's either going to be a yes or a no.

這取決於我們所處的人生階段，要麼是 "是"，要麼是 "否"。

And if it's a yes, then sometimes it'll work, and sometimes it won't.

如果是 "是"，那麼有時會奏效，有時不會。

But either way, you'll learn something from it. My creative journey so far has been full of moments where I had to try different things and experiment, whether it was collaborating with new people, exploring different styles, or diving into new formats.

但無論如何，你都會從中學習到一些東西。迄今為止，我的創作歷程充滿了必須嘗試不同事物和實驗的時刻，無論是與新人合作、探索不同風格，還是涉足新形式。

Many of the ideas that I had this year, including my collab with Megan, have been made possible with the support of Epidemic Sound, who has provided me with so much of my soundtrack over the past year.

我今年的許多想法，包括與梅根的合作，都是在 Epidemic Sound 的支持下得以實現的。

是以，我們要向他們表示衷心的感謝。

Using Epidemic Sound allowed me to focus more on my creativity, knowing that I had access to a huge library of licensed music and sound effects that could fit any vibe that I'm going for.

使用 Epidemic Sound 可以讓我更加專注於我的創意，因為我知道我可以使用一個龐大的授權音樂和音效庫，這些音樂和音效可以滿足我想要的任何氛圍。

Epidemic makes things incredibly easy, from being able to organize my own project playlist, to what's probably my favorite feature, downloading stems of a song.

Epidemic 讓一切都變得異常簡單，從可以組織我自己的項目播放列表，到我最喜歡的功能--下載歌曲的歌梗。

As I've grown as a creator, I've learned that having reliable tools like Epidemic Sound is so crucial.

隨著我作為創作者的成長，我認識到擁有像 Epidemic Sound 這樣可靠的工具至關重要。

It's helped me stay true to my creative vision without second-guessing myself.

它幫助我堅持自己的創作理念，不對自己進行猜測。

I was able to get a 25% off code off of yearly plans, but it is only available for this week.

我得到了一個年度計劃的七五折優惠代碼，但它只適用於本週。

So if you've been thinking about it, then get on it.

所以，如果你一直在考慮，那就趕快行動吧。

So if you are ready to bring your stories to life, then I highly, highly recommend Epidemic Sound, and you can check them out using the link in my description. There's a certain naive confidence you have when you just enter your 20s, unlike any other part of your life.

是以，如果你已經準備好讓自己的故事栩栩如生，那麼我強烈推薦 Epidemic Sound，你可以使用我描述中的鏈接查看。剛步入 20 歲時，你會有一種天真的自信，這與你生命中的任何其他階段都不同。

It's the easiest to lose and the longest to get back.

And if there was one part of that era I could take to the next, I think it probably would be that.

如果說我可以把那個時代的某個部分帶到下一個時代，我想可能就是這個。

It is quite the claim that this is the mindset that helped me navigate my 20s out of everything else.

可以說，正是這種心態幫助我在 20 多歲時擺脫了一切煩惱。

But looking back, I can't imagine all the things I would have missed out on and all the things that led to another since then.

但回首往事，我無法想象自己會錯過多少事情，以及從那時起導致另一種結果的所有事情。

It is truly one of the few themes in my life that keep on reoccurring, in between all the years and different contexts and routes.

它確實是我生命中為數不多的主題之一，在歲月的長河中，在不同的環境和路線中，不斷重複出現。

And each time still holds this universal truth, that it starts with what you think you can do, but ends with finding out. So I hope you enjoyed this video.

而每一次都蘊含著一個普遍真理，那就是：始於你認為你能做到的事，終於你發現你能做到的事。希望大家喜歡這段視頻。

It was very fun to revisit a topic and see where I was at with it.

重新審視一個主題，看看自己的進展情況，是一件非常有趣的事情。

Safe to say, my trip to California with Megan was not a disaster.

可以說，我和梅根的加州之行並不是一場災難。

I guess you got to see a little bit of the behind the scenes in this video, but Megan made a beautiful video while we were on our trip in California.

我猜你們在這段視頻中看到了一些幕後花絮，但梅根在我們去加利福尼亞旅行時拍了一段很美的視頻。

So if you haven't seen that yet, then please check it out.

所以，如果你還沒看過，那就請去看看吧。

You can find me on Instagram at Leferisa in the meantime, and I will see you in the next one.

在此期間，您可以在 Instagram 上的 Leferisa 找到我，我們下期再見。