Same thing with people who put out 10 YouTube videos, and in total, they have 500 views. But that's actually amazing. You're winning, but you think you're losing because your expectations are off. I've mentioned this before somewhere. A lot of problems are only problems because we think they're problems. In other words, oftentimes, we think we're losing, when in reality, we just have to adjust our expectations. And my buddy, Rhian Doris, who was in a second latest video, adjusted my expectations. It's tough because I've been going through a little bit of this as well. The circular sort of rhythm of progression can be painful, you know. The thing I try to remind myself of is that it's like it's a spiral, not a circle. So it feels circular because you come around. Yeah, exactly, but it actually spirals upward. So all these cringy motivational posters, they make sense, except for this one, maybe. What is, what, how did he, what? This final one, I believe, is the most powerful way to tap into the winner effect as well. It's used by Olympic athletes, the U.S.
同樣的道理,有人在 YouTube 上發佈了 10 個視頻,總共有 500 人觀看。但這其實已經很了不起了。你贏了,但你認為你輸了,因為你的期望值不對。我曾在某處提到過這一點。很多問題之所以是問題,只是因為我們認為它們是問題。換句話說,很多時候,我們認為自己輸了,而實際上,我們只需要調整自己的期望值。我的好友瑞安-多麗絲(Rhian Doris)在第二段最新視頻中調整了我的預期。這很難,因為我也經歷過一些這樣的事情。這種循環往復的節奏會讓人很痛苦,你知道的。我試著提醒自己,這是一個螺旋,而不是一個圓。所以