And there was a little bit of tension, quite a bit of tension at first, because it was hard to find the right, you know, the right boundaries, because I wanted to be able to have this time for myself, and it was hard to say no, and it was hard for John to learn that I was really serious and that I really wanted this time for myself.
一開始,氣氛有點緊張,相當緊張,因為我很難找到合適的界限,因為我想擁有屬於自己的這段時間,很難說 "不",也很難讓約翰知道我是認真的,我真的想擁有屬於自己的這段時間。