Name: 給 20 多歲年輕人的建議 | Jordan 和 Mikhaila Peterson (Advice to Young Men in Their 20s | Jordan and Mikhaila Peterson)
Uploaded: 2024-07-31T07:03:36.000Z
Duration: 1 min 43 s

What advice do you have for a young man in his 20s? Make a plan.

你對 20 多歲的年輕人有什麼建議？制定計劃。

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Get disciplined about something. Allow for the possibility that you have something important to contribute to the world and that the world would be a lesser place without that contribution. Don't be afraid of taking on responsibility. You're so...

嚴於律己。允許自己有可能為這個世界做出重要貢獻，如果沒有這些貢獻，這個世界就會變得遜色。不要害怕承擔責任。你是如此...

It's where you find what sustains you in your life. You can take on too much responsibility.

在這裡，你能找到支撐你生活的動力。你可以承擔太多的責任。

You have to be cautious in that regard, but that's a less common problem than not taking on enough. A lot of the things that people regard as traps are actually the means to their life. Often young people are afraid of commitment, for example, in the context of a romantic relationship because they feel that that's going to interfere with their pursuit of something more valuable.

在這方面，你必須小心謹慎，但這是一個比沒有承擔足夠責任更不常見的問題。很多被人們視為陷阱的東西實際上是他們生活的手段。年輕人往往害怕承諾，比如在戀愛關係中，因為他們覺得這會影響他們追求更有價值的東西。

But that's just not the case. You're not going to find something more valuable in your life than a committed relationship with someone that you love, that sustains itself across time, and that in all likelihood produces children. That's life.

但事實並非如此。在你的生命中，你找不到比與你愛的人建立一種堅定的關係更有價值的東西了，這種關係可以維持很長時間，而且很有可能會生兒育女。這就是生活。

 And there may be people for whom avoiding that is the better route, but those people are very rare and you need a real reason to assume that you're one of those people. And hopefully for you, you're not. You know, I've had a very good career, a very meaningful career in multiple dimensions, and it's still been the case for me that the most important part of my life has been my intimate relationship with my wife and my family. So don't be afraid of that, or be afraid of it, but don't let that stop you from pursuing it.

對有些人來說，避免這樣做可能是更好的辦法，但這種人非常罕見，你需要一個真正的理由來假設你就是這種人。希望你不是。你知道，我有過非常好的職業生涯，在多個方面都有非常有意義的職業生涯，但對我來說，我生命中最重要的部分仍然是我與妻子和家人的親密關係。所以，不要害怕，也不要害怕，但不要是以而放棄追求。