Here are a few ways to leave a lasting impression and be unforgettable.

以下是幾種給人留下深刻印象和難以忘懷的方法。

Create Positive Associations

創建積極的聯想

Ever heard of classical conditioning?

聽說過經典條件反射嗎？

It's a psychological phenomenon where two things become linked in a person's mind when they happen concurrently, making us think they're cause and effect.

這是一種心理現象，當兩件事情同時發生時，就會在人的腦海中產生聯繫，讓我們認為它們是因果關係。

Well, you can use a similar principle to your advantage.

那麼，你也可以利用類似的原理來為自己謀利。

Make sure that person associates you with positive experiences or feelings.

確保對方將你與積極的經歷或感受聯繫起來。

Be kind, funny or supportive whenever they're around.

只要他們在身邊，就表現得親切、幽默或支持他們。

Over time, they'll start to associate you with those good vibes, making them think about you more often.

隨著時間的推移，他們會開始把你和這些好的氛圍聯繫在一起，讓他們更經常地想起你。

Make Yourself a Mystery

讓自己成為一個謎

Humans are curious creatures by nature.

人類天生就是好奇的動物。

Use this to your advantage by creating a bit of mystery around yourself.

利用這一點，為自己製造一點神祕感。

Don't reveal everything about yourself right away.

不要馬上暴露自己的一切。

Leave some things to the imagination and drop hints about what makes you interesting.

留下一些想象空間，暗示你的有趣之處。

For example, you could share a surprising talent you have.

例如，您可以分享自己的一項令人驚訝的才能。

Oh yeah, I have a black belt in Taekwondo.

對了，我還有一條跆拳道黑帶。

I could show you some moves next time if you want.

如果你願意，下次我可以教你幾招。

Or a funny anecdote.

或者一個有趣的軼事。

This reminds me of that time I went backpacking through Europe.

這讓我想起了那次揹包遊歐洲。

I'll tell you about it next time.

下次再告訴你。

It's like leaving breadcrumbs for them to follow, leading them to think about you more and more.

這就像給他們留下面包屑，引導他們越來越多地想起你。

Pique their curiosity and they'll be eager to unravel the mystery of who you are.

激發他們的好奇心，他們就會迫不及待地揭開你的神祕面紗。

Use the Zygonic Effect

利用齊格尼效應

Speaking of mystery, ever experienced the nagging feeling of unfinished business?

說到 "神祕"，你是否有過 "未完成的任務 "這種耿耿於懷的感覺？

Imagine you're binge watching your favorite TV show, and just as it gets to the most exciting part, the episode ends on a cliffhanger.

想象一下，你正在狂看自己最喜歡的電視劇，正當看到最精彩的部分時，劇集卻在一個懸念中結束了。

You're left hanging, itching to know what happens next.

讓人慾罷不能，迫不及待地想知道接下來會發生什麼。

That feeling of wanting closure but not getting it is like the Zygonic Effect.

那種想要了結卻又無法了結的感覺，就像是 "齊格尼效應"（Zygonic Effect）。

Similarly, in conversations or interactions, leaving things a bit open-ended or mysterious can make the other person curious and thinking about you even after the interaction has ended.

同樣，在談話或互動中，留一點懸念或神祕感會讓對方對你產生好奇，甚至在互動結束後還會對你念念不忘。

For example, say you're talking to your crush about a little gift you got them that reminded you of them.

比如說，你在和暗戀的人談論你送給他們的小禮物，這讓你想起了他們。

Naturally, they'll ask you what it is.

他們自然會問你這是什麼。

But don't just tell them.

但不要直接告訴他們。

Say something like, guess you'll have to wait and see.

你可以說 "我想你得等著瞧 "之類的話。

But trust me, it's something special.

但請相信我，它很特別。

Become obsessed with yourself.

迷戀自己。

Wait, what?

等等，什麼？

A secret to making someone think about me more is to become obsessed with myself?

讓別人更多考慮我的祕訣就是迷戀自己？

Yep, you heard that right.

是的，你沒聽錯。

But before you start picturing a narcissistic selfie spree, hear us out.

不過，在你開始想象自戀狂自拍之前，請聽我們把話說完。

Being obsessed with yourself in a healthy way means prioritizing self-care, self-love and personal growth.

以健康的方式迷戀自己，意味著把自我保健、自愛和個人成長放在首位。

When you're genuinely happy and fulfilled in your own life, it radiates outward, making you more attractive and intriguing to others.

當你在自己的生活中真正感到快樂和滿足時，它就會向外輻射，使你對他人更有吸引力和吸引力。

So invest in yourself, pursue your passions and watch as others become drawn to your positive energy and enthusiasm.

是以，投資自己，追求激情，看著別人被你的正能量和熱情所吸引。

Invest in yourself.

投資自己

Much like our earlier point, it's also good to take care of your looks when you want someone to think about you more.

就像我們前面提到的，當你想讓別人更多地為你著想時，打理好自己的外表也是很有好處的。

When you invest in yourself, you're not just improving your appearance, you're also boosting your confidence and self-esteem.

當你對自己進行投資時，你不僅改善了自己的外表，還增強了自信和自尊。

And let's face it, confidence is attractive.

面對現實吧，自信是一種魅力。

When you take care of your looks, whether it's dressing nicely or taking the time to pamper yourself, you're sending a message that you value yourself.

當你愛護自己的外表時，無論是穿得漂亮，還是花時間呵護自己，你都在向別人傳遞一個資訊：你很重視自己。

And when you value yourself, others are more likely to value and think about you too.

當你重視自己時，別人也會更重視你，為你著想。

Plus, when you look around, you feel good and that positive energy radiates, making you even more irresistible.

此外，當你環顧四周時，你會感覺良好，這種積極的能量會散發出來，讓你更加難以抗拒。

Find something to share.

找到可以分享的東西

Whether it's a secret, a common experience, a mutual enemy or an inside joke, sharing something with someone immediately creates a sense of intimacy and connection between two people.

無論是一個祕密、一段共同經歷、一個共同的敵人還是一個內部笑話，與人分享都會立即在兩個人之間產生一種親密感和聯繫。

So try telling them a personal story, finding a common interest or something you both dislike.

是以，可以試著給他們講一個個人故事，找一個共同的興趣點或你們都不喜歡的東西。

By creating a sense of exclusivity and closeness, you'll make yourself stand out in their mind and make them think about you as someone they can confide in and trust.

通過營造一種專屬感和親近感，你會讓自己在他們心目中脫穎而出，讓他們覺得你是他們可以傾訴和信任的人。

In a nutshell, making someone think about you more isn't playing mind games or using manipulative tactics, but being someone worth thinking about.

一言以蔽之，讓別人更多地為你著想並不是玩心理遊戲或使用操縱策略，而是做一個值得別人為你著想的人。

It's about building genuine connections, being your authentic self and leaving a positive impact on those around you.

這關係到建立真正的聯繫，做真實的自己，給周圍的人留下積極的影響。

So go ahead and sprinkle some kindness, authenticity and a dash of mystery into your interactions.

是以，請在你的互動中加入一些善意、真實和神祕的元素。

Before you know it, you'll be the first thing on their mind.

不知不覺中，他們就會首先想到你。

What was something someone did that left a lasting impact on you?

某人的哪些行為給你留下了深刻的影響？

Share your thoughts and insights in the comments below.

請在下面的評論中分享您的想法和見解。

And if you'd like to learn more about this topic, click here to watch our videos on 6 most effective ways to attract anyone you want and 5 topics to spark great questions with a crush.

如果您想了解更多關於這個話題的資訊，請點擊這裡觀看我們的視頻：吸引您想要的任何人的 6 種最有效的方法，以及與暗戀對象引發精彩問題的 5 個話題。

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走之前別忘了點贊和訂閱。

Thanks for watching.

感謝觀看。