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and is largely unedited.

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"Were you a teacher's pet back at school?

Um, for some of them, no, well, no.

No.

No.

What about you?

Yes, in English I was definitely the teacher's pet and in like PE I

was the golden girl because I did all the clubs and took part in every

extracurricular activity that was going.

I was generally a good girl, not a naughty girl.

It's a funny word, isn't it?

Naughty, because we use it to mean cheeky a lot.

For children, I don't think we, I think naughty just means, um...

Badly...

...like badly behaved.

I think adults being naughty is different to being a criminal.

Yes, yes.

Whereas...

Because if you break the rules at school, you're a naughty boy or

you're a naughty girl, but if you're a grown-up and you call someone a

naughty girl, then it's got almost like a, it's like hanky panky, isn't it?

Yeah.

It's like, um...

Sexual connotations.

Sexual connotations.

So, as a child, I wasn't a naughty girl, but I did hang around with...

...as an adult!?

I did hang around with some of the naughty kids.

There was one time when I started a new school and I was trying to hang out with

a cool crowd and they were all behind the bikeshed having a sneaky ciggy,

but I was being the lookout for them.

I was trying to help them out because I wanted to get in with them and so I

was looking out for them and then one of the girls asked me to hold one of their

cigarettes for a moment and the moment I took the cigarette in hand was the moment

like the head of department or someone quite senior in the teaching staff walked

around the corner and literally caught me red-handed even though it wasn't my

cigarette and of course, I protested.

I was like,

"It's not mine, it's not mine..."

But I had it in my hand.

Do you think your friends saw the teacher coming?

Maybe.

Maybe they were just like setting me up for a fall.

But even in those circumstances, like, I wasn't the kind of person

who would dob other people in.

I was a good girl but I kept my mouth shut when I needed to.

I used to hate the word dobbing.

Did you?

Yeah as a kid it was like, I always thought it was something

that people got off Neighbours...

Right.

...or, um, Home and Away, saying,

"You're gonna be dobbing me in."

Well what word would you use?

Like to rat, to rat someone out or?

I think,...

as when you were younger you just say like 'telling the teacher'

or something, but then...

"I'm telling!"

Yeah.

"I'm telling on you!"

Yeah, be like you telling or whatever and then I think when you're a bit older like,

"You're gonna grass me up."

Oh, 'grass up'.

Yeah, absolutely.

Yeah, we used that one a lot when I was a kid.

"Don't grass me up."

I was a goody two shoes, actually.

I don't remember ever getting a detention or...

You really were a goody two shoes.

Yeah, I really was.

I really was.

I have no idea how many detentions I got.

Really?

Oh, so you were a bit of a naughty boy.

Yeah, I got in a few fights and all this kind of stuff, you know, boys

trying to find their place in like the hierarchy of the, of the year.

And there was 150 kids in my year, so there was a lot of people

finding their places and things.

And then when you got a bit older, like, those sorts of things mostly disappeared.

I wasn't very good at doing my homework.

I was a bit bored, I think, for the most part.

So you'd just always test the limits.

You know, I didn't, I didn't mind saying things that maybe were a bit on the edge.

Right.

Getting me in a bit of trouble with the teachers and things.

You weren't expelled, were you?

No, I was never expelled.

I think you've got to be horrible to be expelled.

I was suspended, maybe three times.

You were suspended three times?

I think so, yeah.

What on earth did you do to get suspended for a whole week?

Well..."

Were you a teacher's pet back at school?

Teacher's pet describes the student who is the teacher's favourite student.

So they might get a special treatment, or the teacher may just behave in a more kind

and friendly way towards that student.

The teacher's pet.

In like PE I was the golden girl.

Here I mentioned being the golden girl in PE.

PE stands for physical education.

It's the lessons that involve sports and being physical that we do at

school and being a golden girl is like being a very well-behaved and

well-liked girl, a golden girl.

But if you're a grown-up and you call someone a naughty girl, then it's got

almost like a, it's like hanky panky.

Hanky panky.

This kind of fun slightly naughty phrase refers to behaving in a very

intimate and sexual way with somebody else the act of hanky panky could

literally replace the word sex.

So,

"Did you have hanky panky last night?"

It's sex, basically.

A bit of hanky panky.

But hanky panky can also refer to just the acts that are sexual

that aren't necessarily sex.

So a bit of, a bit of tickling and rolling around.

Hanky panky.

And they were all behind the bike shed having a sneaky ciggy, but

I was being the lookout for them.

I was trying to help them out because I wanted to get in with them.

Here, I used the phrase ciggy, meaning cigarette.

So you might hear different, uh, like slang terms like

sig, fag, ciggy, cigarette.

I use the word ciggy just off the cuff.

I also said lookout.

To be a lookout is to be the person who stands guard while something is happening,

watching to make sure that no one is coming or that no one can see and if

someone is coming the lookout is supposed to tell whoever is doing the deed,

"Someone's coming quick."

Now, normally there'd be a lookout if a gang were committing a crime like

robbing a bank there'd be someone on lookout at the front or I always think

of meerkats when I think of a lookout because meerkats will spend their

time doing what they're doing but one meerkat will have the job of being the

lookout and he stands up tall and he looks to the sky to look for predators.

And if there's a predator, he will warn the others and they'll all

quickly scurry away into safety.

I also said I wanted to get in with the group, to get in with them.

To get in with a group of people is to become one of them.

So be liked by a group of friends so that they want you to be in their group.

They like talking to you, they invite you to do the things that

they're doing to get in with them.

And literally caught me red-handed even though it wasn't my cigarette.

I was caught red-handed.

To be caught red-handed is an idiom that describes being caught or found in the act

of doing something you shouldn't be doing.

So if I'm in my kitchen, no one's around, and there's a big slice

of cake in the fridge that I'm not supposed to eat, because it belongs

to someone else or maybe I'm on a diet and then I think no one's looking,

"Chomp chomp!"

And I've got chocolate all over my face and someone walks in as I'm just

licking my fingers, but I still have chocolate on my face Then I've just been

caught red-handed, caught in the act.

Maybe they were just like setting me up for a fall.

To set someone up for a fall is to prepare someone to then allow them to fail.

Just like you would set up dominoes, and as soon as you finish setting

up your dominoes, you knock them down, and they all fall down.

In some circumstances, people will set other people up for a fall.

So they'll put them in a situation where they know they will fail.

It's not pleasant, but it happens.

But even in those circumstances, like, I wasn't the kind of person

who would dob other people in.

To dob someone in it's possibly clear now because of the context, but to

dob someone in is to tell someone that that person was doing something wrong.

So if we are friends at school and you break the rules and I go and

tell the teacher that you've broken the rules, I am dobbing you in.

To dob in.

I always thought it was something that people got off Neighbours...

Right.

...or, um, Home and Away.

Nick mentioned Neighbours or Home and Away.

Now these are two very famous soap operas, maybe not as famous now with the

younger generations but certainly when I was growing up in the 90s Neighbours

and Home and Away were very popular.

Everyone of my age will know what I'm referring to, if I say Neighbours or

Home and Away, these are soap operas that were just commonplace in the

British household when I was growing up.

Neighbours

Everybody needs

good neighbours.

Closer each day,

Home and Away

You're gonna grass me up?

Oh, 'grass up'.

Yeah, absolutely.

Yeah, we used that one a lot when I was a kid.

On the subject of dobbing someone in, we also have other

phrases that were very common.

One particular one is grass up.

Now, if you grass someone up, it's the same as dobbing them in.

You're telling tales on them.

You're telling someone,

"They did this, they did something wrong."

in order to get them into trouble.

That's the reason that you would grass someone up.

If you committed a crime and I went to the police, then I'm essentially a grass.

I am a grass.

I've just grassed you up.

You really were a goody two shoes.

Yeah, I really was.

To be a goody two shoes.

To be a goody two shoes.

It's often actually used as a phrase that has a negative connotation.

If someone's a goody two shoes, it means that they're disliked a little

bit because they are too good.

They really play to the rules and just always try to be the golden

girl or the golden boy and they don't have any problems with grassing

someone up, dobbing them in so that they can win brownie points, so

they can be favoured by authority.

So sometimes people don't like a goody two shoes.

Also a goody two shoes is someone who maybe never lets their hair down.

They never take risks.

And that can be associated with not being fun.

So it's good to follow the rules and do as you're told but being a goody

two shoes maybe is a step too far.

Yeah, I got in a few fights and all this kind of stuff, you know boys

trying to find their place in like the hierarchy of the, of the year.

Here I used the word hierarchy.

Hierarchy.

A hierarchy is a system that orders people in terms of status and authority.