Name: 不同意對方觀點但不想講得太直白傷感情？教你這些「有禮貌」的說法！(Use these phrases when you want to *politely* DISAGREE with someone)
Uploaded: 2024-04-12T21:01:20.000Z
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Disagreeing with someone is not always comfortable.

與人意見相左並不總是令人舒服的。

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So, I think we should hire Amy to do our PR.

所以我覺得我們應該請艾米來做我們的公。

[Polite phrases to use when you disagree with someone]

[當你不同意某人的觀點時所使用的禮貌用語]

First of all, because we don't want to make people upset.

首先，這是因為我們不想惹人生氣。

And second, because we don't always know what the right way to do it is.

其次，因為我們並不總是知道正確的做法是什麼。

In some cultures, simply saying no, no, no, and then saying something else is enough and acceptable.

在某些文化中，簡單地說「不，不，不」，然後說其他話就足夠了並且可以被接受。

But in other cultures, in American culture, for example, it is less acceptable and might be considered as impolite.

但在其他文化中，例如在美國文化中，這種行為不太容易被接受，並且可能被認為是不禮貌的。

So, in this video, I'm going to share with you some phrases and sentences that you can use when you disagree with someone,

所以，在這個影片中，我將與你分享一些當你不同意某人時可以使用的短語和句子，

so it can anchor you and help you communicate your opinion and your thoughts confidently and clearly.

因此，它可以使你穩固，並幫助你自信而清晰地表達你的觀點和想法。

So, the first phrase you can use is, "I hear what you're saying, but I see it differently."

所以，你可以使用的第一句話是：「我懂你的意思，但我有不同的看法。」

So, the first thing that you're going to say is, "I hear what you're saying," which means I hear you.

所以，你要說的第一件事是「我懂你的意思」，這意味著我明白你。

And then there is a but. "But I think differently."

不過有個「但是」。「但是我的想法不一樣。」

So, you're acknowledging them, but also you're setting up your argument that is going to be different than theirs.

所以，你認可他們，但你也提出了與他們不同的論點。

"I hear what you're saying, but I see it differently."

「我懂你的意思，但我的看法不一樣。」

And then you can say, "Let me explain," or "I'll tell you what I mean," and then state your opinion.

然後你可以說：「讓我解釋一下」，或者「我會告訴你我的意思」，然後陳述你的觀點。

Another phrase is, "I don't entirely agree, but I see where you're coming from."

另一句話是：「我不完全同意，但我明白你的觀點。」

Now, of course, use it when you do agree with some of the things that the other person said.

當然，當你確實同意別人所說的一些事情時，就可以使用它。

Okay, you don't need to lie, but it's a really good segue or transition from acknowledging what they said and now saying what I have to say.

好吧，你不需要撒謊，但從承認他們所說的話到現在說出我必須說的話，這是一個非常好的銜接或過渡。

"I don't entirely agree, but I see where you're coming from."

「我不完全同意，但我明白你的想法。」

You can also just say, "I see where you're coming from, but here's what I think," right?

你也可以直接說：「我明白你的想法，但我的想法是...」對吧？

But this phrase, "I see where you're coming from," is a good way to acknowledge the other person's thoughts or opinions.

但這句話「我知道你來自哪裡」是承認對方的想法或意見的好方法。

Another phrase that you can use is, "What if we approached it from a different angle?"

你可以使用的另一個短語是「如果我們從不同的角度來看待這件事呢？」

"What if we approached it from a different angle?"

「如果我們從不同的角度來看待這件事呢？」

You can also say, "What if we tackled it from a different angle?"

你也可以說：「如果我們從不同的角度來解決這個問題呢？」

So here you're not referring or commenting on their idea.

所以你不是引用或評論他們的想法。

You're just suggesting a new way to think about it.

你只是提出了一種新的思考方式。

There's something innovative about it, and it might be less offensive to the other person.

它有一些創新之處，而且可能不會那麼冒犯他人。

It's probably better than, "No, it's a terrible idea. What were you thinking?"

這可能比「不，這是一個糟糕的主意。你在想什麼？」要好。

Another phrase, "I agree with a general idea, but I do have some reservations about..."

另一句話：「我同意總體想法，但我確實有一些保留……」

"I do agree with the general idea," right?

「我確實同意整體想法，」對吧？

So again, you're acknowledging some of what they said.

再一次，你認可他們所說的一些內容。

Or, "I agree with the general idea, but I have some reservations."

或者「我同意總體想法，但我有一些保留。」

So, I agree with the general idea, but I have some reservations that I'd like to share with you right now.

所以，我同意整體想法，但我有一些保留意見，現在想與大家分享。

Okay, so that's another great idea to disagree, but really to share what you don't like about their idea, but that way you're saying it in a way that it is easy for people to hear.

好吧，這是另一個反對的好主意，但實際上是分享你不喜歡他們的想法的地方，但這樣你就可以以人們容易聽到的方式說出來。

Because when you disagree with someone right away, no, that's a bad idea, they shut down and they're not going to be open to your idea.

因為當你立即不同意某人的觀點時，不，這是一個壞主意，他們就會關閉並且不會接受你的想法。

When you partly agree and you tell them what you think is the issue with their idea, they're more likely to hear it, for the most part.

當你部分同意並告訴他們你認為他們的想法有什麼問題時，他們更有可能聽進去，在大多數情況下。

Now, another way to disagree with someone is, "I could be wrong, but my understanding is that blah, blah, blah."

現在，不同意某人的另一種方式是：「我可能是錯的，但我的理解是＿＿＿＿＿。」

So, you're not positioning yourself as the authority, but then you're saying something that might reject or negate what the other person said.

因此，你並沒有將自己定位為權威，但你所說的話可能會拒絕或否定對方所說的話。

"I could be wrong, but my understanding is that we don't own a property in the South."

「我可能是錯的，但我的理解是我們在南方沒有房產。」

"I could be wrong, but my understanding is that we don't have the budget to promote it on Facebook."

「我可能是錯的，但我的理解是我們沒有預算在 Facebook 上推廣它。」

You can also say, "I might be missing something, but my understanding is that..." right?

你也可以說：「我可能遺漏了一些東西，但我的理解是......」對吧？

I could be wrong or I might be missing something.

我可能是錯的，或者我可能遺漏了一些東西。

While probably you know what things are like and you have the big picture, but you are, it's a humble way to disagree.

雖然你可能知道事情是什麼樣的，而且你有大局觀，但你確實是這樣，這是一種謙虛的表達不同意見的方式。

So, "I could be wrong" or "I might be missing something, but..."

所以，「我可能是錯的」或「我可能漏掉了一些東西，但是...」

And hey, maybe you are missing something and then they would tell you what you are wrong and they are right.

嘿，也許你錯過了一些東西，然後他們會告訴你你錯了什麼，他們是對的。

But either way, these phrases, especially if you memorize them and practice them, would be very, very helpful whenever you need to disagree with someone and share a different opinion than the other person.

但無論哪種方式，當你需要不同意某人的觀點並與他人分享不同的觀點時，這些短語，特別是如果你記住它們並練習它們，將會非常非常有幫助。

If you have other phrases or sentences that you think are useful, share them in the comments below.

如果你還有其他你認為有用的短語或句子，請在下面的評論中分享。

In the meantime, thank you so much for being here.

If you enjoyed this episode, please consider sharing and subscribing, especially shared with all those people who don't really know how to politely disagree with someone.

如果你喜歡本集，請考慮分享和訂閱，特別是與那些不知道如何禮貌地反對某人的人分享。

我想他們可能會覺得這很有幫助。

And either way, subscribe to my channel to get updates about any new video that I release.

無論哪種方式，請訂閱我的頻道以獲取有關我發布的任何新影片的更新。

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