Name: 跟另一半之間有些問題解決不了嗎？也許你們只是想得太複雜了！讓這群 7 歲的孩子們為你們解惑吧！(Couples Therapy But The Therapist Is 7 Years Old | Kid Theory)
Uploaded: 2023-03-14T21:01:30.000Z
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MrBeast surprised his girlfriend with 100,000 roses.

MrBeast 用 100,000 朵玫瑰花給他的女朋友驚喜。

How did you see the world when you were a kid?

你小時候是怎麼看待這個世界的？

We brought in three couples to receive counseling from kid therapists to see if a kid's perspective could guide the couples through their relationship struggles.

我們邀請了三對情侶來接受兒童治療師的諮詢，看看孩子的觀點是否可以指導這些伴侶走出他們之間的困境。

I think a therapist is someone who helps other people.

我認為治療師是幫助其他人的人。

People or couples if they're having a bad day or are in a bad... or if they are in a bad situation.

幫助人們或夫妻，如果他們過得很糟糕或處在不好的狀況中。

We have a couple of things that we might need to work on.

So I'm very, very different from my wife here, Kathy.

我跟我的老婆 Kathy 非常不一樣。

But that means I also like to stay at home a lot and just kind of do things, you know, on my own and play video games with my friends.

但這表示我也喜歡很常待在家，做自己的事情，跟朋友打電動。

Yeah, so I prefer going out. So I like hanging out with my friends outside.

對，但我喜歡出門。我喜歡跟朋友去外面，

I like going out hiking , picnic, you know, the park.

我喜歡外出健行，野餐，去公園。

Yeah, I actually have a park by me. I also like to ride bikes and stuff.

我家附近有座公園。我也喜歡騎腳踏車之類的。

Yeah, so our problem is that I like going out and he prefers thing indoor.

所以我們的問題是，我喜歡出門而他喜歡室內活動。

So every weekend we have, you know, trouble deciding what to do and we always argue about it.

所以每個週末，我們很難決定要做什麼事情，每次都會爭執。

You know "Pokemon Go"? It's like a video game, but you can walk around. You can try that out.

你們知道 Pokemon Go 這個遊戲嗎？它就像電玩，但可以邊走邊玩。你們可以試試看。

So the first of the week, you play video games that he likes and then the other 50% of the week then you have to do what she likes.

所以一個禮拜一半的時間你們玩他喜歡的電玩，然後剩下的一半時間做她喜歡做的事情。

Right now, it's 80% video games and 20% going out.

現在的時間分配是 80% 打電動，20% 出門。

沒有？我們有時候會因為 Instagram 有分歧。

I don't know. I sometimes have a problem that you don't like to post me on your Instagram.

不知道耶。有時候我會在意你不喜歡在 Instagram 發我。

You should be proud of who you're with, like you should want to post them.

你應該為對於你跟誰在一起感到驕傲，你會想要發對方。

I don't know. It's just sometimes it feels like he tries to hide me.

不知道耶。只是有時候感覺他想把我藏起來。

I don't think that it's much of a big deal. If you want to contact virtually you should use text messages.

我認為這沒什麼大不了的。 如果你們想虛擬交流，應該傳簡訊。

用 Facetime 或是⋯⋯- 或是 Zoom。

I get a little grumpy when I have a bad day.

我心情不好時會有點脾氣暴躁。

I come home and I do put it on her sometimes.

有時候我回到家會把氣出在她身上。

And I don't know how to deal with this sometimes. I don't know how to make him not be grumpy.

而我有時候會不知道如何應對。我不知道要如何讓他不脾氣暴躁。

你知道我們該怎麼解決這個問題嗎？

Well, I would think probably like if you guys have like other rooms, you could go to one room and then you can go to one room.

我覺得也許如果你們有其他房間，你可以去其中一間，然後你去另外一間。

And then when you cool down, you can tell her all about it. - That make sense.

等你冷靜後，再把你的心情說出來。- 有道理。

I feel like we sort of disagree on things when it comes to like jealousy and fear of losing someone.

我覺得我們在吃醋和害怕失去對方上有分歧。

Like all relationships end and it is gonna either end in break up, in death or divorce.

每段關係都會結束，要麽是分手、死亡或離婚。

Are you afraid that I would lose... I would leave you? - No.

你怕我會⋯⋯我會離開你嗎？ - 不會。

So if you guys had to choose, would you propose right now?

如果可以選擇的話，你會現在就求婚嗎？

Just straight up pull out a ring and propose right there.

在這裡直接拿出戒指，然後求婚。

That... that's like, you got to plan that, so I would, I would say no, no.

這個是需要計畫的，所以我現在不會這樣做。

But like, as of right now, just get down on my knee, that wouldn't make sense.

但如果是現在就跪下求婚，感覺很不合理。

Well, I think of it like a rank, like karate, do you have like this belt?

我覺得這就像有等級，像空手道，你有這樣的腰帶嗎？

You're at the second highest ranking and then when you get married you go to a black belt.

你在第二高的排名，然後當你結婚時你會成為黑帶。

Okay, so you think it would be like a level up?

所以你覺得結婚會是上升一級。

I do have something else on else advice with though. - Okay.

我確實有其他需要建議的事情。 - 好的。

So at home, we live together and I do everything around the house and he's great at cooking.

在家，因為我們住在一起，都是我做家裡所有的家事，然後他煮飯。

So he does the cooking, but I do everything else.

他煮飯，但其他事情都是我做的。

Do you think that's fair amount of chores?

你覺得這樣的家事量是公平的嗎？

我們可以怎麼讓這件事變得比較公平呢？

Do you do 50% of the house, and then he does the other 50%?

你做一半的家事，然後他做另外一半的家事呢？

You have to chop the stuff, you have to buy the stuff.

I cook every single day, but you only clean every three or four days.

我每天都煮飯，但你只要每三到四天打掃一次就好。

I have an idea. First, teach her how to cook.

我有個想法。首先，教她怎麼煮飯。

First started (with) eggs. Even I can make scrambled eggs.

先從蛋開始教她。就連我都會做炒蛋。

You just turn the oven on, get a pan, break the eggs, scramble up. Done.

打開火斯爐，拿一個平底鍋，打蛋，炒一炒。結束。

So he should teach me how to cook. I should help him cook more and he should help me clean more.

所以他應該要教我怎麼煮飯。我應該要幫忙他做飯，然後他幫我打掃。

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