MrBeast surprised his girlfriend with 100,000 roses.

MrBeast 用 100,000 朵玫瑰花給他的女朋友驚喜。

100,000 roses. - That's good.

100,000 朵玫瑰花。- 很讚耶。

How did you see the world when you were a kid?

你小時候是怎麼看待這個世界的？

We brought in three couples to receive counseling from kid therapists to see if a kid's perspective could guide the couples through their relationship struggles.

我們邀請了三對情侶來接受兒童治療師的諮詢，看看孩子的觀點是否可以指導這些伴侶走出他們之間的困境。

Do you know what a therapist is?

你知道什麼是治療師嗎？

I think a therapist is someone who helps other people.

我認為治療師是幫助其他人的人。

People or couples if they're having a bad day or are in a bad... or if they are in a bad situation.

幫助人們或夫妻，如果他們過得很糟糕或處在不好的狀況中。

Hi, my name is Isabel.

嗨，我是 Isabel。

Hello. - Hi.

哈摟。- 嗨。

This is Ruby. I'm Andrew.

這是 Ruby。我是 Andrew。

Nice to meet you.

很高興認識你。

Nice to meet you too.

我也很高興認識你。

Hello, my name is Evan.

哈，我是 Evan。

Hi, Evan. Thank you.

嗨 Evan。謝謝你。

Hello.

哈摟。

Are you Gavin?

你是 Gaviin 嗎？

Yes. So how are you guys feeling today?

對。所以你們好嗎？

I'm feeling good.

我很好。

I'm feeling nervous.

我蠻緊張的。

I've never done the... - Same here.

我沒有過⋯⋯- 我也是。

We have a couple of things that we might need to work on.

我們有些問題需要解決。

So I'm very, very different from my wife here, Kathy.

我跟我的老婆 Kathy 非常不一樣。

I love video games a lot. - Same here.

我非常愛打電動。- 我也是。

But that means I also like to stay at home a lot and just kind of do things, you know, on my own and play video games with my friends.

但這表示我也喜歡很常待在家，做自己的事情，跟朋友打電動。

Yeah, so I prefer going out. So I like hanging out with my friends outside.

對，但我喜歡出門。我喜歡跟朋友去外面，

I like going out hiking , picnic, you know, the park.

我喜歡外出健行，野餐，去公園。

Yeah, I actually have a park by me. I also like to ride bikes and stuff.

我家附近有座公園。我也喜歡騎腳踏車之類的。

Yeah, so our problem is that I like going out and he prefers thing indoor.

所以我們的問題是，我喜歡出門而他喜歡室內活動。

So every weekend we have, you know, trouble deciding what to do and we always argue about it.

所以每個週末，我們很難決定要做什麼事情，每次都會爭執。

Wait, I have an idea.

等等，我有個想法。

You know "Pokemon Go"? It's like a video game, but you can walk around. You can try that out.

你們知道 Pokemon Go 這個遊戲嗎？它就像電玩，但可以邊走邊玩。你們可以試試看。

So the first of the week, you play video games that he likes and then the other 50% of the week then you have to do what she likes.

所以一個禮拜一半的時間你們玩他喜歡的電玩，然後剩下的一半時間做她喜歡做的事情。

Okay, got you. - 50, 50.

好，我懂你。- 一半一半。

I like that a lot.

我很喜歡這個點子。

Right now, it's 80% video games and 20% going out.

現在的時間分配是 80% 打電動，20% 出門。

So we have to split it halfway down.

所以我們應該分成一半。

Yeah, I like that. That's fair.

對，我喜歡這想法。很公平。

Yeah. Okay.

對，沒錯。

So what do you guys disagree on?

你們對什麼事情有分歧呢？

What do we disagree on?

我們對什麼事情有分歧？

Do you have Instagram?

你有用 Instagram 嗎？

No? We disagree on Instagram sometimes.

沒有？我們有時候會因為 Instagram 有分歧。

I don't know. I sometimes have a problem that you don't like to post me on your Instagram.

不知道耶。有時候我會在意你不喜歡在 Instagram 發我。

You should be proud of who you're with, like you should want to post them.

你應該為對於你跟誰在一起感到驕傲，你會想要發對方。

I don't know. It's just sometimes it feels like he tries to hide me.

不知道耶。只是有時候感覺他想把我藏起來。

I don't think that it's much of a big deal. If you want to contact virtually you should use text messages.

我認為這沒什麼大不了的。 如果你們想虛擬交流，應該傳簡訊。

Facetime or... - Or Zoom.

用 Facetime 或是⋯⋯- 或是 Zoom。

Yeah.

沒錯。

Zoom me.

跟我用 Zoom 視訊。

Yeah, we could, I guess, huh?

我們應該可以，我猜，對吧？

How can I help you guys?

你們需要什麼幫忙呢？

I get a little grumpy when I have a bad day.

我心情不好時會有點脾氣暴躁。

Yeah.

對。

I come home and I do put it on her sometimes.

有時候我回到家會把氣出在她身上。

And I don't know how to deal with this sometimes. I don't know how to make him not be grumpy.

而我有時候會不知道如何應對。我不知道要如何讓他不脾氣暴躁。

Do you know how we can fix that?

你知道我們該怎麼解決這個問題嗎？

Well, I would think probably like if you guys have like other rooms, you could go to one room and then you can go to one room.

我覺得也許如果你們有其他房間，你可以去其中一間，然後你去另外一間。

Okay.

好喔。

And then when you cool down, you can tell her all about it. - That make sense.

等你冷靜後，再把你的心情說出來。- 有道理。

Yeah, that's a good idea.

對，這是個好方法。

Why didn't I think of that?

為什麼我之前沒想到？

We never thought of that.

我們從沒想過這個做法。

I feel like we sort of disagree on things when it comes to like jealousy and fear of losing someone.

我覺得我們在吃醋和害怕失去對方上有分歧。

Like all relationships end and it is gonna either end in break up, in death or divorce.

每段關係都會結束，要麽是分手、死亡或離婚。

Are you afraid that I would lose... I would leave you? - No.

你怕我會⋯⋯我會離開你嗎？ - 不會。

Just wondering.

只是好奇。

So if you guys had to choose, would you propose right now?

如果可以選擇的話，你會現在就求婚嗎？

Propose right now?

現在求婚？

What?

什麼？

Just straight up pull out a ring and propose right there.

在這裡直接拿出戒指，然後求婚。

That... that's like, you got to plan that, so I would, I would say no, no.

這個是需要計畫的，所以我現在不會這樣做。

Like if you had it planned though.

如果是已經計畫了呢？

Oh, if I had a plan. Of course, yes.

如果有計畫喔。當然會啊。

But like, as of right now, just get down on my knee, that wouldn't make sense.

但如果是現在就跪下求婚，感覺很不合理。

Well, I think of it like a rank, like karate, do you have like this belt?

我覺得這就像有等級，像空手道，你有這樣的腰帶嗎？

You're at the second highest ranking and then when you get married you go to a black belt.

你在第二高的排名，然後當你結婚時你會成為黑帶。

Okay, so you think it would be like a level up?

所以你覺得結婚會是上升一級。

Yes.

對。

Okay.

好喔。

I do have something else on else advice with though. - Okay.

我確實有其他需要建議的事情。 - 好的。

So at home, we live together and I do everything around the house and he's great at cooking.

在家，因為我們住在一起，都是我做家裡所有的家事，然後他煮飯。

So he does the cooking, but I do everything else.

他煮飯，但其他事情都是我做的。

Do you think that's fair amount of chores?

你覺得這樣的家事量是公平的嗎？

How can we make that more fair?

我們可以怎麼讓這件事變得比較公平呢？

Do you do 50% of the house, and then he does the other 50%?

你做一半的家事，然後他做另外一半的家事呢？

But cooking is a lot of work.

但煮飯有很多事情要做。

You have to chop the stuff, you have to buy the stuff.

要切東西，買東西。

I cook every single day, but you only clean every three or four days.

我每天都煮飯，但你只要每三到四天打掃一次就好。

I clean the kitchen every day.

我每天都會清廚房。

That's true.

是沒錯。

Yeah. You have a point.

對，你有道理。

I have an idea. First, teach her how to cook.

我有個想法。首先，教她怎麼煮飯。

Okay.

好。

First started (with) eggs. Even I can make scrambled eggs.

先從蛋開始教她。就連我都會做炒蛋。

You just turn the oven on, get a pan, break the eggs, scramble up. Done.

打開火斯爐，拿一個平底鍋，打蛋，炒一炒。結束。

Thank you for teaching.

感謝你的教學。

So he should teach me how to cook. I should help him cook more and he should help me clean more.

所以他應該要教我怎麼煮飯。我應該要幫忙他做飯，然後他幫我打掃。

Yes.

沒錯。

I love that.

我贊同。

Her and my sister don't really get along.

他跟我妹妹處得不太好。

Yeah. And I'm not sure why, you know, I don't know how to talk to her. She doesn't talk to me.

沒錯。我不是很確定為什麼，我不知道怎麼跟她說話，因為她不跟我說話。

So how do you think I should try to befriend her?

你覺得我應該怎麼跟她當朋友呢？

Probably get her like a gift and tell her how you really feel like, "Oh, I think you're not like being nice." And probably say something like that.

可能送禮物給她，然後告訴她你真實的感受，像是「我覺得你不喜歡友善。」 可能說類似這樣的話。

Okay, well, do you think she would want to talk to me though?

好，你覺得她會想跟我說話嗎？

Probably. Give her flowers and a card or like a teddy bear, like most people do. - Okay.

有可能。送她花還有卡片，或是泰迪熊，像大家都喜歡的一樣。- 好。

She loves "Nightmare Before Christmas."

她喜歡《聖誕夜驚魂》這部電影。

You see. Yeah, you should have told me that.

看吧？你應該早點告訴我的。

Well, there you go.

你現在知道了。

On YouTube, do you see happy couples?

在 YouTube 上，你有看到開心的情侶嗎？

Oh, yeah. MrBeast surprised his girlfriend with 100,000 roses.

有啊。MrBeast用 100,000 朵玫瑰花給他的女朋友驚喜。

100,000 roses. - That's good.

100,000 朵玫瑰花。- 很讚耶。

I guess if she wants like a necklace or ring, you should save up to buy what she wants.

如果她想要項鍊或戒指之類的東西，你應該存錢買她想要的東西。

I think he does do that.

他確實有這樣做。

He surprises me a lot, so I think that was good advice.

他很常給我驚喜，所以我覺得你給了一個很好的建議。

He's meeting those requirements right now.

他現在有做到這些要求。

Well, I appreciate you taking the time out to sit down and talk (about) our problems with us.

感謝你抽出時間坐下來跟我們討論我們的問題。

Thanks, Kevin.

謝謝你，Kevin。

We're gonna find those games. Okay.

我們會找到你說的那些遊戲的。

Bye. - Bye.

掰。- 掰。

It was nice meeting you.

很高興認識你。

Nice meeting you too.

我也很高興認識你。

Thanks, doc.

謝謝你，醫生。

Alright.

好喔。

What do you think makes a relationship work?

你覺得是什麼因素讓一段感情可以成功？

That they trust in each other and to love each other and not cheat on each other.

彼此信任，彼此相愛，而不是互相欺騙。

I think love is a level beyond friendship.

我覺得愛情比友誼更高一級。

It takes a lot of hope and a lot of responsibility and trust to make a relationship work.

建立一段關係需要很多的希望、很大的責任和信任。

My best suggestion for games, "Among Us" or "Friday Night Funkin".

我建議玩的遊戲是《Among Us》 或是《週五放克夜》。

"Among Us" is like, oh! there's imposters and stuff.

《Among Us》裡面有內鬼還有其他的。

And then "Friday Night Funkin'" is like, it's like a beat game.

然後 《週五放克夜》是打鬥遊戲。

"Roblox" is pretty good because it has a whole bunch of different games. There's a game called "Sims".

《機器磚塊》很讚因為裡面有很多不一樣的遊戲。裡面有個遊戲叫做《模擬市民》。

I don't really like it, but my mom does because like it's like a real life, but inside of a game.

我沒有很喜歡，但我媽很喜歡，因為這很像是在遊戲中玩真實的人生。

So you think she'd like that? Maybe we should try it out? - Yes.

你覺得她會喜歡嗎？ 也許我們應該試一下？ - 沒錯。