Why do people treat you in a specific way?

為什麼人們會以一種特定的方式對待你？

Could it be because they find you attractive?

會不會是因為他們覺得你有吸引力？

Let's put your mind to ease and take a look at science?

讓我們放下心來，看一看科學？

You are secretly attractive.

你是祕密地有吸引力的。

Number one others go out of their way to help you.

第一，其他人不顧一切地幫助你。

Do your coworkers often offer to help you with your tasks.

你的同事是否經常主動幫助你完成任務。

Do people jump at any opportunity to help you with a problem you're having?

人們是否抓住任何機會來幫助你解決你遇到的問題？

People are more likely to come to your aid when they are attracted to you, They naturally help you as they are curious about you and would like to get a chance to get to know you, in essence, people attempting to assist you are trying to make themselves look good in front of you to earn your good opinion as you have rent.

當人們被你吸引時，他們更有可能來幫助你，他們自然會幫助你，因為他們對你很好奇，希望有機會了解你，實質上，試圖幫助你的人是想讓自己在你面前看起來很好，以贏得你的好感，因為你有租金。

There's number two people are shocked that you have insecurities.

有第二種情況，人們對你有不安全感感到震驚。

It's not to have insecurities yet.

就是還不能有不安全感。

One must make sure that they don't take over.

人們必須確保它們不被接管。

But when others find you attractive, they're quick to place you on a pedestal and presume that you're flawless.

但是，當別人發現你有吸引力時，他們很快就會把你放在一個基座上，並假定你是完美無瑕的。

People think you've managed to sidestep all the common insecurities just by looking at you since you appear self assured and capable to them, they're quick to assume that everything is perfect on your end.

人們認為你已經成功地避開了所有常見的不安全感，只需看著你，因為你在他們看來是自我保證和有能力的，他們很快就會認為你的一切都很完美。

This is why most people are astonished when you say you're insecure or desire to change some features of yourself.

這就是為什麼當你說你沒有安全感或渴望改變自己的某些特徵時，大多數人都感到驚訝。

But the truth is that everyone suffers from those self esteem at some point in their lives.

但事實是，每個人在生活中的某個階段都會受到這些自尊心的影響。

If you often shock people when you speak about your insecurities?

如果你在談到自己的不安全感時，經常會讓人感到震驚？

It may be a sign that they find you extremely attractive.

這可能是一個跡象，表明他們覺得你非常有吸引力。

Number three, you're good at expressing yourself.

第三，你善於表達自己。

Are you adept at expressing your opinions?

你是否善於表達自己的意見？

Do you always manage to say what you think?

你總是能說出你的想法嗎？

The more at ease you are with yourself, the more you're not concerned about impressing others.

你對自己越放心，你就越不關心如何給別人留下好印象。

The culture powered by social media may make it seem imperative to gain the approval of others above all else.

由社交媒體驅動的文化可能使人覺得必須獲得他人的認可，而不是其他一切。

So it takes a lot of maturity to realize that this urge to impress others isn't important at all.

是以，要認識到這種給別人留下深刻印象的衝動一點也不重要，這需要很大的成熟度。

And that being helpful is more essential than going viral or being praised when you stick to what's right?

而當你堅持做正確的事時，樂於助人比走紅或被讚美更重要？

Rather than caring about what others will say, your confidence makes you very attractive?

與其說是關心別人會怎麼說，不如說是你的自信讓你非常有吸引力？

Two others.

另外兩個。

Number four, you have wholesome conversations with people.

第四，你與人進行健康的對話。

Let's not forget that attractiveness isn't solely determined by your physical appearance.

讓我們不要忘記，吸引力並不完全由你的身體外表決定。

Sure.

當然。

It's a fantastic place to start.

這是一個奇妙的開始。

But being attractive is about so much more than how you look.

但是，具有吸引力不僅僅是指你的外表。

You're not just appealing, but you're also terrific company.

你不僅有吸引力，而且還是個了不起的公司。

If you find yourself having incredible discussions and amazing banter, If you have a way with words, then there's a good chance people are attracted to what you have to say.

如果你發現自己有令人難以置信的討論和驚人的戲謔，如果你有話語權，那麼人們很有可能被你所說的話所吸引。

Number five, you don't want attention.

第五，你不希望受到關注。

Have you ever observed that you get a lot of attention when you wish to spend some alone time, for example, friends call to arrange a meeting or your family might invite you over?

你有沒有觀察到，當你希望度過一些獨處的時間時，你會得到很多關注，例如，朋友打電話來安排會議，或者你的家人可能會邀請你過去？

What does it mean when it happens frequently to you?

當它經常發生在你身上時，這意味著什麼呢？

Well, it simply indicates that people regard you as dependable and stable.

嗯，這只是表明人們認為你是可靠和穩定的。

They know they'll get something valuable if they ask for it.

他們知道，如果他們提出要求，就會得到有價值的東西。

So they take as much as they can.

是以，他們儘可能多地拿走。

They stay around you for the genuineness and positive vibes you bring along.

他們留在你身邊是因為你帶來的真誠和積極的氛圍。

Number six, you often catch people staring at you, meeting another person's gaze, especially if it's sustained can be a sign of attraction in casual conversations.

第六，你經常抓到別人盯著你看，與另一個人的目光相遇，特別是如果它是持續的可以在休閒談話中成為一種吸引人的跡象。

If others lock their eyes with yours for a very long time, it it might be because they find you interesting and don't want to miss anything you do or say.

如果別人把目光鎖定在你的身上很長時間，那可能是因為他們覺得你很有趣，不想錯過你做的或說的任何事情。

People may also make eye contact with you without realizing it.

人們也可能在不知不覺中與你進行眼神交流。

Since they're staring at you when you grab their attention, they may swiftly avert their sight and appear uneasy or nervous.

因為當你抓住他們的注意力時，他們正盯著你，他們可能會迅速轉移視線，顯得不安或緊張。

And number seven people open up to you easily.

第七，人們很容易向你敞開心扉。

Are you a personal favorite secret keeper for them?

你是他們個人喜歡的祕密保管人嗎？

People tend to divulge more personal and sensitive information with those they find attractive whether it's to develop a connection or simply because you appear trustworthy to them.

人們傾向於向他們認為有吸引力的人透露更多的個人和敏感資訊，無論是為了發展聯繫，還是僅僅因為你在他們看來是值得信任的。

If you are frequently taken aback by the personal information individuals disclosed to you, you might want to consider it because your trustworthiness attracts their attention when they want a shoulder to lean on.

如果你經常因個人向你披露的個人信息而大吃一驚，你可能要考慮一下，因為當他們想要一個可以依靠的肩膀時，你的可信度會吸引他們的注意。

The signs mentioned are just a tip of the iceberg.

所提到的跡象只是冰山一角。

Human nature is complex and there in lies.

人類的本性是複雜的，而且有謊言。

Its beauty.

它的美麗。

Beauty is far more than skin deep.

美麗遠遠超過皮膚的深度。

It's what's on the inside that matters most.

最重要的是裡面的東西。

You're more than just your appearance.

你不僅僅是你的外表。

It's important to look beyond the surface and cherish what makes you who you are.

重要的是要超越表面，珍惜使你成為你自己的原因。

Do you know any other traits that others may find attractive?

你還知道其他一些別人可能覺得有吸引力的特徵嗎？

Feel free to leave a comment with your experiences, feedback or suggestions.

歡迎留下你的經驗、反饋或建議的評論。

If you find this video helpful, be sure to hit the like button and share it with others too.

如果你覺得這段視頻對你有幫助，一定要按下喜歡按鈕，並與其他人分享。

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不要忘記訂閱去，並點擊通知鈴以獲得更多新的視頻。

Thanks so much for watching.

非常感謝您的觀看。