How can you tell where it's going to lead?

你怎麼能知道它將被引向何處？

Friendships can be complicated, especially when there is potential for them to develop into something more.

友誼可能很複雜，特別是當它們有可能發展成更多東西的時候。

They say all the best relationships started off as friendships, but sometimes you just can't bring yourself to admit it.

他們說所有最好的關係都是從友誼開始的，但有時你就是不能讓自己承認這一點。

Your fear of losing them, hold you back to help you self reflect and bring a little more clarity to this topic.

你對失去他們的恐懼，牽制了你，幫助你自我檢討，使這個話題更加清晰。

Here are five hints that your friendship is becoming romantic.

這裡有五個暗示，你們的友誼正在變得浪漫。

Number one you notice changes in body language if they sit up straighter or cross their legs, do you also do the same without realizing it?

第一，你注意到身體語言的變化，如果他們坐得更直或交叉雙腿，你是否也會在不知不覺中做同樣的事？

Do you prefer to stay closer to each other when you hang out in a group?

當你們在一起玩的時候，你們是否更喜歡互相靠近？

If you pay attention, you might pick up on changes in your friend's body language indicating that they are attracted to you.

如果你注意，你可能會發現你朋友的身體語言的變化，表明他們被你吸引。

You and your friend might make more eye contact, even if it's unintentional, you might start to notice these cues in your movements too.

你和你的朋友可能會有更多的目光接觸，即使是無意的，你也可能開始注意到你動作中的這些線索。

Some of these indicators might be cliche, like playing with your hair when they're around, but more subtle signs include fidgeting and subconsciously copying movements.

其中一些指標可能是老生常談，比如在他們身邊時玩弄你的頭髮，但更微妙的跡象包括煩躁不安和下意識地模仿動作。

Number two, you get jealous of each other's past or potential partners.

第二，你會嫉妒對方過去或潛在的伴侶。

Do you smell something in the air, jealousy is an obvious sign that feelings are developing before your friendship started to feel like it could be something more you didn't care much about their exes or who they had a crush on, but now when these topics come up, you're envious of the other person involved.

你在空氣中聞到了什麼嗎？嫉妒是感情發展的一個明顯跡象，在你們的友誼開始感覺到它可能是更多的東西之前，你並不太關心他們的前任或他們對誰有好感，但現在當這些話題出現時，你會羨慕對方的參與。

You used to talk about your love life freely with your friends, but now you find things can get a little tense and uncomfortable around this subject.

你曾經與你的朋友自由地談論你的愛情生活，但現在你發現圍繞這個話題，事情會變得有點緊張和不舒服。

Number three, you're more nervous around each other than usual.

第三，你們在對方身邊比平時更緊張。

Did you just spend the whole morning deciding what to wear Because you two are gonna hang out in the afternoon?

你是不是花了一上午的時間來決定穿什麼，因為你們兩個下午要出去玩？

Seems fishy at the beginning of your friendship.

在你們的友誼之初，似乎很可疑。

You felt no different around them than you do around the rest of your friends.

你覺得在他們身邊和在你其他朋友身邊沒有什麼不同。

But now it's a whole different story.

但現在是完全不同的情況。

You tend to put more thought into how you act when you're around them, you pay close attention to your appearance and demeanor when they're around.

當你在他們身邊時，你往往會更多地考慮你的行為方式，當他們在你身邊時，你會密切關注你的外表和舉止。

The bonus point is you notice them doing the same as well.

獎勵點是你注意到他們也在做同樣的事情。

If you to suddenly start acting differently around each other, it could be a hint that your dynamic is shifting from friendship to romance que the rose petals falling from above.

如果你們突然開始在對方身邊表現出不同的行為，這可能是一個暗示，你們的動態正在從友誼轉向浪漫，闕如玫瑰花瓣從上面落下。

Number four, your friends are starting to notice went out with a group of friends.

第四，你的朋友開始注意到和一群朋友出去了。

Do people ever assume that you're a couple?

人們是否曾經認為你們是一對？

Have your mutual friends started to tease you about having feelings for each other?

你們共同的朋友是否開始取笑你們對對方有感覺？

If so, chances are they can sense that you both want to be more than just friends after all, it is rumored that a friend can tell you things you don't want to tell yourself.

如果是這樣，他們有可能感覺到你們倆想成為的不僅僅是朋友，畢竟有傳言說，朋友可以告訴你一些你不想告訴自己的事情。

Do you agree when your chemistry is so strong that it's clear to others.

當你們的化學反應如此強烈，以至於別人都能清楚地看到，你是否同意。

That's a sign you might be going from friends to lovers instead of only paying attention to how things are when you hang out one on one, take notes on what happens when you're in a group setting two and number five.

這是一個跡象，你可能會從朋友變成戀人，而不是隻注意你們一對一出去玩時的情況，記下你們在小組環境中的情況，二號和五號。

Your conversations are deeper and more frequent.

你們的對話更深入、更頻繁。

Do you find yourself talking to them a lot more often than with your other friends?

你是否發現自己與他們交談的次數比與其他朋友交談的次數多？

Every friendship is different.

每段友誼都是不同的。

Some people talk daily while others catch up every once in a while.

有些人每天都在交談，而有些人則是每隔一段時間就敘舊。

Think back to the last few conversations you had with them.

回想一下你與他們的最後幾次談話。

Are you having more heart to hearts than usual?

你是否比平時有更多的心與心的交流？

Do you talk about deeper and more emotional topics?

你是否談論更深層次和更多的情感話題？

This is another hint that your friendship is changing, the feelings are developing.

這是另一個暗示，你們的友誼正在發生變化，感情正在發展。

They might also start to take more of an interest in the things you like and vice versa cue the violins.

他們也可能開始對你喜歡的東西產生更多的興趣，反之亦然，引出小提琴聲。

Whether your friendship turns into something more or stays as it is, it's important to remember every relationship is an opportunity for learning and evolving.

無論你們的友誼是變成更多東西還是保持現狀，重要的是要記住每一種關係都是學習和發展的機會。

These tips might help you consider the communication in your friendship and changes to look out for in the future.

這些提示可能會幫助你考慮你的友誼中的溝通和未來需要注意的變化。

Are there any other signs we missed?

還有其他我們錯過的跡象嗎？

Let us know in the comments below as always keep an eye on site for more psychical content.

請在下面的評論中告訴我們，並隨時關注網站上更多的心理學內容。

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